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SageDom55

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A genuine practiced, and happily married, Dom, with many years experience in the lifestyle, seeking a longer term relationship with a lady. [In the right circumstances, I might also be open to casual play with a lady, but would prefer to establish and develop a relationship for the longer term.] I am looking to teach and guide and grow together as well as enjoy the immediate pleasures of scening, and I enjoy learning from the ladies with whom I play. D/s is a two way street. I am very experienced in D/s relations, practices and safety issues. I am an honest and decent man who firmly expects the same qualities in the submissives I play with . Only with honesty and decency can a relationship be developed and nurtured to provide the trust essential to a sound D&S relationship. I am strict but fair, and expect my submissives to establish and agree to rules and rituals with me, and live by their consequences. I understand D&S issues rather well, and enjoy teaching and learning both within D&S and without. I enjoy spending comfortable time with an intelligent submissive, in all sorts of ways. By that I mean scening, commanding, training, supporting, talking, joking or simply relaxing. You will note from my profile that I am married. It is important to stress that I play with the full knowledge and support of my wife, though clearly I recognise that some will find this does not suit their desires or preferred play patterns. Married men are not all bad; it simply depends what you are looking for. Obviously, I am not well placed to be a future husband or live-in boyfriend, but if you are looking for a committed and serious D&S relationship without those vanilla overtones, do not think for one moment that I cannot give you the time and support you may need. The type of lady I am seeking will enjoy many aspects of D/s play, including sensual stimulation and sensual deprivation; impact play (I am well versed in the use of canes, paddles, floggers, as well as my own hands ); behavioral modification and the performance of rituals; orgasm control; and denial. It is critical to me that my submissive enjoys her service to me, (and service may be motivated because she feels a very genuine desire to please me, or it may be that I shall command it from her. Do you always wish to serve as a devoted submissive, or is there a part of you that sometimes likes to be simply told that you WILL serve as I command?) As a Dominant, I prefer submissives who are not overly large women; By that, I do not mean that I desire slim, model perfect ladies, simply that I am not a fan of massive bbws. As I say above, I am also not in a position to be a live-in boyfriend or husband type, so if that is what you seek, I am not for you.