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	Sobelia

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	Returned after a while but my profile was locked, hence a new one profile. Im a late bloomer and relative beginner but have had some experience. Is it too late to be coming to the realisation that life is so much more interesting with a woman who knows she is the boss? Looking for real time, hopefully long term, genuine female in charge lifestyle. But hoping for someone who realises that any relationship is multi-dimensional and constantly changing. Someone who also wants some aspect of partnership and agreement in a vanilla sense, whatever the Ds dynamic is. I think for something long term there has to be more than Ds only. So the ideal would be someone that is secure enough of herself to allow me to sometimes be in charge (and at least appear to be to others) in the vanilla world. Knowing that in the truer, inner world between us she is ultimately the one who leads. Im not massively experienced but Im curious about a lot of things (though with some hard limits) so hopefully there will be plenty of possibilities to at least talk about