Siddmic

WRITTEN A WHILE AGO, BUT BASICALLY THIS IS MY PHILOSOPHIES AS A DOMINANT.

Because I am Dominant: I understand that I simply receive authority. That is to say it is offered and given to me. To take it implies something entirely different. Though, I am always to remember to treat it with utmost care for it can be taken back as easily as it was given.

Because I am Dominant: I do not ask for recognition or praise, Though I graciously and humbly accept it.

Because I am Dominant: I do not seek credit for my abilities. Without the patience of bottoms and submissives, I would not have them.

Because I am Dominant: I am accountable for my mistakes. I take stock and inventory of each and every one, learning how not to repeat them

Because I am Dominant: Integrity is my first protocol. It affords me no need for ovations, when I know I have done well.

Because I am Dominant: I strive to act in a way that always presents my peers and submissive in the best possible light, including their ability to choose who is in their lives, or in control of it.

Because I am Dominant: Safety is my first priority Understanding this is to understand my first goal is to make one feel safe with me.

Because I am Dominant: I do my best not to boast or brag of my abilities or experience. I will reference them should the need to arise.

Because I am Dominant: I attempt to pay forward all that I have learned, and all that has been taught to me free of charge, so that others can profit from my mistakes and experience, as well as all that has been taught to me.

Because I am Dominant: I believe it is a duty of mine to provide new s-types with the information on how to protect themselves, especially from myself and at the cost of my own desires and needs. For as I know that I pose no threat, I also know their trust in that needs to be earned even if they do not.

Because I am Dominant: I feel no need to push or force. A simple "please" and a gesture of my hand is all I should need, unless otherwise desired.

Because I am Dominant: I do not take my position either lightly (because of the responsibility), nor too seriously (because I am nothing without someone to offer it to me).

Because I am Dominant: I am to lead, guide, shape, and mold. None of these things can be done without a firm hand and a gentle touch. Just as with sculpting, too much or not enough pressure results in my work crumbling.

Because I am Dominant: The only pride I have is in my submissive, my being that gives me reason. Pride in myself will close my ears to her needs. To carry myself with Pride means only to allow my submissive to be proud they are.

Because I am Dominant: I attempt humility at all costs. I do not let emotions cloud my judgement, because I have the forethought to know I will feel them. I push myself beyond breaking points to shed the societal norms that hinder me and I never let them know just how hard it was, though I always am sure to communicate there was difficulty.

I do this because in my hands are the keys to her collar. In my heart is the key to her mind. In my mind, I know what I am and I have nothing to prove that will not be self-evident in the passage of time.

Because I am Dominant: Only one who submits to me need ever recognize that I am.

Sid

If you are interested in playing with me, there are a few things you should be made aware of first:

• I do not just dive right into play, sexual or otherwise.

I prefer to get to know each other, converse a little, and work out what it is we are looking for after the pretense of an initial meeting.

It is important to me that I know about limits, medical history, any history of abuse that you may have. I require knowledge of any fears, doubts, and knowledge in regards to BDSM, the community, experience, etc you might have.

If I do not feel you are safe to play with, we will not play until I feel otherwise.

These are not things that people ordinarily share with someone they are meeting for the first time. A repor needs to be developed, one of free communication and trust. I need to trust a bottom as much as a bottom needs to trust me.

• I am respectful of relationships.

If you are sneaking around behind your significant other's back, keep walking. I do not cheat, and I do not aid in cheating.

It's for this reason that I have a preference for meeting the s/o, though it isn't entirely a requirement if they feel uncomfortable doing so, it is something that may affect my decision.

• Sexual Play

I have a remarkable amount of self control. I am an extremely sexual person, who has had to learn to curb that for the benefit of propriety. If you would like for our partnership to be sexual, that can be arranged.

Depending on the dynamic, I may bring it up, or I may wait for a potential partner to do so.

Either way, I do require that my potential partner be tested within two months prior to us getting physical, with results provided, and I will be doing the same. If there are other partners, this will need to be repeated regularly.

I require birth control of some kind. I have no desire to have children outside of a loving, long term, and committed relationship, and then there are also the obvious issues.

I don't do gang bangs or MMF threesomes, sorry, not going to happen.

• Non Sexual Play

Just about everything except for water sports, age play, blood letting, and feces is on the table. If I have an issue with a form of play requested, I will address it, and I hope any potential partner would do the same.

I prefer a spotter for a few sessions for everyone's safety. If this is an issue, then there is a local play space I frequent, with a "quiet room" that we can use.

• "play collars"

I get that some bottoms need this to get into head space, they are welcome to use their own, but I will not provide neither collar, nor leash. I buy them specifically for a submissive who is owned by me, and do not recycle, or buy them for anyone else.

Thank you

Respectfully

Sid