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	About somaso I would be very happy to be in pain! *I'm shameless, and very* into D/s.** This is very very real and very serious for me, even though online only. I'm open to conversations with anyone (except fake female subs who are really cam girls), about anything. Discipline and structure attract me. Obedience is a basic need for me. I'm curious about twisted minds and imaginations, about manipulation (being manipulated, that is!), about strange rituals and about being pro-active in pleasing the person to whom I surrender I can't help it - it's deep inside me. I have to submit and to surrender.

Thinking of you people on the East Coast. Stay safe.

My profile changes, like any living thing.

From me to kerosedge -

Yes, absolutely!

As you say, like a dance, it is how the partners match and understand each other. Of course, their physical ability matters, but only as a tool for their minds. A good dancer has to think about the steps, the rhythm and the grace and train the body to obey. In D/s, pain can be an art form, a dance between two partners, feeding off each others desire; desire to inflict and desire to feel. But it is not just the pain, it is how it is administered and how it is felt - in the mind.

Again, as you say, it is about growt h. First learning about each other, then the process of the sub slipping into surrender as the Dom supports and guides until the sub is fully compliant and trusting. Then the development, the "training" (a much abused word in CM), until the relationship becomes a symbiosis where the needs of each are mirrored and fed, gladly and eagerly.

Striving always, if not to be the best, then to be better and to be better again until in the end, they are both the best. Even if the expression of what they do is physical, such as a forced fitness programme, it cannot work without intelligence, understanding and drive.

Thank you for understanding and allowing me to express this. I am grateful

From Kerosedge to me -

Well said. Most here never understand or will never understand it. They think dominance is something physical, it never was. To me it's more like a well written play, or a dance. Everyone knows their places and has a part to play. Like any dance or play it takes time to learn and study. Not every sub is suited for every Dom and goes both ways. Takes patience and understanding. Most yell and scream thinking that is dominance. Or how cruel they can be. A good Dom l studies his sub. Molds it grow and grows with it to suit their needs. The sub molds to the desires of the Dom. That is a whole point if this where two become one entity. People here are do shallow. And the kinks you can indulge in well that's just good incentive. Like I told a girl here once. Never wanted to be noticed, never wanted to have the most subs or be the loudest. I just want to be the best, for me.

From me to Kerosedge -

"Precisely! The body is just the means by which our wishes and needs are made manifest. Of course, if it is well maintained, the thought behind may be better expressed, just as music sound better from a well tuned instrument. But it is the music that makes the instrument sound.

Without the spark of imagination and desire the body is lifeless. The body is only the means to demonstrate the workings of the spirit.

The beauty of D/s is that a dominant personality can have release by the use and control of two minds and two bodies: his own and that of the submissive. The body is given only because the mind has first surrendered.

There is more to this life than most of the people on CM can even begin to conceive"

and this was his reply-

"The flesh is just flesh. As to a collar is just leather and steel. Means nothing unless the mind body and soul are in it as well. Let the players play and the real masters reign in the shadows. Because only those who really understand the nature of the beast know how to really find them. I am glad you understand the real game as well."

Some days ago, things began to happen in my nilla life that prompted a beginning of a reassessment, including my D/s life.

I came across Kerosedge's profile and it struck a chord. I wrote this to him..

"How pleasant and surprising to come across someone who leads with his mind rather than his body. You understand where the power really lies"

Follow me to find out how the conversation turns out: His reply will be here tomorrow

Floods of cam girls pretending to be subs!

I don't discriminate on grounds of age, orientation or gender. I just need someone who really lusts after a slave

Withdrawal is setting in. I've lost structure of a chunk of my day, and worse, motivation. No need to do the daily tasks and reports. Hateful!

Released, empty.

I need something extreme, some catharsis. Come one, come all, please

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