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~The thing that I hate about writing profiles is that so many people completely ignore what is written; only to ask questions about things that have already been answered. Therefore, I'm not going to write a long profile statement.~
CAVEAT: There are many misconceptions as well as personal opinions that abound regarding the various roles that one may find in these lifestyles. What I seek and offer to a potential partner is not entirely unique, but it also not common-place.
Let me start off by defining who I am and what I have to offer to a potential submissive partner: I'm a polyamorous, heterosexual, multi-dimensional (have other focused interests outside of bdsm & leather) Leather Master who was born and raised on the island of Jamaica and have lived in the US since 1981 ~ Yes, I have been here for over 30 years and still have my accent. I am the proud owner of a black female consensual slave, whom I’ve owned since 2008.
I believe the it is very important to approach, communicate and interact with others with respect for self and respect for them. It is my preference to be addressed as Sir or Sable, unless I’m being addressed by My own slave(s). Other forms of address such as baby, honey, sweetheart, sunshine, darling, or any other intimate terms of endearment are not acceptable from anyone with whom I've not connected with on an intimte level.
I firmly believe in and practice the art of chivalry and the etiquettes of being gentlemanly. I have eclectic tastes in the areas of sensual, sadistic, spiritual, energy focused kinks and fetishes which I won't list here nor select from the CM list. These subjects are only worth discussing with those who seek to embark upon a journey of mutual discovery.
As previously stated, I am polyamorous. For clarifiction to the uninitiated, this means that I only engage in a relationship structure and dynamic that is multi-partnered. This is a dynamic where all involved are in a committed life-partnership with each other. They are dedicated to sharing and supporting each other in their respective visions and goals with equal passion.
I seek a few women who fully understand the above to share in the mental and emotional aspects of dominance and submission in consensual enslavement, but also enjoy the benefits of a successful, harmonious family structure and dynamic.
My basic requirements of a potential life-partner is that they must be:
1)multi-dimensional, single, spiritually-focused.
2)honest, intelligent, articulate, well-read, with a propensity to see the lighter side of life.
3)a non-smoker and non-drinker who is STD Free
4)a natural born female.
5)one with marketable career skills and be able to relocate after a reasonable time of mutual consideration and exploration has transpired.
Additional requirements will be made available to those who submit an inquiry.
Inquire only if you meet the above requirements. |
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Why Do You Keep Getting Into Relationships With The Wrong Person?
Have you ever wondered why you keep getting into relationships with the same type of people that you DO NOT WANT in your life over and over?
Especially online, after you have taken the time to be very clear in your progril about the kind of person that you don't want. Yet, they are exactly the type of people who keeps coming at you and even worse, it is the type of person that you keep ending up in a relationship with!
The reason why this occurs is that you’ve been conditioned to focus on the negative, rather than on the positive. This conditioning is all around you; you get it from the music, the news reports, and the conversations you engage in every day.
All of these information are processed by your conscious mind (your logic center) which accepts the information it receives as either positive (truth or good), or negative (false or bad). The conscious mind then decides which of the information to focus on and transfers those to the subconscious mind (your emotion center).
The subconscious mind operates on the principle that all information it receives from the conscious mind. It does not possess the ability to determine what is good or bad; it accepts all information received as good.
It is important to understand this because the subconscious mind is your direct connection to formless substance. Formless substance is the thing by which all things are created and manifested into the natural. It is invisible in its original state and comes together to form the molecules that make up both animate and inanimate objects in our universe. It is the thing that magnetizes you to attract that which you desire(focus on) to come to you. For the sake of being expeditious with this essay, and foregoing all the intricate details of the theory regarding formless substance. I’ll cite the following:
“There is a thinking stuff from which all things are made, and which, in its original state, permeates, penetrates, and fills the interspaces of the universe. A thought in this substance produces the thing that is imaged by the thought. A person can form things in his thought, and by impressing his thought upon formless substance can cause the thing he thinks about to be created.” ~ Wallace G. Wattles, “The Science of Getting Rich”.
When you decide that you either want or do not want a thing and begin to focus on that thing. The “want/do not want” information is passed from your conscious mind to your subconscious mind where it is accepted as something that you “want”. Again this is because your subsconscious mind does not operate on logic and accepts the information as being good and necessary in your life. That thought is then impressed upon formless substance which goes about the task of creating that thing which is wanted.
Therefore, when you begin to declare and focus on the type of partner or people that you don’t want in your life, with a statement such as.. “*I **DON’T WANT** a partner or people in my life who are liars, fakes, wannabes, cheaters, playas, is unfaithful, etc.*” That information is received by your subconscious mind as, *I **WANT** a partner or people in my life who are liars, fakes, wannabes, cheaters, playas, is unfaithful, etc.*”
Don’t believe me?
You don’t have to…all you have to do is prove if the theory works or not.
You can do so by simply changing your mindset and begin to focus only on the people and things that you want in your life instead of those that you don’t want in your life. If you can do that effectively for 30 days, then you’ll begin to see the changes being made.
CAUTION:
This may cause you to lose a lot of your current “friends”. |
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I am unapologetic in who I am...don't like it...too bad.
Go find someone else who is a spineless, pussy begging wuss. |
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Alright ladies,..why do you feel that it's your job to educate everyone on what the definition of the various aspects of these lifestyles are via your profile?
If the people who take the time to read your profile, don't know these things...it will be obvious to you during your conversation with them.
Stop wasting your time doing that...focus on the important things which are showcasing your personality and what you require in a prospective partner. |
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Wow!!! I've been reading the journals of several slaves and submissives (s-types) and there seems to be a constant theme about how they are being approached and treated by "Masters" and "Dominants" (d-types).
Looks like the concept of having good manners is alien to many of these d-types. But wait, isn't there this universal requirement of s-types to always display good manners towards the d-types?
Isn't it a form of hypocrisy to demand good manners and etiquette in others when you, don’t posses them? Or is it just that those who are failing to display them are simply morons.
In times past, being gentlemanly was much appreciated and was a noble thing among d-types. Alas, things have changed in today's version of these lifestyles and now the "landscape" is flooded with characters who lack good breeding and taste. |
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