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I'm really not sure where I'm going or who I'm going there with, but I'm eager to find out... I have career goals that are daunting to say the least, and may need to go back to school... but what I can say for sure about where I need to be is its not here... I'm not so much about sex as I am about a caring nurturing relationship... don't get me wrong, sex is nice - but if that's all you want then I'm not the girl for you. I want someone that will let me lay my head in their lap and they'll stroke my hair even if they are not really paying me much attention - but the point is that they should care about me and keep me disciplined and on track towards my goals even when my own will might be about to falter. For more than that about me, just talk to me.
=Update=
After a good bit more thinking about what I want/need, I'd like to make something perfectly and completely clear. I am looking for a Dominant/submissive relationship - NOT a Master/slave relationship. I have NO interest in total power exchange. I don't want to be a possession that is 'allowed' some independence... I am an independent woman (and will remain so) whom 'allows' those she loves and cares about to make decisions for her so long as it makes her happy. I do not have any desire to have my behavior remodeled or to be punished for saying 'no' - unless it is a specific behavior modification that I've asked my Dom or Domme to help me make - such as quiting smoking (I don't smoke, just used it as an example) or making me stick to my exercise routine or learning to enjoy a form of sex that really makes my man (or woman) happy.
I'm the sort of woman whom is naturally submissive - I love pleasing my man... and I love thinking of myself as his woman - if I'm in a relationship with him, then I have the 19th century mentality that I belong to him so long as we are in a relationship (but I don't believe that my belonging to him restricts me from the right to leave - it just makes me not want to unless he abuses my trust and love)... I won't stay in a relationship I'm not happy in, and I won't stand for being punished for saying 'no' unless it is a behavior modification I've asked him to help me make for myself... not something he wants me to become that I'm disinclined to become.
Any relationship needs to begin with respect, care, and trust - if you want to change me, you need not apply - asking someone to change who they are is deeper than Dominant/sub relationship and one can never ask someone to change if they care about them... one can only be loved enough that their partner wants to change at their own pace and discretion... if you think you want to love me and let me lovingly serve and submit to you as I wish to and no more, then please do contact me as I would be incredibly happy to make your acquaintance.
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