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Male Dominant, 45, X
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Male Submissive, 58, Laval, Quebec
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Female Dominant, 28
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About SenorJaime
I got the 'title'/nickname/stagename Se?Jaime about twenty years ago from a [band in which I got funky on the guitar][http://www.myspace.com/thebigfatreds] , so with apologies to Master Skip Chasey I say that I call myself 'Se? not because I chose the name, but because others far more drunk me did so. In any case, the name has stuck and much like many noms de guerre, it's taken on a persona and life of its own which in turn has reintegrated into my sordid and kinky whole self.
Rocketed to South Austin as an infant, currently residing in the cultural wasteland of Northeast Austin, I'm a good-humored Dominant hombre with 45 years experience as a human being, 14+ years experience as a confirmed kinkster. I recently graduated Summa Cum Laude with a Bachelors in Psychology and plan on attending grad school Real Soon Now. Meanwhile, I?ve been earning my daily bread with a combination of IT professional work and self-employment providing personal coaching and hypnosis consulting. I also play guitar and sing in a variety of musical projects as my schedule permits.
I think about and participate in public and private BDSM, rope, and other kink activities as often as possible. I live alone and my house (known to most of my friends as [The WhatKnot][https://.com/groups/9397]) is full-time kinky, playing host and staging ground for a variety of events in the erotic community (42 last year, but who's counting?)
My dream job is making a living wholly from helping others make meaningful and lasting change in their life, as well as through more creative endeavors, like music and writing. Thanks to the efforts of the last few and upcoming few years, it looks like that dream is coming to fruition. In what's left of my spare time I enjoy listening to music, reading, wordplay, cooking, playing poker, and rope-making. I'm active as a leader and participant in the local hypnosis and NLP communities.
I recently began a primary relationship with NurseV. We spend several nights a week together and currently maintain separate residences. I have no kids but do house one 23-toed feline, two spanking benches, four rope bondage 'hard points' for suspension, hundreds of clothespins, 2000 LP records, and countless memories. When someone begins their negotions with me stating no scat or kids, I tell them I don't really want kids, but my Ella Fitzgerald records stay.
Kink-wise I consider myself a deviously erotic, well-mannered sadist. I enjoy control, but am not the boorish domineering type. Favorite SM activities include varied pain play (spanking, flogging, caning, paddling, yeah, those have their place, but give me a piece or two of bamboo along with my own hands, elbows, nees and feet and you'll get to sample both the grit and the gravy).
Where was I? merciless erotic teasing, clips/clamps/zippers, sharp shiny things, sharp, not-so-shiny things (toothpicks, mostly), light-to-moderate-to heavier generative humiliation and mindfucks, and a great deal more. When in doubt, the Strip, Whip, and Fuck process has held me in good stead. At the same time, for me, domination always starts with what is stirred inside the mind of the submissive/bottom.
I incorporate a lot of rope bondage into my play, because it inspires my creative, improvisational side, it inspires a delicious variety of emotions and sensations from those who are tied, and it looks both beautiful and erotic in the eye of the beholder. The restraint and implicit/explicit power therein also comes in handy. I occasionally dabble with needleplay and enjoy the edgier side of my emotional sadism, but I'm always trying to keep an open mind towards different kinks...in short, I'm no one-trick pony and encourage any who might be "on the bubble" to address any concerns before writing me off as too extreme or whatever.
As mentioned above, when called to the erotic dance, it's essential to me to engage both the body and mind. I've enjoyed erotic hypnosis and assorted trance-related tangents for over nine years, and apply it in imaginative ways to my kinky relationships. I've always enjoyed mental Dominance and the more cerebral aspects of BDSM, and this is no exception. Any hypnotist worth their salt will tell you that you can't hypnotize someone to do something they don't want to do, and this dovetails nicely with my own view towards limits and mental barriers. For me, erotic control involves balancing a cultivated urge to submit with a guided introspection into those places you view as taboo or are hesitant to look at. Interested? Write me.
I founded a local rope bondage group several years back, where many locals share ideas, techniques, and play at monthly meetings at my home, The WhatKnot (4th Sunday of the month...write me if interested in learning more). I also host a variety of classes and parties at the WhatKnot and (with an impressive and vast amount of effort from fairerthanshe) am currently planning the fourth annual [OctRoperfest][https://.com/groups/7161], a weekend-long bacchanalia of BBQ, bock, and bondage with some of the most talented rope people in the world, coming October 26-28 to Austin.
Among my other community-oriented kinky adventure, I served as an officer and president of Austin's longest-running gateway pansexual BDSM organization, GWNN (The Group With No Name), for several years. Outside of my leadership at The WhatKnot, I focus on leading by example, experience, and continued learning. I've only "officially" mentored a handful of folks, typically done discreetly and not as part of a current status menu.
I have learned a lot through these leadership opportunities and am currently focusing these energies towards greater SM education efforts and getting the occasional full night's sleep. I have presented internationally, focusing principally on my passions for mind/body kink, rope, communication, and moving from wishing, to having, to doing, to being.
I enjoy meeting women who'd be interested in furthering my rope bondage and/or erotic hypnosis practice on a regular or slightly-irregular basis, with the possibility of further play to be negotiated. Prior to any BDSM activity, I feel it's important to know each other and establish a friendship. I find checklists artificial and boring, but your secrets and imaginings fascinating,
I can be a discreet friend or a public tour guide, but again, honesty is fundamental. While I consider myself a very sexual Dominant, friendships do not have to be of a sexual nature. Write if you're interested, being respectful and taking into consideration the time I've spent writing this personal profile. One-liner replies need not be sent.
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