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Hi..
What am I looking for here?
I am just here looking for potential friends, aquaintances and information on the "lifestyle". I am not interested in online D/S at all, and I am not someone looking for cyber! Just thought I would clarify, as it seems I have run across a few who think that online activities of a D/S or sexual nature seem to fall within the "friends" category.
Who am I?
I am a single 28 year old , busy woman with 2 children, a full-time job and a part-time self run business. I love life, enjoy the very fact that I am alive. I have many interests outside of my passions which include: reading, travelling, mmorpgs, and the first time of everything. I enjoy a good debate and learning in general. I finished 3 years of university, I was going for a double major in criminology and psychology...unfortunately the institution ripped away my last vestiges of idealism at that point and I ultimately never finished my Bachelor's degree. That said, I have taken many other courses, as learning is just plain fun for me, I have also recouped some of my idealism =). I enjoy conversation and debate, so as far as that goes, I welcome chat. I value honesty above all else, and more inportantly maturity. (NO age does not mean your are mature).
BDSM experience and orientation...
Let me start off by saying I have very little experience. I have plenty of "kinky" sex experience..lol, there isn't much in that realm that I do not think I haven't tried. I was lucky in the fact that my first partner of who I was with for 9 years liked variety. However if nothing else, I have found that kinky sex and "playing" are NOT the same..to me at least. IN fact when "playing" sex is a detractor, I have no desire for it...despite the fact I am sooo highly aroused. So, my limited experience goes as such: Fantasies and such from an early age =), "playacting with friends" that was my intro to bondage...we were probably stupid lol and dangerous! , I had an online D/S relationship for 3 months, and it was awesome. It was mainly based on deadlines, and proof of acts, focussed on intellectual and fantasies, but did also contain some self inflicted pain scenarios. I lived it as if he were here, but ultimately for me, I needed more. Finally...I entered real-time of which is less the 6 months. I love it! However I am more into the S/M then I am into the D/S at the moment. I want the D/S however I find that for me D/S is a relationship and I am not willing at this point in my life to commit to such a committment. I do however have a regular play partner of which I bottom too. I would call myself submissive. ( I will never be a slave). I will never enter into a gorean based relationship either. And while I would never be a dominant in a relationship, I have found for the pleasure I glean from my partner I would be willing to try switching to make his every desire coem true as well. So, perhaps I will ultimately be a switch...?
If you should just want to chat, feel free to leave me a message, and keeping in mind the fact that I am busy, I will return your message asap =). Thanks~Sierra
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