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	I want to be with a man that wants to be in charge because he is great at it. I admire the qualities I don't posses, and that is a strong, confident, charismatic, leader. Chivalry is highly appreciated too! I yearn to feel loved and desired, like most women want. You're a highly desirable, successful man that I can look up to and admire. What I want is to be everything you want! I fantasize about finding the right man that can fuck me roughly and love me tenderly. Someone who makes me melt in his arms. What I have to offer is my love and affection for your love and guidance, my tenderness and caring to compliment your toughness and support, my devotion to match your devotion. Physically, I love to feel a man's strength on top of me, showing and embracing his masculinity. Grabbing me tight, fucking me hard and deep, hitting that spot that feels so good. Holding my hair tight, pinning me down, can't keep your hands off me passion. A sensual caress can turn into rough fuck and be so hot. I'm not into lots of pain or beatings. A hand on my throat doesn't need to choke me to get the point across. For me, it's about a playful show of strength that reminds me of your sexy masculinity. Ultimately, my hope is to meet the right man that makes it all feel right. Someone that makes the thought of long-term seem reassuring, not stifling. Compatibility is so important in all relationships, yet it is the thing that is so hard to find. I haven't been able to find what I want in vanilla relationships, which is what brings me on here. I'm as comfortable camping as I am at a nice dinner. I can hang with your friends at a party or with your boss at a formal event and do either with ease. There are many layers to me. I consider variety the spice of life. I'm not much into rules and formalities of D/s, such as calling very one Master, dressing in latex, or all that capitalization (even though I just did it). I’m looking for a subtler dynamic. Although, if it makes you happy, I’ will call you Sir. I really can be quite shy. Online here lets me speak my mind with more confidence. Some people have even accused me of being snobbish, but that's not really it. It is just shyness. I don't like taking the lead in the bedroom, or for most of the relationship for that matter. I prefer a man that can and wants to be the man in the relationship. I'm no damsel in distress, but I do love knowing my man can be my chivalrous hero when necessary! When I care about someone, I care about their happiness (random strangers and online stalkers, I don't care if they like me or not). I feel great when I can please my man. Tell me what you want and how you like it and I'll be as satisfied that I can give you the BJ you want as you are from receiving it (ok! maybe not exactly as satisfied as you). Teach me what you want and I'll gladly give it to you. Why? Because I want you to be happy with me. Before, I've always thought that this was something I wanted to keep to the bedroom, but now I think I could benefit from the discipline the right man could give me. There are things, like watching my weight that are an ongoing struggle for me. I know I lack the self-discipline. Can you help me with that? Not eating the cookie at work would be easier if I know I'll have to come home and look you in the eye as you question me, not letting me get away with lying to myself, or you. I've fantasized about this all my adult life. I've had a few brief experiences over the years, nothing that worked out for long at all. I have no problem finding vanilla dates from people I meet, but I can't help but want a little more. Telling a past boyfriend of my desires once turned into a fiasco and made me a little hesitant to do it again. Oh and did I mention I'm shy and not good at bringing this kind of thing up? I'm mostly attracted to caucasian men, older than me, but not more than about 10 years. I definitely prefer the clean cut look. Must not be married! I'm firmly rooted in the So Cal area and not looking to "relocate.” I'm a normal person to everyone else and intend to keep it that way. I have normal hobbies and pastimes. We should have a few of those kinds of interests in common too. I don't have self-esteem issues, but I do have a mirror = I'm realistic about my body. I'm a size 10/12, I have big boobs, but I also have more of a stomach than I'd like, though it’s getting smaller! :) I'm not perfect. I don't expect you to be, but I would certainly enjoy and appreciate you all the more if you were :)

Put some picture back up. The first ones are of myself, the rest are of things I find hot.

I get that men (in general terms) have their macho competitiveness with other to prove male pecking order. I get that it's a guy thing, but for the boys out there that are a little slower than the rest, realize that women do not take part in these testosterone competitions. Women consider the types of one-up-manship as signs of an asshole and immediately cross you off the list of ever dating, permanently and irrevocably!

Playing rough and throwing insults during sports or at work may win you something with other men, but women don't care about that and definitely don't do that with people they love. It's called love for a reason. Machoism merely shows women you don't know how to treat or respect a lady.

You do know what it means to treat someone like a lady, right? Well, for some of you, obviously not. It's not about being sexist. It's about realizing that you won't win points by treating women like you treat the guy on the opposing team. If you want to marry a brash, selfish dude that tries to steal everything out from under you, then marry a guy, but if you want a loving, caring and supportive wife, you need to show her that you can treat her in a loving caring and supportive way in return.

Keep the competition in sports where it belongs and show the love in your romantic relationships.

There are so many people on here that really lack the ability to talk about anything more than what they want. It's really not appealing when someone is only interested in themselves.

The men that accuse women of being too clingy early on in a relationship certainly have never met some of the men on here. Quite a few seem to believe that one chat creates a relationship and obligation. No, you aren't my Master after a couple emails. No, I haven't fallen in love with you and forsaken all other men. If we haven't even met, then there is nothing between us yet.

What is with the men that say they want the "1950's household," yet still expect women to work and bring money in, while doing everything around the house?

I completely get the philosophy, but there is responsibility in that dynamic too. The husband supports the family both financially and physically/emotionally. It's not a get out of jail free card. Men worked and fixed things around the house and did the "tough tasks" of mowing the lawn and taking out the trash out. They also had the burden of supporting the whole family financially, with no help.

If you contact me and tell me how you want a wife to cook, clean and take care of the kids and still bow down to you, then you better be ready to take care of our family financially to give all day at home to do those things.

Share everything or split everything. There are many ways to make a family work, but you can't have your cake and eat it too. Not with me!

Florida is beautiful. now I know why so many people choose to retire here.

how can someone claim to respect others' limits, yet want to push those limits immediately? If you intend to pushing limits the first time we are together, then clearly you are not respecting said limits, thus you would be breaking trust that has not really even been established yet, tell me I cannot trust you, ever.

If you don't respect me, how can I respect you?

For me, a normal and comfortable level of progression when getting to know someone from an online dating site should be as follows;

email a couple times and find out the basics of each other,

then chat online a few times and make sure their is enough mutual interest to make us both want to come back more than once and that we are compatible enough to hold an interesting conversation,

then exchange phone numbers,

then meet, briefly the first time to see if there is attraction, I'll be glad to go dutch to keep it no pressure/obligation,

then if all the above felt right, we go on a real date.

I've come to realize how so many people lie about their own age on here. I wish I knew that when I signed up so I could have gotten on board and lied to, that way when people add 5 years to my age, they would hit the real number, instead of assuming I'm older than I really am.

wow, what romance lately! I have gotten a bunch of offers to "fuck" lately. How do guys not realize that an offer starting with "I'd fuck you" is not appealing???

It's really unappealing!!! I'm looking for a man because I want love and emotion, not "a fuck." If you think offering "to fuck" is an appropriate way to talk to a woman, then I don't want to talk to you.

It appears all the scammers have run out of men to target and are now contacting women. They haven't bothered to change their profile though. Opps!

I've gotten lots of emails from women who have very poor grammar, surprisingly professional looking photographs and have model good looks making it implausible they are so desperate as to hit on straight women thousand of miles away. They just don't seem to get the fact that I won't pay to look at their naked boobs.

When I read profiles that complain about people don't being "true" and that they are the only "true" dom out there. I immediately want nothing do with them. They clearly have their own issues they like to project onto others and blame everyone else. Not everyone is into the same things, not being compatible with you doesn't mean they aren't "true". Not wanting to fuck doesn't mean fake either. It might just mean they have standards.

Why am I getting so many women viewing and emailing me lately??? It's flattering, but I'm straight.

Why are so many men obsessed with taking pictures of their penis? That's not the first or most important thing I want to see on your profile.

For the people emailing saying how much they "loved" my profile, of course I appreciate the compliment, but it takes the wind out of the compliment to realize you did not actually read my profile because you ask me things like if I'll relocate or if I'm bi, or if I'm ok with you being married.

Small talk and polite exchanges do not create an obligation. It's not "disappearing." Do people you briefly talked to in line at the grocery store get accused of disappearing once the conversation is over?

Even if you aren't what I'm seeking, if you are a decent person, we have things in common and I have enough time, I'll respond to your emails. I'm upfront with anyone I speak to if distance, or age is a problem for me. If you ignore that and convince yourself we are more serious, that's on you. Please try to refrain from blaming me.

I guess someone had a problem with the fun photos I put on my profile, so someone at the site had to remove them, now you don't get to see what I find erotic. Some people's issues run so deep they are only happy trying to ruin things for others then wonder why they can't make friends. If only they knew true happiness.

For those that want to know what the photos were, you'll just have to get to know me.

There are so many selfish people (both genders) in the world. There are men that want a woman to be a servant for them and give them sex whenever they want without them having to take care of her in any way. Then there are the woman that expect a man to pay for her and she offers nothing in return.

Back in the day, men worked and supported the family, while their wives worked at taking care of the house and kids. It made things easy in a way that everyone had a part and knew what it was.

I like having options in life that the modern world allows. I know there are like-minded people out there that believe in doing their fair share of work in life. Why does it have to be so hard to find them though?

I'll be glad to do all the little things for you, but only if you can man up and take care of me in return (and no, I don't necessarily mean financially, but I am open to that kind of traditional marriage where the husband works and the wife takes care of the home and children).

So some guy on here creates 2 identical profiles, word for word identical profiles and send me messages from both in the same evening and when I ask "why do you have multiple profiles?", he denies it and attacks me for being fake?

Hilarious! It's amazing how people are so full of themselves and in such denial about their own actions. He's the one with fake profiles but accuses me of being fake. I'm just laughing to myself about his desperation for control despite his own ineptness.

So for the sane, normal guys out there, it's these kind of crazies that make woman so cautious and skeptical on this site. This guy is fairly benign and easily overcome, but it still makes woman like myself hesitant to go on a blind date from this site and then I end up giving up and dating someone vanilla I met in the real world instead.

Men seem to get excited when 1 in 100 (or whatever) women respond to their emails.

Women get excited when 1 in 100 men actually emailed them because of GENUINE interest.

Of course you have no obligation to read my entire profile. I've revealed quite a lot about myself here and what I am seeking. If you want to get my attention and interest, please be willing to share something about yourself before asking for more about me.

If you merely wish to look at the photos I put up, go ahead. I enjoy them too! The B&W photos are what I find erotic and sensual. The color photos are of me. Physical attraction is important. I'll bare my flaws, not disguise them with camera angles, photoshop or old pictures. You won't be surprised or disappointed when you meet me.

Stalking someone is NOT ok. It's not "domly!" If I don't give you my phone number, it's for a reason. Just because you can google me (I'm not hiding from the world), doesn't mean it's not uber creepy and desperate!

Yes, age is a problem!

Yes, you being married and cheating is a problem

No, you are not my Master after one or two emails

No, I won't move to the middle of nowhere USA, or Russia

No, you won't convince me that you are a "young" 59 year old!

No, I don't want to be the 3rd wheel to a couple (some women will do it for fun, but I absolutely don't believe any woman WANTS that in a serious relationship IF she's in love. Women want to be wanted, not just an option!)

To have an interesting conversation, questions need to be asked to get it going. So please don't email me, then get annoyed that I actually try to get to know you.

Small talk gets boring and doesn't help much to get to know substance about a person.

"Eating burnt suppers the whole first year,
And askin' for seconds to keep her from tearin' up."

-a lyric from a Kenny Chesney's song "thats the good stuff"

Humiliation, name calling and all around degradation don't do it for me at all. I'm here because I find strong men very sexy and want to find someone that embodies that quality. I'm looking for a man that is naturally confident and strong and doesn't have to put me to down to reinforce that.

I get that it's some people's kink, it's just not mine, so if that's something you're looking for, then I'm not what you're looking for. Hey, we can't all be compatible, right?

I respond MUCH better to encouragement. Sometimes I might need/want more forceful encouragement (wink, wink), but not in a derogatory way.

I should thank those on here that have serious ego issues for so showing their problems so readily. It really makes it much easier to know who has the real qualities and ability to be a Dom and who is just here to feel powerful on the internet because they don't have it in real life.

If you are the type that expect women to automatically bow down to you, MOVE ON! If you think you are dominant inherently because you are a man, MOVE ON! I'm only interested in men that earn respect as a Dom by having a worthy personality and being strong and successful in life. If you think you inherit worth, that means you've never earned it before.

Anyone worth their salt, so to speak, will have the similar expectations of the women they seek.

I'm not into submitting to just anyone. It is being conquered by the right man that is erotic to me.

It says more about the man when a he conquers a woman and achieves her submission through a display of his power (physical and mental), than to be with a woman that submits to anyone. Men that seek easy submission from the outset will not like me, but men that are not afraid of the challenge because they know they are strong enough to handle it, are the type that turn me on the most.

This means I don't submit to those I don't know or haven't talked to. While discpline may be needed and wanted at certain times, it does not mean I'm looking to be "conquered" all the time (but occasionally being physically, roughly "conquered" would be enjoyable).

Why are so many men here with such fragile egos? So many men complain that women won't respond when we aren't interested, but when I rather politely explain that insulting me in your introduction is not a good choice in getting someone interested in you, a real man would either apologize if he didn't mean it as such, or realize we are not compatible because I'm not looking for degradation.

And why do these men think insults in response are going to improve things? It certainly doesn't make you look anything but childish. Opening a different account just to email insults after you've been blocked is so pathetic it is hysterical. (Gapemaster/assworshipperr that is you) Not only is it a good laugh for me, but it really makes it quite clearly that first my response to you was the correct one.

I realize that those men with no social skills are getting constantly rejected, so they become bitter. It's not easy for any of us to admit our own faults, and you don't have to admit it to anyone but yourself. And you only have to admit it to yourself if you want your results to change. We all make mistakes in life, but the strongest people can admit it and learn from it.

I'm still optimistic that there are in fact many decent human beings still out there and on this site. It's just hard to find the good ones that are compatible. The bad ones seem to proliferate on here because they never can get a date/relationship behaving the way they do.

I need some insight to the male perspective on courting. How can we reconcile that at least in general terms, men need sex before they can love someone, but women want to be loved before they have sex with someone?

I'm not sure whether it is the open sexual discussion on here, or that this site attracts men only interested in casual sex or maybe it's this lifestyle attracts that type.

I feel sorry for those of you that your life must be so depressing that you only feel better about yourself by insulting others. Man up and deal with it. What kind of Dom acts that childish? I'm am surprised how many of you there are on here! There must be at least one or two decent people on here, but weeding the crazies out is obnoxious.

I'm not here to make online friends. I don't get why so many people send friend requests to people they aren't really friends with. I don't know you yet, so no, we are not friends and I don't want to pretend we are.

I don't want to chat with you if you're somewhere far away or way out of what I'm looking for (like married or 50+). While you may be great to talk to, I'm here to meet the right man that I could date.

I'm flattered at all the emails wanting to get to know me, but there isn't enough time in the world to correspond with everyone. So if your profile/message shares next to nothing about you and you are asking me to take the time to get to know you, I won't.

I can't please everyone and I'm not going to try to.

Some men send angry emails because I don't reply to say "not interested", then others send nasty insults when I do.

I'm not interested in the assholes that need to insult people as the only way to make themselves feel powerful.

I don't "owe" you anything because you sent an email.

I'm a strong woman that wants an even stronger man. I won't give in to everyone. You earn my respect by proving yourself as a good man/human being. The same as you will have expectations of me.

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