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Male Dominant, 34, Troy, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 35, Detroit, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 41, Manhattan, New York
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About ScholarDom
For those of you have not yet noticed, there is no D/s or SM or BDSM King or Tsar or Pope; No governing body, no rules or regulations, and certainly no BDSM bible. So if you think there are correct and incorrect ways to do this, or have any intention of ever saying "well then you're not in the Lifestyle" then you will annoy me no less than I annoy you.
On the topic of some actual facts about me, before getting started: I have a Master's degree (no pun intended, I'm a Master of Science) and I am not a pirate, I only play one on special occasions. ?I'm also married, and my wife is submissive to me.
I don't think I'm perfect. I don't think I'm God, or a god. I don't think I'm infallible. I don't think I know everything. In fact, if you're looking for a really interesting conversation, ask me what I actually think about knowledge itself. I do not think I'm the answer to all of your problems in life. I do not think you have to like the same amount of butter on toast as I do. I am not under the unfortunate delusion that I can control everything in life, so I'm not going to try.
I do think I'm smart. I do think I'm good looking. I do think I know a lot about a great many things. I do think I'm right a lot of the time. I do think I've got my life under at least some control. I do think I've got a deeper understanding of things than most people.
I also think I can talk too much, and that I can overreact to things and that the hair on my back is unpleasant. But as I said before, I'm not perfect and I'm never going to be.
There are things that scare me.
There are things I don't understand.
I have feelings, just like a human being is supposed to and I don't think that makes me weak.
On the whole, I do think I'm pretty awesome.
I'm quite sure that's as far as I can go with only one literary device.
I've been called an intellectual snob. That may be true, but my favourite part of being well read (fairly) and exceptionally literate is that it means I can enjoy all the levels of humour in the Simpsons. If you understood exactly what I meant by that, there is no question: you should email me right now. :)
I am frequently found in or near: Toronto, Montreal, GTA, Ottawa, Ontario, Quebec, Seattle, Bellingham, Washington, Surrey, Coquitlam, Richmond, BC
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Female is an adjective.? Girl and woman are nouns.? Male is an adjective.? Boy and man are nouns.
In answer to your next question: yes.? When one turns 18, one is either a man or woman, unless there is an applicable legal definition of "adult" in the context of your writing.? Therefore, one is a submissive woman, and not a submissive female.?? Neither submissive nor female are nouns.
That is all.
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This site's getting boring since I started limiting myself to people within a couple hours' drive.? But I waste less time here ... anyone want to vote on whether or not I should include girls outside Canada in my search?
Yeah I'm bored.
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Now I know they produce some high quality programmes, but why do all of these women have fetishes for the British Broadcasting Corporation?? I mean honestly... it's just a touch strange.
?Oh I'm hilarious.
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Attention CollarMe list-making-executive:
MUSEUMS is not a word.
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And I quote:
"lol ... my mistake.? I took you for someone of intelliect, welcome to the world child."
But in an ever so mature debating tactic, this user blocked me so as to have the last word.
I will reply to your last statement, however:
If you would like to support your assertions of truth by argumentation rather than proclamation, I will consider them.
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Well it's been a while so here's a new rant:
Consider the statement: "If I don't answer you, it's nothing personal."
Now, if this is followed by qualifiers like "I'm a lesbian so I don't answer men" or "I never answer mail on this site because there's too much of it" then we can consider the statement to be true.
However, when it is followed by a qualifier like "it just means I'm not interested in you" then ... what the hell of course it's personal.? That means you've read a person's profile, thought about whether or not you'd like to get to know that person, and decided you'd rather not.? Now that's fine; we all have the right to do that, but ... it's personal.? You looked at that person, and found something that dissuaded you, or nothing that persauded you, or both.? That's something personal about the individual in question used as your reason.? It is personal.? It may not be malicious, malevolent or mean spirited, but it was personal.
If you say "I don't like this person based on his personality" then it's personal.? And that's fine.? Just use the language correctly -- personal means specific to a person.? If you think my rants are annoying and you've decided not to message me, then that's personal.? If you just plain aren't attracted to white guys and you don't know why but we simply don't rev your engine, that's not personal.? And both are fine.? So talk to whomever you like, and ignore whomever you like, and stop feeling guilty about your reasons.
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Ok ... seriously ... anyone who assumes the name "Pendragon" is officially the biggest poser in the world.? Show me genaeological proof that you are descended from King Arthur (OK or his father or grandfather), or pick a different fruity name.
Seriously ... should I just decide to start calling myself Wales?? How about Mountbatten-Windsor?
I'm not ranting.? I find it offensive.? I'm not going to say who set me off on this, but I seriously find it offensive.
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I'm going to be in Florida in late October.? So anyone from around there who is interested, write.
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So I did some figuring, and I think about 25 to 35 years before I finally snap and walk in front of a train.? And knowing me ... it'll be at least 40 before I find someone who can tolerate being around me more than 2 hours at a time ... so now I'm not sure why I'm here, lol.
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AVAST ye scurvey dogs!? And yon wenches, send correspondence aboard me vessel that I may shiver ye timbers!
INTERNATIONAL TALK LIKE A PIRATE DAY BE UPON YE ALL!? MAY DAVEY JONES SPARE NONE!
YAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!
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Hmm I'd forgotten I'd written that last one. It was mostly tongue in cheek but it might explain why people aren't replying to me as often, lol.
Here is a new rant:
Girls who say you want an "older" Dom. Now a lot of you already do this -- and some even apologise for it like you think it makes you a bitch, but I assure you it does not -- but for crying out loud tell us what in sweet peanut butter your definition of older is!
Some say it's three or five years older. Some say it's 20. If you say in your profile "interested in guys over 35" I tend not to message you. Very clear and specific. But some of you are just totally ambiguous, and whether you think so or not at 18 or 19 years old, I'm a lot older than you are. No it is not the same as me talking to someone in their mid-30's ... it's an entirely different sort of gap. Now you may still be looking for someone even older, and that's up to you, and I really hope things work out for you, but how about not reacting like I'm some kind of idiot who can't read because, at 26, I count myself to be substantially more mature than a teenager.
That is all. Enjoy your day. |
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Been more than a month ... mostly because I hate IE and you can't edit these with firefox... but anyway ... This is a message for everyone at large:
I know I'm an asshole. I wasn't always. I am now. I've come to grips with the fact that I'm not a nice person anymore, and I don't care to hear about from you.
That is all.
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Ok so yeah we're still on the "no fat chicks" theme but get over it... I don't find them attractive. And there's a very simple reason for that: we're genetically predisposed, by evolutionary process, to be attracted to people that aren't overweight. If it was just OK to be overweight, it would be called "on-weight-but-near-the-top" instead of overweight. Guess what, folks... science has discovered that being fat is BAD FOR YOU! It's not something about which anyone should be complacent, much less to which anyone should aspire. (Let's stop the hate mail by having me point out here that people should seperate self-image and body-image. you can be a fantastic person and have a not fantastic body. I don't hate fat girls... they just don't turn me on is all.) But that's really just a preamble to my rant. The main point being this:
Being overweight is a competitive disadvantage, and overweight individuals are, by genetic and evolutionary criteria, undesireable mates. i.e. Fat people are not physically attractive to normal people.
So there's the preamble to the rant which is probably much shorter. We'll see. Now I'm not going to suggest that, if you're overweight, you shouldn't put up a picture. I'm not even going to be so crazy as to suggest you shouldn't make any of your pictures revealing of your many folds. Hey I think it's great, honestly I do, that you are confident enough to put it all out there for anyone to look at and be damned what assholes like me say. I really commend that. But can we call a truce and not have half naked or fully naked fat people as the MAIN profile pic? You know the one that can pop up, unsuspectingly, on my screen, lurking behind any screenname in the list with a little picture icon next to it? And before you suggest setting my search filter to weed out the fatties, let me tell you the numerous problems with that. For one, anyone who decides her weight is none of anyone's business is then excluded from the search. For another, just because a person doesn't give me a raging hard-on doesn't mean they're not worth talking to. I mean, if all of your best friends were immensely sexually attractive to you ... wouldn't you all be screwing each other? I mean what's better than being in a relationship with your best, hottest friend? Seriously... some of my best friends don't even have vaginas. True story! So come on people ... all you fat girls out there... show off that ... er... sexy sexy, supple (oh euphamisms) ass ... but can you make it the second or third pic? Then if I choose to scroll through them past the top of the pile, I takes my chances. If I just click on a local user or an interesting screenname... you think I could see you with clothes on, Sweetums?
PS I know there are a couple of brief phrasesin there that can be seen as particularly meanspirited. They aren't; just some entirely entertaining language presented itself and I just can't say no to a clever turn of phrase.
PPS The first four cute, young, single, sub, girls to get the final reference in the rant (right before the first postscript) will each be given pi brownie points. |
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Mini-Rant:
To PIQUE one's interest <-- correct.
To peak one's interest <-- illiterate.
Also, there are u's in colour, labour and many similar words. Webster doesn't count. |
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Ok so I haven't ranted in a while and people seem to enjoy it ... either love it straight up or love to hate me so... since I'm a bit drunk why not.
What in the hell is this "I'm a professional submissive but not a prostitute" crap? "Because your penis doesn't actually enter me, my allowing you the use of my body in exchange for money is not prostitution." Horse manure. Ok I get that what you're trying to say is "sorry lads... there will be no intercourse" when you say "not a prostitute." But ... please don't delude yourself. You're a common whore. You're just smart enough to exploit the john instead of the other way around.
I'm not saying that makes you better, worse, or the same as a hooker ... wait a minute yes I am. It makes you slightly better than a hooker. I'll give you that. You're not quite nut gobbler. But you're not far off. And honestly, don't get pissed off that you get solicited. you're out there saying "hey! you! desperate guy! PAY ME TO GET YOUR ROCKS OFF!!!!" OF COURSE you're going to get solicited for sex. If you were a 'full-service' prostitute, you wouldn't blatantly advertise so he'd have to ask. It's not a noble profession. It's not empowering. Tom Green's a whore and so are you. |
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I just love it when people who scream and rant about being treated equally, and having their rights to their own views and beliefs respected, can't help but shout and scream when confronted with one they don't like. Get over yourselves, everyone. you're nobody just like the rest of the world. |
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Why does every overweight woman feel entitled to call herself a "bbw" ??
First of all, among fat people there are good looking people, average people, and ugly people... so why the hell does just any fat woman get to call herself big and beautiful? It makes no sense! Especially since being overweight is a generally undesireable trait to begin with.
So, I'm taking suggestions for a new, euphamistic word or term to mean fat. But if you're going to suggest one, either have your height and weight listed in your profile, or include them in the message. What fun is this for me if I can't compare the answers I get from fat people vs. not fat people.
Oh ... and all you people who say "only reply if you're height weight proportionate" in your profiles... just come right out and say "No fat chicks." We all know that's what it means.
That's my random dealie for today. I might rant again in another what... 3 years or whatever it's been. |
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