sachiaiko

Please read entire profile before mailing me, or you likely will not get a response. Thanks!

There are a few things I’m open to enjoying in and I thought this might be a good place to begin in finding them. I have been involved for quite some time in the BDSM and D/s community – ONLINE however, and not in the real world very much. The bit I have done in the real world is enough to let me know that it is indeed what I enjoy and wish for in my every day life. I ultimately would like to find a long term loving relationship with a Submissive bisexual poly male or female, however, Submissive in the bedroom doesn’t always mean submissive in the rest of their lives. I am absolutely horrible at picking restaurants when going out, I’d love a partner who could help me with such dilemmas! Hehe.

However, I am a DOM plain and simple. I am also poly, and I would really enjoy a dominant as well at some point. However, for me to submit is a rare and precious thing, and by no means would be regular unless I became very safe with the person. I'm a dominant with *rare* switch tendancies (I really request no DOMS try and recruit me as a sub. I am NOT a sub, never will be, and don't want to be. Please respect that.) I am looking for people not afraid of vanilla, cuddles, romance, sweetness and other such goodnesses are also important to me. I like to get kinky, but the honest truth is 100 percent of the time is a bit much. Sometimes I just like to cuddle. Hrrm…

Other facts to note are that I am chronically disabled with a pain disorder I can not control. I truly am unable to work, though I write and try and make money with my hypnotherapy and skills in that avenue, it’s not enough to support myself and I am trying to get on disability. Unfortunately, as kinky and fun a person I am in my head, this disability limits some of my sexual play simply because I hurt :(

This is why I am looking for loving and long term and live in if it works out. Know me for me, understand I’m kinky and fun and sweet and dominant, and if ya likes me mayhap we’ll be able to get into something fun, kinky and precious.

Some things I’m interested in are, pain play(from gentle flogging on up to the more intense things), biting, hot wax, bondage, orgasm denial/training, watching my pets with others, forced bisexuality,Leash/collar, public play, body art, and many others, but those are the ones that come to mind big now. It’s good to note especially for the pain play that though I enjoy it a lot, it’s not required, if receiving pain isn’t fun for my partner/pet then giving it is sort of lackluster for me.

And in the same vain it’s not so fun for me to be overly verbally abusive, I love to listen to sounds so I tend to not cover faces or mouths, masks are a real big turn off, not huge into cross dressing but there are exceptions to any rule. Again, these are the ones that come to mind presently. Also no scat/watersports/diaper play.

So, this is a bit about me, I’m really a fun sweet person, if you’re interested in getting to know me feel free to write. You will get a much, much better response from me if you don’t come right out and ask for sex. I’m not easy, try being my friend first and lets see where we go. I just have never been much into casual sex and I don’t see that changing any time soon. So, I hope to hear from some of you!

As of right now, I'm looking for a Submissive. So, I would love to hear from Submissives who ultimately desire a live-in situation. I won't just take a slave without knowing them, so if you're interested I expect true effort in your note to me. Writing a disjointed note stating all the things you want me to do to you is not going to get a very positive response. Write telling me what you desire, long term, tell me about yourself, give me random fun information and show me your personality. Any Slave of mine will be personality plus and love to explore and try new things, press the boundaries of what they think they can do, and be looking for a loving long term live in situation.

Gentle hugs to all :)

Nikki