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Male Dominant, 40, Springfield, Virginia
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Male Dominant, 40, City Heights, California
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Male Dominant, 38, Daphne, Alabama
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About SirNefarius
The fact is I have 20 plus years experience and a guy who can keep this real with references willing to talk with you. I have not burned my bridges. How do I keep it real so it can last a lifetime? I use Bdsm Ritual along with your desire to explore, your need to understand and your desire to serve … Along with an explorative expansion of intellectual, spiritual and emotional intelligence. Our shared journey deep into life is the way. Honesty is paramount. This is the time and place we must be real. Experience is good but your deep deep need to submit that is felt all the way to your core is even more so. I have lived this since I was 16 and I can keep you where you need to be at all times. Yes, life happens… Yet I will still be your Top/Dom/Master. The type of relationship I will make takes time to unfurl and build with the fuel of building trust. I am well versed in most play styles and toys but I only share these with someone I genuinely care about. I am not afraid to care deeply even while being your Master. I'm rare here, I know. I'm an old fashioned man who just happens to be Dominant. If you are looking only for a play partner there are many here who can be just that for you. If you are ultimately looking for a life partner and have a deep desire to offer a Dominant man, then consider writing to me. I guarantee I will surprise you if we can just get to know one another.
As a person I am kind, generous, honest and very skilled in communication. I am creative, artistic and emotionally mature very likely beyond most males you have met so far in your life. I am also sometimes very playful, and love to have fun; I enjoy laughing and living life to the fullest with my girl. Double-singletails make a nice play session as do the various implements that I have made or am inspired to make for you. I am alert to your body language needs, emotions and know how to take you there and bring you back intact. Pain is delivered at your level unless you have specifically made it clear you wish to be pressed beyond your comfort zone or leave intensity levels as my responsibility. Ritual is how I keep our devotion fresh to each other and is the vehicle used for exploring the subterranean realm of the erotic anima. Sex is a very important aspect of this relationship as is intellect, communication, humor and shared needs, desires and goals.
I do not 'connect' with everyone nor am I 'everyone's type. I am confident however that I offer a unique set of experiences, traits and talents that are custom designed for not just 'the one' for I believe there are many of us out there. I hope you have good luck finding all that your wonderful heart is seeking and I hope you have a safe fun experience while you are finding out. I'm looking forward to meeting a girl who is healthy, intelligent, witty, and honest, has a great smile and beautiful eyes… I can't wait to meet her. She has an inner desire/need to be a submissive/slave and knows it will be her ltr relationship. She will be monogamous minded, fairly hwp, willing to learn and be trained.
I have my down days and so does she but we will always come back to our shared center; I am her Dominant and she my cherished and loved submissive.
Yes, I said love.
Some subs have family and fear incorporating a Master into their family life. Please know that I am uniquely sensitive to these matters but my old fashioned heart comes with this. My offspring, while grown, are still very close to me because I was an effective father. I would expect my partner now, if parenting, to be a mindful and effective mother. Since I am retired I can be more than a little helpful in her busy life.
I wish to make my intentions clear. I have no ulterior motives, no hidden agendas, I have nothing to hide and as stated above I do have references that will vouch for my 20 plus years experience in the BDSM community, integrity, intensity and passions. … I know what I feel… I know what my experience has been… I know who I am and more to the point, I know what I want. I am searching for someone who knows what they want at least in a general way and is not only willing… But is completely committed to exploring their true nature, surrender control within a proper context, practice at obedience and learn the art of the erotic Ritual with grace. Periodic sets of Ritual time, 24/7 TPE or Master/slave relationship are acceptable and enjoyable… These choices are completely dependent upon the personality, fantasies and needs of the chosen partner… This is a process… an incredibly intense process at that. I am an artist a graduated from the Boston Museum School of fine arts… So process is key to my way of thinking and moving in the world.. I am a sculptor first and for most. When speaking of BDSM, only one of several passions… I use the term “Ritual” to represent this process. The creative process and The Erotic Ritual are perhaps my predominant passions.
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