Home
Home
Browse Profiles
Browse
Collarspace Video
Live
Join Collarspace
Join
Collarspace
Dating
Dating
Collarspace News
News
Collarspace Mobile
Mobile
Alt
Alt
Safety
Safety
Extreme Restraints
Toys
Friends
Live BDSM
Resources
Resources
Welcome to Collarspace
Welcome
Login
Login
Vertical Line
Sakura

southernscenery

SouthernMaster
Male Dominant, 42, Gulfport, Mississippi
Male Submissive, 19, sussex
Male Switch, 39, South Pasadena, California
Back
Back
Kinky People Meet
KPM
Interests
 Interests

About southernscenery

BDSM relationships are more intense than vanilla relationships because each person much know the other well. Nothing can be taken for granted. Therefore, each must be open to the other, share, confide, and enjoy the synergistic dance.
I often review my profile to see if there is any way I can improve communicating about myself or how I come across in this medium. Perhaps my introduction seems a bit strong or maybe I don't come across as "submissive" as some think I should. I suppose I could soften my approach a bit but then I would go against my nature of being honest. I am multifaceted - I tend to be direct and straightforward but at the same time am kind and gentle. I don't pretend to be something I am not. I have a great sense of humor and enjoy intelligent conversation. BDSM is an integral part of my life but does not overshadow who I am. Fantasies are great for playtime, but in day-to-day life I have to be responsible for myself and be strong to survive.  I am submissive by nature but strong by necessity and perhaps the paradox is intimidating to some.
Not sure who the author is, but I like it ...

I hope I find someone who doesn't make me cry. I hope I find someone to wipe the tears from my eyes. I hope I find someone that'll always be true. I hope I find someone that I could stick to like glue. I hope I find someone that gives me butterflies. I hope I find someone that doesn't tell me lies. I hope I find someone that I could talk to every night. I hope I find someone who can hold me real tight. I hope I find someone who loves me too. I hope I find someone as great as you.

Whether we chat, email, or even meet, it is difficult. I am me and will be straightforward and honest. I'm also submissive so it is my nature to seek approval. The line between taking care of me (both physically and emorionally) and tending to someone's inquiries, advances or demands becomes blurred. Still, I manage to learn something from each encounter and try to build on the experience. Someone might email and if they don't click for me, I try to figure out why. It's not an attack on them but rather refining my own preferences. They are perfect for someone, just not me.  I expect the same is true when someone decides not to pursue me.
I choose Bush's Baked Beans over VanCamp's - I had VanCamps for years but was introduced to Bush's and found a preference through experience. Do I dislike VanCamps? No - but I know what I like better and will not invest the time and energy on VanCamps when there is Bush's. Maybe you like VanCamps - that's your tastebuds and you should listen to them.  I won't criticize your grocery cart and expect the same respect in return.
Well - I'm off to the store again!

Sex is an integral part of wiitwd and is usually the ultimate outcome  for a couple that "plays" well together. Still, I am one that believes a man should care about what is between my ears before going between my legs.  He has to spark more than a clitoral response with suggestive talk in order to maintain my attention.  I do not enjoy the "cock-in-hand" photos or a spread-eagle nude stance that exudes a self-proclaimation of dominance.
Gentlemen - a word of advice - LOOK at your photo. If you choose to crow about your cock is it a cock worth crowing about? Does the term "limpbizkit" mean anything besides just being a rock group?  If you can choke the bird with one hand and still have room to cover it's nose, it's a signal that you need to make a different approach and show off abilities more than equipment.
Are you looking for that elusive one-on-one relationship but have a photo of another woman handling your jewels?  It's time to toss the jewelry "box."
I am daring, with a mind that is guaranteed to match yours in the bedroom and beyond. I am submissive because I crave the rewards of satisfying a man that has earned my trust. I know my body is far from perfect but I also know the treasures within that await the right man. Is there anyone up for the challenge and rewards that await him?

Male Dominant, 35, St. Petersburg, Florida
SoulMaster
Dominant Couple, 57, Toms River, New Jersey
Male Submissive, 42, MIAMI, Florida
Male Dominant, 23, Anaheim, California
SoulPoleFiend
Female Switch, 23, Lansing, Michigan
Male Dominant, 50
souwester
Male Dominant, 59, Southport, Maine
Male Submissive, 37, Rio de Janeiro
soulofkhaosny
Male Dominant, 26, brooklyn, New York
Male Dominant, 48, Seminole, Florida
soulofkhaos
Male Dominant, 28, brooklyn, New York
SoulAngel
Male Dominant, 25, williamsburg, Virginia