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Update:
*** I do not share my yim s/n with people until I am comfortable with them***
***I read entire profiles on this site. If a person took the time to write it all out, then I will take the time to see what it says. This is a LONG profile; please read completely to better understand me and where I come from.***
First and foremost, I want to extend a "thank you" to the following people: zzyzx, Motionflipotion, thepunisherJ, morethanthis, Gus00 and Happosai.
Each of you have helped me in some way, and for that I am grateful.
Now, I do realize that recently my profile said that I was leaving, for those of you that notice this new text. And while I still kind of feel that way (like others can't play nicely), I suppose I will take the advice I've been given.
What you all deserve to know is that I am a multi-faceted person. I have practically 2 lives, as far as we should all be concerned. I like to keep my vanilla affairs to myself, upon first meeting someone on this site. I rarely refer to myself by my real name. I will, more often than not, stamp everything with Sare. (I don't like typing out Sareptum everytime) I like to think of myself as Dominant, but recently I've decided that I am whatever someone perceives me. If upon initial contact you feel I am not Dominant, that's fine by me -- like I said, I'm multi-faceted.
I try to be kind and polite to everyone I meet; real life and cyber. For the most part, I don't judge people. I do have off days-- but who doesn't. I am only human. I love being laid back and relaxed. I adore a comfy atmosphere. I detest negative energy and attitudes. When I come in contact with someone who has either or both, it throws my inner balance off. (aka I'm usually irritated for a brief/extended period of time) I don't like being walked on or talked down to. I'm a Pisces and I wear my heart on my sleeve. I am aware that makes it easier to stab at, but I don't intend on moving it. :)
I've been in this Lifestyle for a little over 9 years now. I am learning every day. I consider myself an extreme novice. It is that reason that I choose to not take on any subs or slaves. (that would be ridiculous, right?) I do, however, hope to meet some learned Dom/mes that would be willing to share their experiences and possibly offer a bit of guidance to me. Eventually, I would seek a Mentor. I currently stand by what my profile states -- friends only.
I love receiving messages from fellow cm'ers. The nasty ones usually make me laugh. There are some every now and again, that seriously get under my skin. Since I can be stubborn and out-spoken from time to time, negative responses may occur. Fighting is never the answer, in the end.
While I have stated in the past that I don't wish to receive messages from people asking me to be their Mistress or use them in some fashion, I've come to terms with the fact that I won't get special treatment. I understand completely that there are people out there who will not read any of this profile, long winded as it may be. I will receive messages from subs/slaves/Doms that are unusual in context and some of these I will respond to. Of course, I'll respond if I think the message merits one. But, to be honest with all of you, if I don't care for the message and how it's presented (ie-- cyberish in nature/rude)... I'm going to ignore it. I know, some of you feel this is rude... but it's so redundant to type the same thing over again. I hate repeating myself. Anything from one liners to sexually disgusting will be read, that's a promise. But, to get a sincere response from me, it has to be a message with substance. I want you to talk to me because I've said something that's a) caught your attention or b) encouraged a question. I even like the messages of just a compliment on my pictures. Who would turn down something like that?? :)
I've shared all this with you in hopes for you all to become better acquainted with the person behind the screen. I've tried to the best of my abilitiy to convey the type of person I am, both in and out of this Lifestyle. I welcome any thoughts that you may want to share with me.
Thank you for reading my profile. It is greatly appreciated if you've made it this far.
Take Care. :)
~Sare |
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Man, I think I've gotten in over my head....
What did I get myself into????? [dear lord] |
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I spoke too soon..... [lol] |
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Now I've seen it all! For the first time in MONTHS, I've logged into my account to find NO MESSAGES!
Some how, it seems strange... but it is also a little welcome.
[shrugs] |
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Is it just me... or is it just one of those days?
I can't seem to comprehend why others think they know what I want and who I am, when I clearly have all of that stated in my profile. Why do they feel they need to send me messages saying that they know we're totally right for eachother. "We have so much in common!" Yet, most of these people haven't even read my entire profile. If they did read all of the text, which requires actually opening the entire thing, they'd also get the added bonus of my interests list. Then, they'd know quite a few things I'm into... instead of sending something like, "So, what are you interested in?" I don't like being told who I am. I can admit I'm confused on a daily basis about certain things, but who I am as a person and DEFINITELY what I'm seeking, are things I KNOW about MYSELF.
I hate to rant, but these messages aren't few and far between. It's not just one person, refusing to accept the truth... or turning a blind eye to reality... It's a crap load of men claiming they've read my profile and connected with it... but I can't corroborate such things when looking at my "Who's Viewing Me?" list....
It's slightly annoying to be told something that is obviously so false..... |
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Oh, my god.... that guy was the creepiest man I've ever come across on this website... TO DATE. If there were a prize for such a thing, he'd win it EVERY YEAR until the END of time.....
Slow your roll buddy.... Stop acting so desperate. |
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i've received battle wounds....
at least i caught the cat.
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Why is there always someone that pops up out of no where... when things are going great.... just to SHIT ON YOUR PARADE....
This is for her; she knows who she is:
GO OBAMA!
You can't take me down anymore... nor can you ruin my happiness! |
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Where did all the genuinely straight guys go?
Everytime I turn around, they're always crooked! |
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