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Male Dominant, 31, Raeford, North Carolina
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Male Dominant, 38, kenmore, New York
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Male Dominant, 47
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About SirRahjee
In order to belong, to truly be a part of something, you have to surrender yourself to it. The more of yourself you surrender, the more oneness you achieve.
Experienced and knowledgeable. Appreciative of the gift of submission and the slave that resolve to present it. In return I bestow my gift; domination, patience and spirit. M/s relationships are a major part of my life's expectation, though it is not what defines me. Domination is not my need: domination is the way I function to fulfill my needs. I am comfortable with my choice, my identity and ethics.
My preference is control through a slave's own natural, innermost desire to serve and please; to train a slave to serve me; to successfully acknowledge, nurture and accept her "Inner slave", the essence of what she aspires. To guide her in developing her truly nurturing self, arming her with a healthy, positively focused mind so that she may blossom in a climate of unconditional acceptance. Therein, I achieve my goal and desire; the evolution of a slave skilled at attending my passions in the manner which I desire, as she achieve her goal; to be happy and secure in the service of a Master who understands. We can't achieve perfection, but we will always strive for excellence. I am very firm, but very fair. Though smooth is my style, don't get it twisted. I'm still a silverback gorilla in this concrete jungle.
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We are all born innocent, at least in spirit. Human nature drives us to satisfy certain needs within us. One of these needs is the desire to contribute. A human being who "seeks to experience life at it's fullest" feels happiest when they are able to contribute as much or more than is contributed to them.
For a slave this contribution is service and pleasure. It becomes their prefered "duty" to the One they have delegated all power and authority to. It is an overwhelming desire a slave has to take care of a Dominant personality.
As Master, I have the patience to be served improperly, thoughtlessly and perhaps sloppily as I correct and train her in ways I find pleasing, to improve her contribution. Errors will be made as the slave tries to "make things better" for me. I don't want to kill that spirit in her. This is what brings me pleasure, sculpting a servant who accepts my goal ferverently as her own.
Tell me your thoughts on my thoughts.
*The views expressed above are those of the writer and may not represent the opinion(s) of Collarme or collarme.com or anyone else on this site.
**The guys in business suits in the front offices requires me to post this disclaimer. lol
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Just wanted to take a few moments to say Season's Greetings to everyone. I hope that 2007 wasn't too hard on any of us and that 2008 will be our greatest year ever.
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It is indeed wonderful and refreshing to chat with slaves who are in this lifestyle to succeed as slaves. To see individuals who understand that this is not a bf/gf relationship but one of domination and submission, have decided on this lifestyle and have the determination to stand by their decision and while uncollared, work on developing a mindset that will be a gift and a blessing to their next Master. They truly get it and will indeed make some Master very successful in bringing to reality his vision. It is indeed a joy.
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Not around much anymore, except to check mail. For some reason, I still receive mail from disgruntled slaves about their life. When you are under the guidance of a Dominant, you are obligated to go to him. For some reason I'm being confused with Dr. Phil. Ok, since I'm constantly being placed in that situation, here is my diagnosis...... Grow up and get real. Be all in or all out. In life, the more we
say that we believe in something, the harder life is going to test our belief. This lifestyle is not designed to be a place to hide from the realities of life, it should enhance it. There are some serious trials and tribulations here that we all just have to "man up" and face. So let's "man up" and face them. We are all shaped by the decisions we make and living with the consequences of those decisions being called life. Ok, that was your one free consultation.
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Lately, I have been meeting some very interesting and very true people in this lifestyle and I can honestly say that I discovered them just in time. With all of the perpetrators that I have met in my sort time on this site, these vanguards of M/s are literally a breath of fresh air. I would love to send shout outs to all of you individually, but you know you're too numerous to name. Just know that I appreciate you.
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I am still around, I just don't come here as often. I've reached my bullshit quota for the year. There are many things here that I just don't think that a REAL Dominant should tolerate, but REAL is the operative word here, isn't it? I still come by to check my messages. Feel free to leave one.
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I am often asked about my selection of content for my journal. Many seem to think that I should be taking this time to be on my soapbox campaigning. Perhaps, but that's not my way. Just as my first words to a submissive when we chat are not always about this lifestyle. People here are more than this. We have thoughts, loves and joys that don't have a damn thing to do with BDSM. These are the things that make us what we are. BDSM are just the things that we do. I'd rather know your favorite color; what makes you laugh; what do you fear, than if you like being tied to a ceiling fan and twirled like a top. Now, which do you think would tell me more about who you are as a person? Hurry now, the clock is ticking. I want to know about the choices you make in your life and why you make them. So, to those of you that question my journal seletions, if you don't know,? now you know.
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Don't you just wonder what makes someone want to spend so much time just to waste yours? You'd think that everyone had too much to do, for that crap. slaves, I'd appreciate it greatly if you'd reduce your bullshit output before contacting me. My time may be of no value to you, but it's a resource that I can't replenish once it's wasted by you.
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We are all motivated by needs, with unfulfilled needs excerting the most influence on our urges as it seeks to be satiated. Mine is the need to dominate and control. This need goes to the very core of me and is as inborn as your need to submit. you and I are intrincally tied together in divine symbionosis. We are yen and yang, (or Mutt and Jeff, lol). We are bound by each other,...? to each other. We seek one another like roots seek water, so that we can plant ourselves firmly in our natures and achieve a wholeness, a completeness, our own uniqueness, as we merge and become what we were destined to become. O/one. Then, as O/one, we move on to fulfill O/our desires.
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I am constantly asked what qualities do I desire in a slave. I seek a slave with the following qualities: Loving; Intelligence; Openness; Intuitiveness; Sense of Adventure; Humor; Strength; Honesty; Patience; Grace; Passion; Dedication/Commitment and Self-Control/Discipline.
A submissive who is in tune with her slave nature and can embrace it. one who seeks to give obediance, pleasure, love and total devotion to her Master, as he protects and guides her through her journey of discovery to self-actualization and spiritual enlightenment. one who understands and dedicates to commitment. one who takes care of her body and her health. Someone willing to relocate.
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WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT FROM ME.
you can expect
a) a clear path to follow as you learn to serve
and please me.
b) that I will mold your whole being, behavior,
emotions, self-image and thoughts. Each is viewed as an element in your
training. Goals will be set for each element to develop your service as a
slave. you can expect to be trained according to the guidelines
set forth in the beginning of our relationship.
I am not looking for a "brat sub" or a "game
player" that is interested in disobeying for the purpose of getting play
punished. I am looking for a submissive that is interested in learning the
"art of slavery." One that is interested in becoming
part of me.
you can expect to be taught protocols, rules and
guidelines that will be sternly enforced.
I set high expectation but watch you
closely to insure that I am not asking more than you can give. you will be
pushed, but you will have pride in your development and know I am pleased
with your progress.
I would expect that before accepting
slavery, you would be willing to pledge:
I as your slave, am willing...
...to receive what my Master gives,
...to lack what my Master withholds,
...to relinquish what my Master takes,
...to surrender what My Master claims,
...to suffer what My Master ordains,
...to learn what my Master teaches,
...to change what my Master alters,
...to do what MY Master commands.
...to be and to do anything my Master request, always
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**Excerpt borrowed.
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Perhaps I'm not communicating clearly what it is that I am seeking. My sole purpose for being here is to find for myself an emotionally mature white female submissive with strong slave tendencies , that is willing to relocate and who has an eye on the future. By future, I'm speaking of a long term relationship.
Not into hard limits and this whole brat scene isn't for me. I'm beyond the years where I desire to break someone's resistance. Been there, done that. I'm looking for someone who realizes and appreciates what she is; what her position is and that there is no room for all that other crap in what we are building. That time could be better used cementing our relationship.
"If it doesn't move you forward, then it's bringing you down".
The one I seek must be ready for anything; ready, willing and able to be whatever I need or desire her to be. I can't be pigeonholed with a short description of myself, I can only give you highlights. I'm a little of everything, because I'm a non-conformist.
I will say that I am very cerebral. I'm comfortable in the hood or in the boardroom. I am a gentleman, with a little thug mixed in for good measure.
I believe in total and complete control of a slave and that especially means mental control. By controlling the mind, we can put some of the pain I can inflict to more pleasureable/erotic use.
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