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Male Dominant, 40
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Male Dominant, 33, Conyers, Georgia
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Male Dominant, 55, Oslo
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About SIRKhiki
Do not call Me Miss, Ma'am or other female honorifics - please read my profile!
Unlike most Leather and fetish sites, collarspace does not offer choices for alternative gender identities like gender-queer, gender-fluid, genderfuck, etc. So, we'll take care of that here: I'm Gender Queer. That means I am a biological female, aka a cis gendered female. Luckily I am comfortable with my body because for medical reasons I am unable to take T. However, I have a very strong male side and always have. It has taken me years to find a name for that other than "androgynous," which just doesn't cover it because it seems completely surface and doesn't take into account gender identification or sexuality. I am gay whether I am with a man or a woman - you do the math. I am primarily interested in gay or bi boys/bois of all genders who understand, or want to understand, Master/slave-Sir/boy dynamics and are able to accept the masculinity of a genderqueer/not quite transman. Yahoo: Sir_Khiki
If we decide to meet, we meet on my terms, within my time frame (reasonably). If you're a "do me boy," or if play is the only goal, that’s cool too, just state that up front and do it respectfully. A well-placed "SIR" goes a long way. Only service oriented and serious boys, submissives, and slaves should proceed to a place of consideration and petition and seek a collar. I'm a strict and disciplined "Traditional Leather/Old Guard" Master and Sir, and I currently have room in my life and Household (though not necessarily In House, yet) for additional slaves, submissives, boys, bois - cis or trans, does not matter. Gender and orientation are not important if the chemistry is there. I own a boygirl who is also my primary relationship and my alpha slave; W/we identify mainly as a gay male "couple," though she also has a strong girl streak. Sir Khiki Yahoo = Sir_Khiki |
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Have you messaged before reading a profile? Called Sirs "Lady," Masters "Domme," and who knows what else? Yea, I get a lot of those, and therefore I have 20 something years of ridiculous attempts at petitioning or getting my attention as comic relief, just floating in my gray matter. Still, it's not the type of message that gets positive attention, hilarious as some may be.
Things that make me say, hmmm...service oriented, slave, sub, boy???
Actual Messages and replies:
In response to "Dear Lady, I don't know your name but..." which was the beginning of a LONG message about his service and him (I just love it when someone comes to me to potentially serve with a long list or accounting of themselves. Especially when they didn't bother to find out anything at all about me, the person they say they want to serve!).
I responded that if he'd read my profile, he would both know my name, and not to call me lady. I surmised from this flagrant disregard of basic etiquette and an unwillingness to even attempt to honor my wishes, a detailed account of which can be found IN my profile, that this must be one of those "my owners will release me and give me money to serve you" scams, and I replied in kind.
Here's his reply:
Scam my anus. OK SO YOU HAVE NO INTEREST DESPITE BEING A SIR DADDY DYKE. FINE. GOOD BYE.
Because, a tiny bit of respect does go a long way. OK, next? |
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