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Male Dominant, 55, Boise, Idaho
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Male Switch, 44, British Columbia
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Dominant Couple, 22
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About Savoirman2
First off,? "it's a kink not a fucking lifestyle "
"The great majority of us are required to live a life of constant duplicity.? Your health is bound to be affected if, day after day, you say the opposite of what you feel, if you grovel before what you dislike, and rejoice at what brings you nothing but misfortune.? ~Boris Pasternak
A lot of travel these days, Florida, midwest, Los Angeles, Europe.......
Who I am.
I do not act out on these pages, I am
? a mannered man of many tastes.
Professional, affluent, polished, artistic, musician, rocker creative, deliberate and real.
Unfettered, solo, attractive,
Non smoker, active, great smile and a real sense of humor.
?I prefer to employ intellectual persuits over the Neanderthal mindset.
TEN THINGS?I AM NOT!
1.?A savior.
2.Tolerant of ignorance or bullys.
3. A?user.
4. Attracted to Brats.
5. Attracted to seriously twisted fucks on here.
6. A gamer.
7. Here for your cheap amusment.
8. A? horny little Troll
9.?A racial or social bigot
10. A? moronic cyber Dom.
TEN THINGS I AM
A man of principle.
A?fun person to simply know.
A caring friend.
A Seasoned Man.
A?Man??in control of his own life.
A?Man with real security.
A Man who?is consistant.
A? creative artist in the truest sense.
A man that does not need.
A man who will not bullshit you.
I am in real life a social being well traveled well groomed, well versed,? selective,? clever and creative,
Likes?
I am tactile, so clearly I choose erotica. What's not to like about kinky..doing the nasty. exploring evry single idea or thought I prefer things in private.
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?I loathe those whom I perceive are here seeking to unbalance the lives of others.?
I see many as pretenders and in my own term "?twists" the puppy kickers who?seek out others finding a need to act out abusive?or sadistic thoughts to feel in control.
I? am a rational man often?described as deliberate,?direct, spontanious, attractive, warm, comfortable and colorful.
One who?can care at all levels.?The entire package, one who has traveled in many galaxys with different tastes and interests.??
I desire?the true Erotic experience.
I am not a man who?entertains fools, fucktards or whiners.
If you'd care to engage a man of substance,? a firm grasp?,? One?who exhibits? real definition, then write.
I will be happy to respond.
?Drop a note!
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PURE UNADULTERATED RUBBISH !
Opinions are like flies, they are everywhere and prefer to dine on shit!
What I generally write is done tongue & cheek with an awesome undercurrent of reality. This sometimes seems like a lost poets society, so many women in despair no wonder the big Pharma companies are making zillions of dollars. Way to much depression and despair. I scribe, To much power in the fingers of poor personal managers. Greeting the sidewalk face down should only be the providence of a pair of shoes. Writing 7 page letters of loss in a public forum will attract no one.
As my father was fond of saying " If you're looking for sympathy, trying looking in the dictionary between shit & Syphilis! |
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Psst,
who started this Gorean crap anyway? It is like reading a guide to Dungeons and Dragons or the Hobbit... |
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Why the fuck would anyone want to hang out here? This is so not happening. Real life is going on all around you!
This cry's " I am lost " and I have a lantern and a flashlight!
The lurkers are all around you and yet you use the same failed tools and expect a different outcome? Ah well so much for my period visit to a wasteland of lost souls, desperate men and women who just can't find one another. |
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Domme Bullshit money & Games
I have a low tolerance for their ilk. Either fat piggish plumpers, or pro hookers with a nasty disposition.
They spew in their daily/?nightly journals, or in reality trolling as you will. I think they are hoping some moron will send shoes, jewlery and a check. Wow how pompous is that? "A whore after all is a whore even if she marries you" uncle Joe use to say.
But the suffering souls still love em, and pay them as they get played by them. Or are they actually playing each other?
I don't honestly get how anyone can find some nasty disposition bitch attractive and be willing to be a subserviant minion...
This is an opinion, and worthy of 3 beers and a wank... |
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Under consideration/Protection?
I remember this game as a kid, l'd consider all the kids who were not going to be on our side in kickball. We would keep them in play, just not play them.
We would always wait for someone else to show up who might be a better player!
Some kids paid other kids protection, turn over milk money etc. and not get beat up!
So in essence this is just like childrens games.
What is the difference?
I think little, if any. Keep a few in play, protect them, control mechanism in so called adults.
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The Rub!!
Is it me? Thought I would make an observation and write this with a grin, and employing a bit of humor as well. Is this world so far removed from the vanilla one? Are women here that much different from those one might meet while dating?
So many subs, switches, slaves avertise their wears on here, actually in many cases elude to lusty slut thoughts., and
then comes the hook!
Honesty is evasive, they want a LTR, they want a DOM..they want references, they want your SS # they want to know every personal thing about you.
OK, I agree, some information is relevant, and certain precautions need to be taken.
But when your sticking your ass, or breasts in a photo, wearing nylons garters etc, is it not advertising the goods?
Should they not expect that men being the nature they are would preceive that whats in side is the same as on the package? This is a form of the porn industry and people can call it what they like. But black is black.
So how far are we really from the Vanilla life?
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A bear of a day, a true task masters day. I strive always to be a person in balance. I do not understand people sliding off the edge, melting like snow people and loosing it.Some of my mail has improved ..at least on the surface.
However does everything revolve around an instant relationship? or is it a presumption? I am inclined to test drive a vehicle before I purchase it. I try on a coat before taking it to the cashier. I must commit before exploring ones sexuality and personality?
Sounds a bit strange does it not?
Oh and do 3 somes count?
Just my rambling opinion.
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It's been a year since I have bothered to write anything here. It's still the soft parade. Hysterical women, overly assertive men, relationship to relationship, how in hell do they ever know which end is up? Is everyone living in some sort of fantasy dream bubble? The line between DOM and sub has been narrowing. Hard to tell which is which? Things get overplayed, theatre at it's worst.
drama..drama...drama...
Oh well there is always politics!! lots of whores for sale at depression era pricing. |
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Another day, read mail, delete delete, delete. I keep having to answer the same damned questions, For those who don't get it...
One more time!!! I do not post a photo, I have a high public profile... I do not have a wife, girlfriend, significant anything. I prefer to stay employed in the local limelight!!
Damn this election is giving me fatigue! I have gone out on a few vanilla dates lately! HowFreakin boring making small talk with popsicles!
Ski, snow, is coming, time to haul in the sails, and get off the water..Brrrrrrr... |
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I have I guess confused some people, others simply fail to see logic. I am not about playing mind games, although play as a whole has many dimensions. I fail to see sportsmanship in playing people, using them to self perpetuate ones own twisted concepts about this lifestyle.
Being a direct and candid personality, I focus on what life is really like, work, interests, friends, entertainment.
I cannot, nor do I desire to control every moment of another human beings life.
To love someone wholly, truthfully, and deeply brings about a natural progresion in any relationship. M/s is a state of being within a relationship. I love with a large heart, I give openly and freely, in return I get loyalty and submission in defering to me in making decisions for the betterment of the relationship. I need not put everything on a page here as to what I enjoy and what I expect. Christ! who in hell wants to read a novel? Everything in a relationship is learnig, giving and taking.
You are certainly going to make mistakes. But it is important what you take from those mistakes. Have you shown a willingness to be a willow? To bend with the wind? to stand firm in storm? To shed and renew? I have lived this lifestyle for 30 plus years, I know what I want, and also what I need. In communication, those things require full understanding of things we can't live without and things we can make adjustments to.
So if I am unwilling to kick your ass, leave you tied up in a closet, step all over your feelings, insist you service my friends, be emotionless,
that would make me a natural Dom?
No that would make me an a Collarme wanna be.
So what do women really seek? A state of worthlessness? Self loathing? sometimes it appears that is how they value themselves. |
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DO YOU HAVE A LIFE?
In discusions or should I say emails, I was amazed at how some people seem to live through this site. Mindless? Lonely? Desperate?
Or simply gamers? Who wants to assume total liability for another adult? I cannot respect a person who is incapable of assuming responsability for themselves.
What have you to contribute? I clean up after myself, cook my own meals, clean my own home and not looking for a maid!
How can you live here ? when people seem to be on here 24/7 I have to wonder..
Do they really have a life?
Real people live real lives, it's not about lurking and hoping some guy will pick up your tab.
I think it's important to have a view or and opinion and not always defer to another.
D/s M/s does not truly mean you should be mindless.
I am not in search of a wall hanging, nor in search of a step n fetch it!
How odd is this? you write someone, they write back, when you write something relavant, they do not respond.
But when you call them on it, they write back and say Oh you did not get my reply?
You know I did not as you sent nothing.
Why not answer questions put to you?
Does this site delete emails selectively? I think not.
Well so much for todays rant. I do not live to seek absolute control over another living breathing being.
, I like to believe others are born with brains and opinions on life.
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Well I have returned to these pages, sad to say in viewing new profiles, many seem like old profiles. In that, it seems for many there is a blueprint. A standard, that which they believe is what one should write.
Does one have their own thoughts? Ideas" goals, desires?
I use to single out some of the men on this sight, not by name but by character. Many of them were rather repugnant to me. I am not the "Ultimate Dom" nor are they! It just appears to me we are saddled with so many illusionists who self proclaim to be F.K. I . A, there are no pat answers.
Chances are you have met them, but then of course we all have. I am not about a 24/7.That would be horribly exhausting. I still like vanilla, chocolate and strawberry. I honestly prefer stability, I like other things, much wider interests. I believe there is for me a companion of equal stature who prefers to stand shoulder to shoulder intuitively.
A switch? I think not, I am confident in who and what I am.
She in turn is equally confident. I do not drift into thoughts of ri9gid S/M, total control of another being, if I desired a puppy, I would fetch one.
I have no illusions about people, some are here for the titillation, others in search, and yet more are clueless and hoping to feed an uncertain need.
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