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Am I a leather-clad biker from a Mad Max movie? Am I an irritable person with anger management issues? Am I a sexually frustrated guy who giggles nervously every time someone says "vagina"?
No, I'm surprisingly normal for someone on this site. I'm interested in meeting similar people with similar interests. Some people like opera. Some people like ultimate frisbee. I like spanking. OK, so it's not the most extreme of fetishes that people are into here but I enjoy it and I am pretty sure there are plenty of other people here who do as well.
I am personally experienced at giving spankings but I understand that everyone has different levels of experience and limits. Just be honest about what you are looking for, even if you aren't sure. First-timers who are curious about exploring this fetish are definitely welcome to contact me. The same goes for any experience level. Just be sane and open to enjoying the experience.
Now for the most anticipated questions:
Can I see a picture of you?
Yes, you sure can. Just ask me, but be willing to trade pics if yours aren't visible. The internet makes everything a smaller world so I just don't think it's a wise decision to publicly post pictures of myself on here, just as I'm sure you wouldn't want a neighbor or boss stumbling upon your profile either. I definitely think a pic exchange should happen though before we even plan on meeting in person.
What gender or sexual orientation are you looking for?
I am looking for women. Sorry, no trans. It's just my preference. As for sexual orientation, you can be straight, bisexual, or lesbian.
Will I be required to undress?
No, but I highly recommend it. Seriously, you will probably enjoy it a lot more if your butt is bared for the spanking. The physical sensations will obviously be felt much more distinctly. It will also probably help you to get into a compliant mindset so you will enjoy the experience more. For most people, it will be a little embarrassing but you might be surprised at just how much this kind of embarrassment can turn you on.
If you want to be as naked as you are in the shower, that's awesome. If you aren't comfortable taking off your clothes or want to be spanked over panties, that's fine too, but I recommend wearing something thin. Jeans and sweatpants are not good ideas.
What about sex?
Spanking has very strong sexual overtones for many people and can be extremely erotic. If there is mutual attraction and you are up for it, then yes, sex is definitely an option. In fact, most of the spanking encounters I have had ended in some kind of sex play. However, not everyone is interested in mixing sex with spanking. That's fine too. We will both still enjoy the experience without sexual pressure. Sometimes spanking and sex are black and white, but sometimes there is a very large gray area.
Just as an example, I recently spanked a lesbian college girl. There was obviously no sex but it was still an erotic experience, and she masturbated to orgasm as soon as the spanking was over, before she got dressed.
Will it be very painful?
Any spanking will definitely involve some amount of pain, whether it's just a mild sting or an excruciating ordeal that turns you into a crying mess who is unable to sit comfortably for a week. I enjoy giving both kinds of spanking and everything in between.
Like I mentioned before, I am very good with first-timers, and I can help you explore your limits. Meeting anyone on here in person is risky, so I try to do what I can to help you explore your spanking fantasies in a safe and comfortable way. I don't mind taking breaks during a spanking session to let your butt cool off.
For those into more intense spanking sessions, I am great with straps, paddles, canes, etc. but I still like to play it safe. I definitely recommend safe words and I do respect them. I will definitely give you the sort of intensity you crave though.
Do you do roleplay?
Yeah, but only if it's good. Otherwise, why bother?
I'm into other fetishes besides spanking. Are you also interested in [insert your personal fetishes here]?
Absolutely not! Repent, you wicked sinner! That's disgusting!
I'm just kidding. Yes, I do have other interests, and we might have more fetishes in common than just spanking. Just ask me and I will give you a straight answer. I'm serious. Just ask.
Are you willing to switch so I can spank you?
I prefer the dominant role, and that's the role I am actively seeking on here. However, I also enjoy being on the receiving end. If anything, being familiar with what it feels like on the receiving end makes me a better spanker.
Will you be my boyfriend/master/roommate?
Probably not. I'm just interested in play partners. Anything beyond that will have to be on my terms.
What non-sexual and non-fetish stuff are you into?
I enjoy literature, especially sci-fi/fantasy genre stuff. Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card is my all-time favorite. I'm also into building computers and writing. I work out at the gym several times a week, and spend plenty of time playing video games, especially open-world games like Fallout and Skyrim. |
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I recently bought a new suede flogger to use for spanking. Floggers like this one look intimidating to the uninitiated, but for those who are curious, let me describe how it's used.
First, it's only practical when used on bare skin, so if modesty is a concern, then this is not the spanking implement for you. The flogger is basically a leather whip with a lot of tails. No, it's nothing like a whip used on Southern plantations or in the more barbaric parts of the world. When all those leather tails first strike your bare butt, it won't be painful. It will be a faint sting that tickles more than anything else. However, the sting gradually builds over time until it actually does start to hurt. This means that the flogger is best used for a long spanking. My favorite position to use the flogger involves your on all fours on the bed with your head down and your naked butt up. |
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BDSM community dictionary:
"Pro Domme" = A hooker who beats you up instead of it being the other way around
"Ebony Goddess" = A bitch who is also black
"Financial domme" = A genius at capitalism
"Boi" = A slang word that arose from the male pervert online community. Not much is understood about the vowel shift from y to i that has been adopted by this subculture, but its nonsensical nature should be viewed in light of the fact that most erotic online communication is done with one's hand firmly grasping one's genitals. The effects of this mentally impaired state are also evident elsewhere in the grammar and spelling of this subculture.
"Pervert" = A full-grown adult man with all the trappings of maturity who becomes inexplicably reduced to the maturity level of a 6th grader whenever he gets an erection.
"Bitch shield" = A defense mechanism used by legitimately decent women as a means to protect themselves from the deluge of stalkers they attract.
"Penis" = A very common thing to put in a picture that you attach to someone you are messaging for the first time. It is well-understood that every female online wants nothing more than to have an inbox full of hundreds of pictures of penises.
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