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I notice many ads that request a man who is a slave at home, but "alpha" in public, at work, etc. Many others seek someone who can behave as if in a "vanilla" relationship to family and friends.
I think most of us understand the need for discretion in public and family situations. Probably most of the submissive men on here are completely capable of taking off the collar and making friendly conversation at Thanksgiving dinner with your conservative uncle. And most are adults who have held jobs and confronted the tasks of adult life, and are assertive enough to survive as well as anyone.
I wonder, why is this such a frequent specification? It seems either you want a slave or an alpha male. Almost no one can fulfill both roles convincingly on command - one has to be an act, and I should hope the alpha male role is the act. Is it shame about the lifestyle, about who you, and who your partner, really are? |