I started out with a very kinky lifestyle, I have some ideas of what i want and don't want. I am not a slave, and don't wish to be a slave. I will not be owned, nor do I want a 24/7 lifestyle. I have been told I have a very strong submissive side... yet to call myself a sub would be on overstatement. I get board giving all the time, but have been too afraid to try switching... still learning!