Shivah


shiva Male Switch, 39	shiva13 Male Dominant, 31, Gainesville, Florida	shiva023 Male Submissive, 52, Detroit, Michigan

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About Shivah

get to know me; become addicted...

I've a fetish for tall men ...a love of strong arms ~_~ and for some odd reason white socks...ask me i'll tell you why. ^_~

character traits:
I
think i have a lot of black and white areas with a tinge of mauve in
the middle. meaning? ...im extreme in many things ..but you'll also
find me to be a caring person with those I choose to share my life. I
can be at times dense where emotions are involved ..not because I dont
care enough to notice, but because it never occured to me you werent ok
because you didn't say a thing

Its been
told to me that once I make up my mind I dont hear a thing after that
...what was it that nixon said? "I've made up my mind dont confuse me
w. the facts?" ...I hear ..just not that soon afterwards.

I've a sarcastic sense of humor...~smirk~ dont dish it if you cant take it

im a dominant woman..i've come to be very comfortable with that in my life, and I am blessed because of it. I couldn't go back to being "normal" ..its
just not how I'm built or what I want. I've decided that the BS in my life has come to a halt. The more BS you take the more it diminishes who you are. The more you compromise the less you are yourself. I've stopped compromising. You dont like it, too bad.

I am poly-amorous. I can
love more than one person at one time. Not
many get to be as lucky as Me. Think...to have 2 men that love you
fully ..is a gift I cant beging to explain. No, its not absurd, its not for everyone, but it is for Me, and if you want to know me, it is what you need to accept.

I'm at the point of my life where I have become comfortable with myself and my dominance. I cannot and will not stop learning, but to say that my life is blessed is an understatement.

Value

YOU place your own value to the world - that means if you find yourself without value, so will the world. It angers me beyond what I can say, to find submissives that equate being submissive to not having value. To those of you who think this, i ask the following "if you, dont place a value in yourself, why would a domiant want you?" what you have to offer, in truth, is yourself. Value it high, for it is not a simple thing that you offer.

KUDOS TO CHICAGO BDSM

i've been traveling recently all over the US. for work. & frankly, I am AMAZED at the leather BDSM scene in chicago. KUDOS TO ALL OF YOU IN CHICAGO.

I had a chance to go to a munch, a private club, and a private dungeon. not only were the play spaces amazing but the quality of people was beyond belief. The people who extended their member priviliges to us were incredibly aproachable, friendly, smart they went out of their way to show us around and introduce us to others.

I had an unbeliebable time, the play was excellent. The equipment was for a lack of a better word "amazing! wow ! " and oh so functionable.

These members took care of their dungeon with pride. I'd love to name them but you never know how anonymous people might want to be, and that too should be respected.

Kudos kudos to you chicago bdsm'ers. you should be proud of the community you built.

and BTW chicago style hotdogs are DELICIous.

SCLG
Southern CA Leather Gathering
your favorite leather picnic in the park

Finished upgrading the new SCLG website - go check it out? http://www.sclg.org

Question to Switches

How do you switch? I've been trying to understand the switching mind, but honestly I just dont get it.

I cant switch the dom in me off. I can understand liking sensations usually connected with submission, say a tap in the butt, <--- that i can like but if its not done how i like it,(which is truthfully a very small tiny itty bitty tap) then i just wont like it, I dont like the submission part of the act, for me to describe trying to switch, is like having a ghostly hand trying to keep you from breathing, it feels "Wrong"

I understand switching is a very real thing for a lot of people, and I am not discounting it, I'm just trying to understand it.

So really my question is - what or where is the switch in you switches that lets you switch?

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