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Dominant ?don't want to be all the time.

That should be enough to break the ice.

Single not married. You should not be as well.




What happens when you find the person you have been looking for. Or,are you hooked on the seeking,looking and searching. Do you find it difficult to know just what to say when you reply to a message.
Experience yes. I have been searching as I'm sure you have and after spending some time with friends It accrued to me that I would enjoy being a switch. Yes I can rule another yet sometimes there is that need to just let go. Over the early months of 2010 I was asked to be the over seer of a private BDSM home. Nothing new for me I have done this type of work before. When the owners returned I noticed that they enjoyed just talking with me and being other than in charge.I continued to be in charge for the next 24 hours. As I lay down for the evening a couple of days later the Mistress of the house paid my room a visit.She asked if I ever had the desire to submit as she had to me the day she returned from her trip.I thought about it and I realized I did want and even needed to submit. (Yes she did submit to me her first night back) It was a evening I will never forget. Yes, I'm still Dominant. Now,I would enjoy both worlds. Are you searching for a man like me. Smart,well traveled and can carry on an intelligent conversation on any topic. I enjoy the company of a fun loving intelligent,well spoken, mischievous woman. Friends are always a pleasure to discover and make. So feel free to say hello. There is no pressure. I have never thought of this as a lifestyle.Not to be rude,however it seems that when one speaks of a lifestyle it is from outside looking in.I'm on the inside looking out. I have done things to others. I have owned and trained.Now I would like to be a partner. To control others together and to submit once in a blue moon or more often. I seek the full sensation. A wonderful woman that was my slave for over 4 years moved on because she wanted to see new places and new people. Just last month she contacted me and after some phones calls and emails we met. See, I knew she was really Dominant and didn't really know it.She really thought she was submissive.She was told she was and played the part well.But, playing was just what she had been doing even though she did not realize it. (Don't misunderstand she was one of the best slaves I have ever owned.It was her time to become both.She did!!! One day she may well create a profile like this one.When she is ready to be all she can be.) I told her I would be her slave with no limits. (You can imagine her surprise at what I had just said.)It took her a few days to think it over during that time I never mentioned it again. Almost a week went by before she brought it up again.She could not believe I would do it.I told her I would,I did and I kept my promise.She now has a new look on life and is so happy. To watch her find herself and the Dominant side being slowly set free. It was a pleasure to watch and I got to enjoy some wonderful sensations, It was truly wonderful. Sometimes it is better to let go and submit. Could it be that the switch is more attuned.