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Rethinking my profile... (This is all true, but perhaps doesn't convey the right tone. i don't know. Life has a way of making one rethink things.)
Witty, very smart submissive looking for witty, very smart Master. Am I done yet?
No, not really. i'm looking for a real person who wants a real person in return, not someone who "just wants a sub", as one man put it. We have lives, not just desires, although deep desires are a big part of me. i've met three, maybe four, people in my life who i could have infinite conversations with, and am hoping to find that along with our common, well, interests. So you should be the kind of man who thinks it perfectly normal to have hundred and hundred of books. (Or thousands. I haven't counted them.)
i live with two cats, one starling, and one house mate. That means people allergic to cats are out.
i'm looking for a long term relationship, but that just means we start out clicking in certain ways and then whatever happens happens. i'm not looking for a guarantee, because there aren't any. All i need is for you to be open to the possibility. That means married it out, in case that's not clear.
i don't know exactly what i am looking for other than that. i am definitely submissive, but whether that means 24/7 or limited mostly to the bedroom i don't know. i'm not "just" a bottom, however: i respond strongly to dominance. That doesn't mean beating your chest, but confidence in who you are and what being a Dominant man means.
i'm a masochist but not a pain slut, and i don't think i could manage with someone unable to give me what i call painpleasure. So you don't have to be a sadist, i guess, but have to at least be willing to "hurt" me in certain ways and take pleasure in my responses to it.
Relocation in the area is difficult but possible. Relocation out of the area isn't possible.
And while i know that a profile isn't the best way to get to know someone, if you haven't written something that makes me think, "Hey, this guy sounds like he might be worth communicating with", i'm not going to contact you or respond to your mail. Same with men who haven't bothered reading my profile. |
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12/25/07: Boy, there are some angry guys here! i know that there's a lot of game playing that goes on (or so i'm told, at least), but it would be a really good idea if you guys would vent it elsewhere. Anger is not attractive in a profile. (A few men have been surprised that i would have elicited angry responses. Other than my commenting to someone on a particular hostile profile, i haven't received any. i'm just talking about profiles here.)
And i'm determined to remain in a good mood. Period. A wonderful annual party to go to in a couple of hours. Hopefully at least one of the handful of guys interested in me will turn out to be real and there will be sparks.
We're not all fakes, you know. |
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