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I spent some time recently thinking of how to better explain the Domme and her sub relationship. It seems that there are way too many subs on here that are just wanting to find some girls pictures to get off to. I don't know why they need to come here as the internet is full of pictures of beautiful women, both clothed and unclothed. But I find that most Dommes on here are going about things very wrong too. No sub will just give you money, at least not any substantial amount or for any substantial time. If you want money for literally doing nothing you should get a cardboard sign and stand at a stoplight. You'll have an advantage, you're more beautiful and eye catching than the others who do it.
No no, the way it works is that there is a relationship of sorts. There are many kinds of relationships out there... Man and wife, Mother and son, Father and daughter, various business relationships, relationships with gods or religions... This is another relationship that really has some similarities with those others but is different in ways too.
A sub can be confident. In fact a sub NEEDS to be confident. Someone with no confidence is of little use to themselves. Someone of little use to themselves is ZERO use to anyone else. Therefore a sub without confidence is zero use to his Owner.
A sub should look to his Owner as a spiritual guide in a lot of ways. She should seek not to destroy him, but to build him in a way that he can serve both himself and her better. He should always feel gratitude and love toward her for that and she should reciprocate with compassion of her own.
The best example I can think of of how it all should work (and hence the profile pic. I wasn't going to post a pic of me but thought something should go there) is the chivalrous knights and the Princesses they served in fairy tales. I think when the word "Princess" is thrown around on this site people almost think of those same Princesses but for some reason the relationship is different. The knights were the courageous, charismatic servants of the Princesses. They would lead armies to conquer foreign lands and bring back the spoils of war. They would go off and slay dragons. They would go and make sure the people of the land were taken care of and deal with any issues from day to day so the Princesses didn't have to. They did all these things in the Princesses name.
Now, did the Princess have the authority to have the knights testicles put in a jar for her collection? Of course she did. They belonged to her anyways. Could she have publicly shamed him, put him in the stocks in the street for the beggars to urinate on? Absolutely, and if he had any honour he'd gladly volunteer for it if he knew it made her happy. Could she have him chained up in the dungeon for months to remind him of his place? She could have done any of that and more if she wanted to and both she and he knew it.
But avoiding all that wasn't his motivation. His motivation was the fact that when he'd slain that dragon he could return to her, kneel before her to give his report, humbly kiss her feet and then look up to see the most valuable thing in the world to him: The gleam in her eyes and the beauty in her smile as the treasure cart was hauled in and his tribute to her made.
That is how this should be.
Now, anyone who I talk to or who talks to me on here should know that I am a caring and loving sub looking for the right Domme to serve. I'm not going to give you money, gifts or sign up to any website until I know 100% that you are who you say you are. I want you to earn my trust, and I want to earn yours. I have been in Domme/sub relationships before where trust has been built and it feels great! When a Domme trusts me with naked pictures of her to build a site for her, or entrusts me with her banking info so I can set up a payment system for that site or whatever task she needs, that to me is priceless trust. No, you don't have to give me those things, ever. You do have to build trust and a relationship with me though if I'm going to fight dragons for you and haul treasure carts into your palace ;)
I do have my fair share of kinks... Well... I think I have about 20 men's fair shares of kinks ;) I love exploring these with the right Domme, and appeasing whatever kinks she has too. I've inherited numerous kinks of my own just from appeasing other Dommes over the years so I know these are a lot of fun for two people to explore.
There will be ups and downs. Times will be good and times will be bad, for both me and for you, my ideal Goddess. Know that even when things are not exactly how we both want them to be I am working my hardest both inside and outside of our relationship to follow your guidance, serve you and improve your life. If you can understand this you will never have to look further than at your feet for a sub who worships you and trusts you with all his heart... I may not conquer the world today or tomorrow but one day I will! I'll certainly remember whose feet I belong under afterwards too if I've been under them before and during.
Bottom line, I'm a confident and loyal sub with a big heart and a lot to give to the right Goddess. I won't make you the center of my world, fuck that. I will BUILD a world centered around you! All I expect is some patience, some trust and a wole lot of fun in between for both of us ;) |
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