Hello. I am 41 yrs old, mother of three, self sufficient in many ways, looking to meet and establish an online relationship with a Dom or Domme. Not just wanting to meet anyone though there are criteria to be met first. I am not looking for one that wants me to hurt myself to please Themselves, but rather one that is willing to look deep inside and reach with in and coax the submissive character from me that is wanting to feel a sense of accomplishment of doing what should come natural. I am definitely not slave material, and I must warn you that I am still new to this lifestyle and have not yet had a chance to experience it in real life. I want One who is not into the vast pain of BDSM but one who knows how to be dominant but yet caring, one who is strict but yet still pleasant, one who appreciates my mind for what it is but still willing to teach me more as each day goes by, one who is a little older than myself but still full of life. As for physical appearance, that is not as important to me although someone easy on the eyes would be nice. Humor is a big thing with me so if you dont have any dont even bother attempting any contact.
I am not looking for a 24/7 relationship as I have a family I need to take care of and very much my number one priority right now but am looking for something long term that may eventually lead into a 24/7 relationship once the kids have grown and I have more time to focus totally on pleasing a Dom. Not sure how I feel about poly relationships as Im not sure I can share with someone else but on the other hand I am very very bi-curious and would love to be with a woman sometime. I have a webcam to prove who I am but I will only turn it on after I get to know you
