Dominant Poly Male seeks local poly submissive, age/looks are of a little importance, for realtime local relationship.
Living in the Lexington, Kentucky area, I don't find a ton of people
into the lifestyle -- that's why I'm here.
I am currently in a polyamorous family. There are two women I
consider as my wife: one is local, and married to me legally; the
other is strictly an emotional connection, living long distance.
I also have two other women I'm in relationships with; one is my
slave, and lives long distance, and the other is a submissive who is
currently on hiatus from our relationship.
I'm looking for someone local -- within 50 miles to be my
submissive, specifically sexually. Whether it becomes Master/slave or
any other variation thereof depends on the person and how we get
along. Possibilities range from seeing each other on a regular night
of the week' to 'moving in with us full-time 24/7' -- again, it
depends on the person, and specifically how they get along with the
people already in my life.
What am I looking for in a person? Intelligence, wit, a sense of
self. Willingness to be open and honest, especially about
relatinoships and emotions, desires and the working out of conflicting
needs. I need someone with good people skills, someone who is
assertive about expressing themself, but yet able to do so without
losing the sense of who is in charge of the relationship. Resistance
can be fun -- defiance and refusal are not. Sassiness is welcome;
disrespect is not. I enjoy walking that line, and taking the control
as offered... but I am very much into *consensual* play. If you show
methat you really don't want to be doing something, I'm much more
likely to back off than try to force you. It's a fine line to walk --
care to explore it with me?
Gender is immaterial, tho I prefer my men to be androgynous and my
women to be butch. A high sex drive is vital! Bisexuality is a plus,
but not required. My legal wife has, in the past, sometimes been
interested in the people who wander home with me.
