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Male Dominant, 33, Houston, Texas
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Female Submissive, 48, Salt Lake City, Utah
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Female Dominant, 30, orlando, Florida
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About spoilldy
?I am a southern lady that likes to be pampered (we all do)??Looking for a SINGLE Dom male in Raleigh NC area. I will send pics after we chat. I prefer someone that is taller than me,bc I like to wear heels. I am a little new to lifestyle but willing to be trained.?My hard limits include anything that goes on in a restroom does not go on me :) and vise versa.? I am not interested in being one of many, I like to be the only one due to the fact I am new and some may say a little high maintance. In my everyday like I am in control and looking for someone that isnt scared of that and will challange me. ?????
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I am very well educated and I?am not looking?for someone to support me but that can bring what I can to the table ( so no I will not be your sugar mama;) ??
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?I like?the very start to be online but would rather be actually tied up then type about it. I am fairly new and will be happy to explain that in further detail once we chat.
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?To wrap it it up, I am a lady period, I will not walk around on a leash in public.?I am very well respected and intend to keep it that way. I am interested in finding someone that has?gentleman qualities but can give me "the look" in public if I get out of line bc raising your voice would be disrespectful to us both. Sorry but I am not looking to be anyones secret,if that were the case I would not have gotten out of my prior relationship.?Also,someone that knows the biggest sex organ is the brain.?I would like something that goes beyond the bedroom?bc?I can please myself there if that was all I needed. ????
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?I have only been in one D/s?relationship, it was not started that way but quickly got there and for a while I thought that I?was not a sub but just a sub to him,but I am looking to see if it is possible that maybe I can find someone that can push my limits and see where it may go. Respect is something that is earned,as well as trust and both are needed before anything else.???
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Let me repeat this one final and last time, if you are married or in a relationship I wish you the best but I can not and will not?do that again, it is not fair to you or me.?DO NOT message me and say well you are different etc I am sure you are and there are lots of ladies that do not care but I do. |
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These are my thoughts.....
D/s is stronger than marriage (remember my thoughts,my journal ) the respect, trust HAS to be there, as your sub I am trusting you with my heart,soul and sometimes my life. (I didn't trust my x to pay the power bill, sad but true)
Point of this is..when I find Dom and we agree to grow, learn, teach and enjoy each other, we will respect and trust each other and this doesn't happen quickly for me. It's like building a house,if you don't have a strong foundation as soon as a storm comes along, poof gone. I may be the one gone who knows.
Call me vanilla, hell call me rocky road I don't care, this isn't just sex,it's mental part that excites me. If you can make my brain orgasm then the rest is a given.
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I love reading journal entries on here, I feel you can learn from ppl and everything around you if you choose to do so.
I am amazed how ppl ask or actually tell others to give them material things,they must get some positive reponse. I am in no way judging anyone to each his own. Own your kink ,love it, share it,feed it and watch it grow. With that thought, I would like a David Yurman watch;) jk lol I already have one but I would like a new Tiffanys bracelet:) I am kidding but I do think it is amazing how that works. As well as online relationships, I am not judging it, I just dont understand it. I do think it is great that ppl can find a bond with someone else that they have never seen in person, but it is possible for sure, bc ppl have realtionships with God or whatever spiritual being they choose to embrace.
Also, with all the fakers, wanna be Dom/Sub ppl out there and The Mr "All my Dominance brings the Subs to my place to get used and abused but I will just type about it bc I dont have the cock to follow through" types I have actually chatted with some awesome ppl on here.
Yes all this is random and sporadic I know this. I hope all of you, even the fakers have a great weekend. |
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Ok I am starting to see that maybe CM is a joke. Maybe some ppl have nothing better to do then fib their way through life, that to me is sad but to each his own.
What does bother me is that there are ppl on here that are new to this, or maybe they just had the guts to acknowledge it and some are getting scared away from what may have taken them years to accept by fakers and wannabes. If someone TELLS you that you are thier "cunt" before they even know your name my best advice is to 1. laugh (one can not laugh enough)2. Block and move on.
Dont get me wrong there are some great fakers on this site, they know what to say ,when to say it. Best advice I can say is learn from it, you can.
Dont put all your eggs in one basket,ever. Think before you act. |
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DON'T UNDERESTIMATE THE SEDUCTIVE POWER OF A DECENT VOCABULARY |
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“In the beginning I was fooled by Dominants who were good looking, had charisma, dressed well, and had that “dominant” personae. I soon realized that these things are easy to fashion. Real Dominance is a deep and visceral thing, something that has nothing to do with the trappings of BDSM.” unknown |
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