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My dilemma: I want a relationship that happens to have a kink component, so regular vanilla sites don't bring me any joy... but I don't want a relationship that is -based- in kink, because that's just one facet of the multifaceted richly complex person that I am.
I'm a "bedroom submissive" who craves a firm touch. ?I'm also a mom of teens, a techie, a lover of words, a photographer, a foodie, a bit of a geek, a kinda-shy/kinda-outgoing ENTJ who is part kitten and part bulldozer. Probably more the latter than the former. ? I seek a man who can bring me to my knees with a word, who is also my companion, my confidante, my helpmate. ?An alpha mensch.
I'm tall, curvy, brainy, brassy, busty, analytical, slightly cynical but not too much. ?As the name implies, intelligence makes me hot. ?So does radical honesty, an edgy wit, and competence. ?I'm left leaning/progressive, non-religious, well-educated and seeking same.
What I don't seek: cheaters of any flavor no matter how compelling your sob story; don't waste your time or mine. I lean toward "monogamish" but would consider connecting with someone poly seeking a steady secondary. I don't do one-offs, NSA, booty calls, or LDRs. I'm also not interested in 24x7, TPE or being anyone's "slave".
You can find out more about me on FL.
Do I contradict myself? ?
Very well then I contradict myself,
?(I am large; I contain multitudes) |
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