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| Involved in the local BDSM and Ds community. Organize a "submissive safe space" for female and male slaves, submissives, and newbies. The group meets the second Saturday of each month at "The Woodshed" in Orlando from 5-7pm. Happily owned slave to RounderFla, not looking for any relationships, merely as a contact to other slaves, submissives, and newbies for information and safety. |
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Today is the 7th anniversary of our collaring. Master and I met on-line. His first line to me was, "so, how submissive are you?" I almost did not even respond to him. But I did, and found him to be sincerely interested in the lifestyle, highly intelligent with a good sense of humor. We had lunch, I thought he was a nice guy. I didn't think he was actually interested in me, so I tried to fix him up with a few friends. I thought we would just be friends, then 4 months or so later I had realized I had fell in love with my friend. Unknown to me, he was in love with me, and knew I was in love with him, before I did. I fought it tooth and nail. I didn't want to be in love. I gave in and accepted what was, and became his submissive, but I made it very clear I would never ever be a slave. Well, never say never...a few months later he pointed out to me I was his slave. I had realized this too, but again fought it tooth and nail. I had to admit the truth to myself and to him. I am his slave. It has not been all rosy. We have both made mistakes. Like any relationship, it takes work, lots of communication, tolerance, and putting the other person's needs first. We both are better people for knowing each other as Master and slave, as lovers, as partners in life, as best friends. My Master, I love you and am proud of you and to be yours. You are my heart. |
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I had a pleasant talk with a dominant tonight about how to approach and develop a relationship with a submissive. How to deal with all the walls we, both dominant and submissive, have pain stakingly built brick by brick over the years, one brick at a time. You can't build a fire without kindling and wood. And if you try using an accelerant, you know what happens...a big flame that dies out in seconds, leaving you cold and hungry. Why is it that so many think (as I did when I was making every possible mistake) that we can create instant relationships? When in fact, Ds/BDSM relationships should be more deeply developed or minimally as much as any non Ds/BDSM relationship. I see no wrong in having a safe playpartner, or finding experiences with trusted members of the community in a safe environment. A Ds relationship is so laden with emotion and power, I know it can be hard to not want it so much to leap in head first before you know how deep, cold, and monster laden the water may be. I wish I had a map to tell others how to maneuver through the water just right to find that well-spring. It is easy to tell someone to be patient, it is near impossible to do. When I was dating, years ago, I would give or send the book "The Little Prince" (or at least Chapter 21) to those dominants. Not a single one took the time to read it and discuss it with me, until Master. Is that why we made it to our relationship? I don't know. I do know he was patient, he asked me questions and listened to me. He took the time to let me become unique to him, the time to tame me, to make me feel safe eating from his hand. He made me glad and excited to hear his footsteps approach. We are both human and have had our fair share of mistakes. Please, if you are a dominant, take the time to tame that one you want to be special to you in all of the world. Be aware, some are not met to be tamed and will always be feral. If you are submissive, please do the same, and expect to be tamed. Do not go for the bait subtly hidden in a trap. Expect to be hand fed, to have the behavior proved safe by repetition and consistency. Good luck in your search, and Master, I love you more each day, if that is even possible. Thank you for making me yours.
http://www.angelfire.com/hi/littleprince/frames.html |
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Saturday was the first meeting of "Submissive Safe Space." It was a good meeting with great discussion. Everyone seemed to feel safe to participate in the discussion. The women present decided to open the group to male submissives, slaves, and newbies. The club will also be sponsoring a switches group which will be a great thing. The Dominants that came with their submissives/slaves, got together and went to a bar near the club to play pool and then to dinner during the meeting. I am so looking forward to further meetings and hope we can be a true support to our community. |
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Master and I attended Beyond Leather last weekend in Ft Lauderdale and had an absolutely amazing time. What a wonderful job SirTop and bonnie did on the entire event. I do hope we can return next year. I
have has some inquires regarding the sisters' lunch. It has been on hiatus for a number of months due to a lack of interest and participation. I know those who would like to attend, but life is busy and sometimes trying to free a few hours is a challenge. Since I have had some queries, I am going to try to start it up again. On Master's suggestion, I have spoken to Master Cecil of "The Woodshed" in Orlando reagrding holding the meetings in his club.. He is supportive of any venture that will benefit our community. I am thinking of a monthly meeting of roundtable discussions and possible speakers for submissives, slaves, bottoms, and newbies of the submissive persuasion. It will be free of charge, probably on a Saturday from 5-7pm. If you are a "sister" in the Central Florida area and happen to read this, please let me know your thoughts on such a meeting and topics you believe may be of intersts. I would like it to be a safe space for "sisters" to talk, share, celebrate, ask questions, gain education, friends, support, and a safety net. |
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