Dont bother, you will get no where with me. I am an untrusting person and will never be hurt again. Here for friendship only. Dont like what I have to say then dont read my shit. Im a cynical, pissed off, bitter woman. And NO you will not have the chance to get close enough to hurt or break me. No one will ever have that fucking privileged again.
Pet Peeves....
You all are going to love these unless you are one lmao...
People who have to state in their user name that they are a Master/Dom/Daddy etc... Who are you trying to convince?
People who chew with their mouth open or talk with their mouth full... That is just nasty (understandable only if you have the flu). Cover your damn mouth!
People who lie, cheat, steal, break promises (this one equals lying).
Males who claim they are submissive and then tell a female submissive that they will Dominate her. Get a damn grip guys, choose a side (story) and stick with it!
Females who act like bimbos to get attention. Grow the hell up. Don't act stupid if you aren't many guys are turned on by intelligent women. (It is harder and more precious when an intelligent woman submits than for a woman who cannot or will not stand on her own two feet.)
Trolls---- this one is all inclusive--- you people know who you are!
People who talk just to hear their own voice but have nothing productive to add to a conversation.
People who are two-faced.... (Must I really offer explanation here!?)
Closed minded people that live an alternative lifestyle... ex.: a homosexual person who thinks BDSM is morally wrong. (Are you serious?!)
People who do not have children but want to tell someone how to raise their child... (Shut the fuck up! Unless you walk in our shoes don't tell us how to wear them!)
That is all for now but I am sure there will be more to come so stay tuned XD
I get so sick of hearing that there is no or should be no love or emotion in D/s. If that is the case then I am just done because there is no point. I will not be touched by someone who does not care about me or love me. I will not trust someone who will not invest their emotion in me.
How can we NOT love the one we submit to or the one we dominate? Are we not human because we are in an alternative lifestyle? Saying that love and emotion have no place in BDSM is like saying that oxygen has no place in the air we breathe.
Have all you people seriously lost your minds!?!?!
So fed up with the BS. I swear it has got to be something in the water these days. No one wants to get to know someone any more, it is just all about sex right there and then. Like a female owes a male something because they go out for dinner or whatever.
Screw that. Things that are worth having are worth the wait and they are not easy to obtain. Get a grip on your freaking hormones people! THe only way to get me to submit is to build my trust with you, to stimulate my mind... Do that and the treasures you will receive will make your effort worth it.
If you can't slow down, talk without it being sexual, think with your brain rather than your penis then please leave me alone, please! Because it gets old and it gets annoying. And stop poppin your gums tryin to runn game because you think that will get you into someone's panties. It may work for some airhead that doesn't respect herself but it wont work on me. Besides why would you want someone who doesn't respect themselves?
If you cannot love yourself you cannot love anyone else. If you cannot respect yourself how can you respect anyone else!
Let's make one thing PERFECTLY CLEAR!!!!!!!!!!!
I am not nor will I ever be poly so for those of you who want to disrespect me and say I am not a "true slave" because of this you can kiss my ass! I know who and what I am, I know what I can and cannot deal with, accept, want, need, and desire. If you don't like it too damn bad!
Do not try to change me in that manner because it will NEVER happen. I do not disrespect you for having multiple partners so I expect to not be disrespected for my ethical and moral values of having only ONE partner. I am so sick and tired of you so called Doms thinking you can MAKE me be poly and then getting pissed and calling me fake when I refuse to submit to you. I am fed up with the whole lie when you all say "Oh, I am not trying to get with you." Yes you are or you would not tell me I am not a "true slave" because I refuse to submit to something I know would make me unhappy and make you miserable because I am unhappy.
Get a grip damn it. Just because this is D/s M/s does NOT mean the entire world should revolve around you because you have a penis and capitalize your name. Do you honestly think that fucking more than one person at a time makes you a Dominant? If so then you need to go read and research and study up on what it truly means to be Dominant. And just leave me alone.
There are times I feel really out of place here. For a while I thought it was because I am so honest. But after hanging out in the chats I have realized it is because I am not like most others on this site. I don't put myself out there like most of the subs and slaves I see. By that I mean, I do not do the attention whore thing, I do not hop laps or submit to every capitalized name I see.
I wont change that at all but I have come to the realization that it makes for a lot of loneliness. I suppose it is just something that I will have to endure. I do not believe I should have to change my morals and ethics or lower my standards to be happy. However, it does bother me that so many of you "Doms" claim to want a good girl, want someone intelligent, and want someone who is sincere and truthful yet you bypass those who are quiet, reserved, and don't act like a prostitute. You over look those who are everything you claim to want, desire, and need for someone who Hollywood says is "Beautiful".
That makes me wonder if you "Doms" have lost sight of what you truly want or if you are just lying about what you claim want. Yes, I am reserved, however; to me that is a good thing. Perhaps it is just because so many of you out there just don't get it. For the most part you all just want laid in the fastest manner possible. So you find the fastest girl on the server, call it a relationship then want to whine when she cheats, lies, steals, or plays you. All I can think is... that's what you get.
Rather than pick a girl who you think will screw you on the first "date" meeting whatever... why not pick someone who you KNOW will be there for the long term and not cause all the drama?
So because I am, well, inquisitive I just have to ask...
Do all of you think that naked, half-naked, skin showing, nothing left to the imagination pictures make you more interesting?
Seriously?
Just because we choose this lifestyle for what ever reason we chose it (all reasons are different) does that mean you have to put yourself out there like a common webcam vanilla, prostitute to find what you seek?
I am not talking about those of you who are owned and your Owner has put pictures of your red booty up etc I am talking about the ones who claim to be single. Dom and submissive alike. Have we become no more than a shelf display at the mall?
How sad.
Ok, just so it is very clear... This is not to hurt anyone's feelings but merely to be honest. I have age limits . I can be friends with anyone, however; I cannot date, submit to, be in a relationship with someone that is old enough to be my parent or grandparent. My age range for a relationship of any form is no more than 5/6 years older than me. For those who are far older than me (15 yrs +) please understand that while you have no problems dating someone young enough to be your kid etc, that it is not something I can handle.
I like pretty much everyone and can get along with pretty much everyone but just because I say hi to you does not mean I want to be your slave/little girl/ submissive what have you.
Yes this sounds harsh but I hate having to repeat myself over and over. It is a hard unpushable limit for me and to those who say "You'll get over it!" No I wont nor will I even think to consider you a friend because you cannot respect anything including yourself if you think that just because you tell me to get over it and deal with it that I will be yours, does not mean it will ever happen.
And ONCE MORE... stay out of my pm unless you ask in room.
Thank you and have a lovely day.
Limits that will never be pushed ~~~
Removal of limbs! Sewing it back on Does Not count as scarification and it DOES count as pushing that limit!
So my newest entry came out messed up when I copied and pasted. But I hope you all like it anyway. My Creative Writing professor gave me an A for it.
Sexual Bliss
It begins with a collar placed gently
around the neck.
Attaching a leash to the D ring you lead
me through the house.
I am told to kneel beside the bed and do
this gracefully keeping my eyes lowered to the floor not daring to look at you.
I am silent as you prepare the St. Andrews
cross.
Your commands are all I live for in this
moment.
You chain me to my pleasure, blindfolding
me so all I see is darkness, all I hear is your stern demanding voice.
I beg and cry for the blissful sting and
finally you relent.
The leather flogger on my soft, supple
skin is what my dreams are made of.
Each strike; harder, sweeter than the one
before.
My back is on fire and you allow me to speak.
All I can utter is “Please Master, more!”
Breathless, orgasm on the rise, you perceive my
tension and tell me to hold back.
Beautiful release is my longing now, the cascading
waves of fulfillment.
Once more I am taken to the edge of that cliff and
not permitted to fall, because you know to give me that ride on the rollercoaster
of submission will enable you to mold me.
After an hour of this blinding torture, with
panting breath I wait.
Your speech is forceful, electricity crests through
my flesh and you allow me the overwhelming taste of victory.
Mind and body shiver and shutter, you skim your
fingers over my skin and the orgasms rise once more.
Take my pain, make it yours I don't want it any more Take what's left of this heart mend it, heal it I've no use for it Take this body do as you will because the soul is broken let me feel something other than this madness something more than this pain
I came across a very disturbing profile tonight. It basically said "A sub/ slave has no right to an opinion, to limits, or to tell a Dom how she feels"
Are you serious? If that is the case then where is the dynamic of the relationship? Where is the basis to build trust, respect, and servitude? I find that people who say things such as that are not only fools but abusive to anyone they are with.
Any Dom/me worth their salt understands that in order for a sub or slave to trust them, to feel comfortable enough to give up control even if it is just a bedroom type thing has to be allowed to express their concerns. How else does One know what to do to keep them from freaking out?
To say something like that is just being asinine. It is not safe or sane. Some people really need to rethink their priorities. If they are looking to be seriously abusive in a vanilla manner such as punching a sub in the face etc, then they need not hide behind BDSM. No wonder so many vanillas think the way they do about us.
If you cannot stimulate my mind, you will not get the chance to stimulate my body :)
