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Attention!!!
I own the copyrights of all the pictures in this profile. I am a professional photographer looking for models in Germany, Austria and Switzerland!
Freedom = Free Dom
English profile text further down....
Um zu jemandem aufzuschauen, muss man sich erst einmal hinknien können. Um Schwächen zuzugeben, muss man so stark sein, sie zu erkennen. Und nur ihr Herr macht eine Sub stark, gibt ihr Vertrauen und Sicherheit. Damit sie nicht nur zu sich findet und in sich ruht, sondern auch, damit sie ihm besser dienen kann.
Wenn ihr Fragen habt und durch Niveau, Stil und Intelligenz nicht abgeschreckt werdet, dann schreibt mir. Stellt Fragen zu BDSM, D/S, S/M, ich antworte gerne. Und ich beisse nicht. Und ich lasse mich finden, ich suche nicht. Wir können gerne hier chatten oder über yahoo.
Allen Fakes, Möchtegerns und "Cage-me-in-the-cellar-for-three-days"-Träumern, die auf dieser Plattform offenbar zu Hause sind, ins Stammbuch geschrieben - spart Euch Eure und meine Zeit. Letztere ist mir nämlich zu kostbar. Solltet Ihr eine Fernerziehung suchen, weil ihr in BDSM ohne Verpflichtungen "hineinschnuppern" möchtet, kein Problem. Alles andere kann, muss sich aber nicht ergeben. Traut Euch ruhig.
Ich bin auch professioneller Fotograf und suche echt veranlagte Subs für themenbezogene künstlerische Fotos. (siehe Profilbilder, die alle von mir sind).
Und noch ein Satz, der mir besonder gut gefällt:
"Does not TRUE submission set you free?" - Yes, it does.
As this is a mostly english-speaking website, here a rough translation of the above:
To look up at someone you must have the strength to kneel down. To admit weaknesses, you must be strong enough to recognise and admit them. And only her master makes a submissive strong. So she can serve him better.
If you are a newbie and feel your head buzzing from unsolved mysteries concerning the D/S lifestyle, just ask me. I am living D/S since 25 years and I answer your questions willingly whenever I have the time.
All fakes, wannabes and "Cage-me-in-the-cellar-for-three-days"-dreamers please switch to another profile. I do not have lots of time and therefore select my contacts, here and also in the Vanilla world which surrounds us. Not everything is BDSM, it's only a part of our lifes. Because we have to work, communicate and sleep also.
I am experienced in online education, real life education, have already introduced many novices and am willing to answer questions of seriously interested newbies. I have yahoo messenger to chat, just ask for the contact.
As I am also professional Photographer, I am looking for real submissives to act as models in my pictures. Feel free to inquire. All pics here on my profile are my work. Only the drawings are from others (names mentioned on the pics). I prefer small tits and flat chested slaves.
But as some here seem to have only a four-letter-words language-potential... please remember at least parts of your education when writing to me. I hate ignorance, lazyness, one-line-answers and I definitely love intelligence and style.
I have zero tolerance for fakes, posers, and women who think that they want and understand this kind of lifestyle, but in reality just want to be slapped on their ass and called a slut once a month.
That's not enough for me.
I speak english, german, italian and french. So don't hesitate to write.
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My advice:
don't waste your time thinking and composing, reading profiles and answering, trying to be reasonable, serious or witty.
You could write whatever you want - pages of well-fomulated esprit or poems or whatever...
Just copy/paste a meaningless, worn-out one-liner used a hundred times before, saying nothing. Like they do...
It will be good enough.
Wrong - it will be even too good...
Then just send it on its way and forget it as soon as you press "Enter" to send it.
It will be deleted unread anyway.
So save your time for better things to do.
In real life. |
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The internet is full with millions of selfies... they are everywhere - in social networks, on peoples websites, on porn sites and in the news, hovering in clouds over our heads and threatening to flood us like a never ending stream of digital mirror-shoots.
But then --- when asking some bodyless subs to send a proof of their feminity, then suddenly selfies are out of fashion, smartphones stopped working and cameras ran out of power....
Selfies? Never heard of..... |
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Jellyfish have no brain, but they exist on earth since 500 Millions of years.
Doesn't that give hope for the survival of the human race??
Strange - the older I get, the less humanistic I become...
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Can you explain to me that "deleted unread" disease raging here?
Why the hell are people registering with this website when they simply do not want to communicate? They write "Ask me" or "teach me" or "would love to hear from experienced doms living this lifestyle" - well, girls, then how about first of all reading those messages? Did you use-up all your words, your time and your energy when writing those three lines in your profile-text?
Then let me tell you - BDSM is like every fetish a time-consuming thing. It's a way of life, a passion, a dedication, mostly uncomfortable, demanding and, yes, time-consuming. Less time for typing unimportant SMS, surfing the net, looking for dresses and shoes...
You delete messages unread? But it is YOU asking for advice, for direction and wisdom.
It's not me...
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Finally --- "50 shades of grey - the film" is in the movie theaters and - no surprise - the sheer quantity of fresh "newbies and novices" -profiles here is rising alarmingly.
Girls, please! This story was written by a bored and undersexed british housewife! It has nothing - and I mean it, nothing!!! - to do with real life, real BDSM, real sadism or masochism. Now comes - the american movie of the british book. First weekend - 90 million Dollar ticket-sales in the US and Canada. Bible Belt - where it is still illegal to sell sex-toys - goes to see pubic hair...
BDSM comes originally from Europe. The Marquis de Sade (responsible for the word Sadism) was NOT american, but French. Alexander Sacher-Masoch (responsible for the word Masochism) was Austrian, NOT american. The inquisition (catholic church BDSM in the early 13th century) was NOT taking place between Manhattan and Chicago. But - considering all that - please don't think that a book from an british housewife is the new definition of BDSM, even if it sells millions of copies. It's a kind of UK-Disneyworld, but certainly not a picture of the true thing....Even if Hollywood paints it. |
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NEWS at the end of january....
45 Messages written in the last 30 days, primarly to users wanting to discusss BDSM-related stuff. Answers? Guess....NONE!
Means - not one.
Even worse - 30% were not even opened....
Girls, are you real and really interested? Are you able to read and write? You want no copy/paste messages - but if you get elaborated ones, you also do not answer. Where the hell is the difference? You are resonsible for the messages you and others get! Because after 100 sent messages without answer, even the most passionate and patient guy will start to copy/paste....
This website leaves me with two options - shovel the grave for the humanist inside me or just --- laugh..... |
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Sentences most encountered when zipping through the female subbie-profiles...
1. I am very new to this - means - I have just finished reading 50 shades of grey five minutes ago
2. I will not answer one-liners - means - well, I also don't answer two pagers...
3. If you wish to converse with me, keep it interesting (on an intellectual basis) - means - I found my lexicon again finally after looking for it for eight weeks!
4. Take me just as I am - means - well as I will never meet you in reality, no problem for me.
5. Hope to hear from someone soon - means - that will get me loads of messages and I can ignore them all!!!
6. Hello! My name is XXX and I am 18 years old - means - I am a fake and you should know it (it seems that this website acts like a magnet for barely 18 year old girls...)
7. I will not waste my time - means - I don't have any time at all and just because I waste my precious five minutes now here does not mean that I wait for you...
8. I am beautiful, gorgeous, simple and single... ---ohh, and I just wonder WHY???
9. I am seeking a Master that will own me for life --- oh my God, you are 23, how should you know what "lifelong" means?
10. Back again and hoping for better luck this time - well THAT at least is honest -- means -- I tried it already many times, came here, got the wrong person kicking my ass, saved my ass and am here again to get it kicked again.
----- Now that's what I call masochism....!!!! |
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YOU do not want to
- receive copy/paste messages
- be insulted or treated like a brainless piece of meat
- receive orders in your first PM
- have a dishonest master
- be called names
- send any pictures
- talk on webcam
- have to prove that you really exist
- receive messages from stupid idiots
- communicate with someone without a college degree
- offer anything, but expect everything...
In all these cases you will definitely NOT communicate.
But what if -- you don't communicate even if none of the above is true?? If you are approached with humour and respect, with a message written especially for you, nobody gives you names or issues orders, you do in fact communicate with someone intelligent who has finished not only college, but also university (did you??) and expects - nothing.
So please explain it to me again -- why exactly are you here?? |
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Plötzliche Wortverknappung...
facebook und twitter haben es vorgemacht - offenbar leiden immer mehr an Wortverknappung. Wer weiß, vielleicht gehen uns morgen die Worte ja aus, es gibt keine mehr zu kaufen und wir müssen mir denen auskommen, die wir noch haben? Also - sparen ist angesagt. Ein-Wort-Sätze sind in....Ausrufe an die Welt...oder maximal fünf-Wort-Sätze. Mehr ist Luxus, den wir uns nicht mehr leisten können oder wollen.
Oder ist es einfach Schreibfaulheit? Haben wir alle unsere Worte für heute schon in halbfertigen SMS, tweets und anderen unnötigen Meldungen verbraucht? Sind uns die worte ausgegangen wie die Ideen und die Phantasie?
Oder sind wir singles auch schon im Geiste und im Ausdruck? Haben 80% da draussen in der Schule geschlafen und wurden auch seither nicht richtig wach? Wurden sie durch den Unterricht belichtet und haben schon wieder alles vergessen, was sie für ihr Abitur brauchten?
Deswegen - besser keine Worte verschwenden. Antworten kosten Worte, die keiner mehr hat. Nicht zum kommunizieren sind wir hier, sondern um uns in unserer Einsamkeit zu sonnen. |
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Just found THAT on one of the US-profiles and it is sooo true, that I just made what all of those subbies and wannabe-slaves hate - copy/paste:
"If it's too good to be true, then it probably isn't true.
You read profiles of girls who are obviously fakes, or Nigerian or Eastern European Scammers, and you see that some Master has them "under consideration" or "owns them" when all they want to do is have you pay for webcam, or get your credit card number, or string you along in some phoney game.
It's pretty ridiculous, that anyone who would call themselves a Dominant, would be foolish enough to fall for such scammers.
"I need money for air fare"
or
"my mother is sick and I need to come see her"
or (... my favorite...)
"these photos cost me a lot of money"
...really, digital photos, cost "a lot" of money?
Too funny! Too sad! Report these scammers, and please, try not to be so foolish as to fall for them. It gives real Dominants a bad name."
Ooh yes, it does and it makes me angry when in the era of selfies all over the internet some fake doesn't want to send any pics simply because that would mean the end of his phoney profile! At their adress: please don't think that others are as stupid as you are! |
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devchen aus Düsseldorf (??) ist 18 (!!), Jungfrau (??? Nein, nicht im Sternbild), soooo unerfahren (laut eigenen Angaben), hat eigentlich keine Ahnung, was sie will, kann aber leider nicht irgendeinen Echtheitsbeweis antreten...
Nun, dann, Mr. Devchen, so long! |
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They are all learning....
Katie didn’t know it.
But she wasn’t the only one.
In her class.
With a sore pussy.
Two other girls.
Had been spanked.
By their roommates that morning.
Erika.
Over there by the windows.
Was used to it.
Her pussy was spanked.
Every morning.
Heather.
Two rows behind Katie.
Was miserable.
Her pussy.
Had been spanked.
With a belt.
Her pussy.
Was raw.
It had been.
A brutal belting.
But one Heather deserved.
A little too much to drink.
Saturday night.
And she had gone down.
On her roommate’s older sister.
The older sister had called Heather’s roommate.
That morning.
Cackling.
The roommate …
Fuming …
Got out the belt.
Katie herself.
Had been spanked.
For talking back.
The class …
Funny enough …
It was comparative Literature.
And comparatively...
...Katie wasn’t so bad off....
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Your panties belong into your mouth.
Or into your pussy.
Or into your pussy and THEN into your mouth...
But definitely not under that short dress that you plan to wear this evening!
Instead get yourself the big plug, bend forward and insert it.
That's all there is. And off we go...
You plan to attend the girlie-evening tonight? Fine with me, as long as you wear your "I am a slave. Use me. Abuse me" T-Shirt.
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'deleted unread' --- know what? You expect literary perfection in your PM's, adorable poems never seen before, individually composed orgasms of newly invented and combined words and no copy-paste nonsense?
BUT - why the hell should you get some when all you do is - delete messages unread?
Lack of style, lack of respect, lack of education. What a waste of time! |
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You are nothing.
You are not a person, you are an object. We don’t care about what you think, what you want, your drives, ambitions, cares or concerns. You are a set of holes and you will be treated as such. You may be ambulatory and mobile of your own accord, and that is occasionally useful - after all, we don’t want to have to always carry you from place to place. But don’t think that this makes you anything more.
At the end of the day you are just a set of holes. You will be forced into position and used in whatever way gives us the most pleasure. Your comfort or enjoyment is of no concern to anyone.
Not even you.
Your mind is trash and your body nothing but a punching bag for my cock to destroy.
The sooner you accept this, open yourself up and just let it happen, the sooner you can stop thinking at all.
And isn’t that happiness for you?
You know that the best way for a disobedient little slut to spend her day is to tease her with a vibrator for a few minutes before and after work. Switch the rubber cocks in her cunt and mouth, give her a bigger plug and add a few spanks. This is sure to correct any unexpected behavior during the day.
And then - you are the best entertainment during commercials anyway and you should be proud of it.
TV is so trashy these days, uneventful and too often simply boring . And then the commercials.... But with you next to that flatscreen ... It’s not like you deserve more than a few minutes of attention anyways. The best time is when you gets close to an orgasm that you have to fight off.
And then -- back to the movie again...leaving you in your position until the next commercial-break.
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hmm...manchmal frage ich mich, warum ausgerechnet jene subs, die sich gegen Ein-Zeilen-PMs verwehren, genau solche einzeiligen Nachrichten verschicken - ohne Anrede, ohne Stil, einfach hingerotzt. Genau das also, was sie sich bei Anschreiben verbeten.... strange. Sorry, aber das bringt Euch auf genau das selbe Niveau, über das ihr immer so ablästert.
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langsam mache ich mir Gedanken über die Sinnhaftigkeit eines Profils bei CM (außerhalb der Staaten). Seit ich hier 'eingezogen' bin, habe ich im reellen Leben zwei Sklavinnen-Novizinnen kennen gelernt und ausgebildet -während es hier auf CM nicht einen einzigen interessanten Kontakt gegeben hat. So rasch, wie manche Profile wieder verschwinden, kann man gar nicht schreiben...
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Well, many here complain about pre-fabricated messages, that are copied and pasted and sent. That is not my case. I try to really read the profiles (if there is any text), try to read them carefully, try to distinguish the fakes from the real people, write the appropriate text and - wait for an answer.
And then....nothing.
"Deleted unread", a carefully formulated answers like "fuck you" or no answer at all (after reading my carefully composed text).
So, ladies, you actually invite the copy-paste-strategy ! You and you alone.
The more I write, the higher is the possibility to get ANY answer at all. The rate actually? Well, about 2%. This platform is mostly a non-interacting one. "I am here and leave me alone, that's the best for all involved parties". That's how the common profile text should read.
Now in Germany you quickly discover one strange thing - about 50% of the women declaring here to live in Germany did never even see this country! They do NOT speak german (???) and if they do (maybe, you will never knoe) they do not answer, even not to say "Thank you, that's very kind of you, but I am not interested". In german. Which would be .... ahhhh .... obvious if living in Germany and writing to a german, don't you think so?
I have no idea why most of you are here at all. More fakes then ever, more "please send money for relocation"-girls then anywhere else.
Ahhh, yes, one more point - IF someone finally answers, you can be almost sure that it is a fake...
Welcome to the copy-paste-strategy
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Ooh, my little Ghana Girl, I love you! You look so cute on that profile-pic, but also so pale...(??) Are all people so pale in Ghana? Well, the weather definitely is different these days...
I can't wait that you relocate, can't wait to send you 1.000 US-dollar for the ticket so you can finally find your master in Europe! You will love me forever, I know, and I will be glad to let you spend my money, ruin my car and sink my boat. Doesn't matter, as long as we are together!
Your family? Well, I never had one here, so why not adopt one from Ghana? This is your brother? Really.... This too? Well, you definitely have a large family....And they all know a big spender when they see one. But you will give me sooooo much in return, n'est-ce pas?
You will always be my slave, until death do us part. Well, or at least as long as my money lasts. Then you will have disappeared, together with your clan, leaving soutbound and setting up the next profile on CollarMe.... copy-paste the text of your sisters in need.... and stealing a pic on the internet to make it more appetizing.....
Ooh sisters of Africa, you have so much to learn..... |
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Now that's a new twist in the PM-game....."Deleted unread"...wow, really constructive approach to mail....girls, if you are overwhelmed by mails,why not have a standard-answer ready (yes, the famous one and only copy-paste-answer) and at least respect minimalistic rules of conversation? You wonder, why some start to insist after having their mails "deleted unread"? Or why they block you? Or why they yell at you in CAPITAL LETTERS? Because the level of frustration rises, if you do not have a really strong self-esteem. That's maybe what this platform is - an exercise in self-discipline. You ask for long and exhausting PMs.... then why not at least read them? |
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oooh my....reading the profiles really makes me shiver sometimes... Wisdom comes in small portions, it seems....so many lines from subs read like the orders from dominant women...why?...how comes a sub is yelling at the readers of her profile in CAPITAL LETTERS...Don't DO THAT....DON'T COME CLOSE....DO NOT WRITE IF... did nobody teach you some subtle language, girls?.....you are here to find someone, not to discourage each and everyone from the first line of your small text....Today,the best find was : 'I am only on here because I am not sure what else to do'..... that really made my day..... how about go and play in the sandpit with your shovel and your sieve? If it does not make any difference if you register to a BDSM-site or ..... go to McDo and have a burger?..... |
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Was mich hier erschreckt, ist die Friedhofsruhe.... Dagegen ist die Sklavenzentrale eine wahre Dauerparty. Je mehr Nachrichten ich hier schreibe, desto mehr komme ich zu der Erkenntnis, daß subbies oder slaves hier keineswegs zu einem Gedankenaustausch angetreten sind, sie suchen nichts und wollen schon gar nichts finden. Sie wollen nicht mal kommunizieren. Am liebsten wollen sie in Ruhe gelassen werden.
20 PNs und keine einzige Reaktion....Wow! Ihr seid gut, Mädels. Egal wie freundlich und nett, ich kann inzwischen jene kurzangebundenen Drei-Zeiler-Schreiber verstehen, die den selben Text an alle schicken. Ist sowieso egal, schreibt sowieso keine zurück.
Und dann gibt es da noch die Möchtegern-subbies aus Ghana, die sich in Germany anmelden, weil das offenbar so nahe an Ghana liegt... und selbstverständlich jederzeit umziehen würden, wenn sie doch nur die 1.000 US$ für das Flugticket hätten...
Und das soll die größte international BDSM-Plattform am Internet sein? Da treffe ich mehr und nettere Leute in den Clubs und die reden auch noch mit mir, sind bemnüht und höflich und witzig und manchmal sogar sexy.
Ich glaube, hier werden seit Jahren Karteileichen mitgeschleppt, um mit einem großen Portfolio angeben zu können. We are the biggest, the best, the ....was weiß ich. Mag ja in den USA funktionieren, wer in Deutschland lebt geht besser woanders hin. |
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