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Searching for that one VERY special one.
SSC, straight male who is caring, fun, and loving yet no lack of dominant tendancies is ISO of the one special lady out the there whom can captrue not only my attention but my my heart, my soul and my being as well.
What I seek is tremendously difficult to put into words; and without question goes well beyond physical descriptions, likes/dislikes etc. Chemistry - (allthough the term itself is used a little too often and perhaps a bit cliche), is the number one quality we must posses for whatever relationship to develop. A connection must exsist on a deeper level than just sexual desire alone.
I've had a good deal of expereince, yet allways open to learn and explore and desire those same traits in a partner; in fact I've assumed the role of Mentor to many and it is a quite fitting and natural role for me; therefor this person most likely will not have vast BDSM r/t experience. (allthough this certainly would not be grounds for exclusion either)
I'm educated, articulate, well-traveled and basically just a decent, kind human. Phyically ht/wt proportionate, often told I look younger than my age with a older wisdom and a young heart.
I do not like great drama, I'm an easy-going person and tend to gravitate to the same. I have a way of finding humor in most anything and often am teasingly sarcastic.
I have a life outside of BDSM and expect that to be accepted and respected - as I will in turn do the same.
As stated earlier, I constantly strive to learn and expand, but realistically, I most likely will never aspire to edge-play - I much prefer a more sensual approach and compatibilty in this should be considered.
A few words on Trust;
I perfer to think of trust as a two-way street.
I never want to be given trust - I'd much rather earn it.
Trust is the most powerfull to have - and the most weakening to lose.
Trust is flat-out sexy.
I've been (probably rightfully) accused of not being open enough in my life with those close to me; however I can't help but feel that those doing the accusing to had that trust of I speak of to allow that. A bit cynical? perhaps... but absolutely how I feel about it after some serious, honest reflection.
That's a small bit about me, I'll use the journal and add some as I see fit. In the meantime, if all of this seems to click within you, if you wish and long for a person to unashamedly confess your desires to, and think there may be something more to "us" - drop a note and let me know a little about you.
On note on photos; My public life demands a degree of discretion; I'll happily share a photo when we've established ourselves a little. But my l have a need to protect my livehood as I do enjoy the lifestyle it affords me. I am not ashamed of my life choices, just quite simply, I understand that some of the "outside world" do not take well those within the realm of BDSM.
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It was pointed out to me that my profile gives the ipression that I did not want my partner involved in my "vanilla" life - that was not the intent. - Thanks for bringing my attention to that!
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