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I often wonder if women take the time to read these days. It certainly doesn't seem like it. And if you are a tease, being well traveled I have been teased by women far more attractive that I have found here. Like to play no problem.
In summary, my desires are simple really: I am seeking a sub or slave that knows BDSM is not just on the physical level. My sub/slave should be intelligent, cultured, fit, curious and thinks beyond the box. Am I willing to make a commitment, absolutely. I am NOT definitely looking just to jump into bed that is ridiculously easy these days.
Nothing worth having is ever easy to obtain. My Sub should know that and I know that. She and I will be on a constant journey. We cannot hit the jackpot in one conversation, one meeting, one e-mail or just a few of the above. Something of value takes time to build. It is an in investment of time and intellect. Most relationships are transient, which is par for the course. And we may indeed be ships that pass in the night, but better tor try than to sit back an watch the world pass by.
As far as distance, I am not a provincial sort of fellow. Distance is irrelevant provided the woman is worth time. The world is a very large, yet small place. I don't limit my searches to the proverbial 5 miles from where I stand. However, if a very beautiful woman lived but one mile from me, and we had a falling out that mile is one mile too far. I seek that sort of thought from my Sub also.
Of course the world is not perfect. I am not perfect, and no Sub will ever be perfect, just as no Dom will ever be perfect, However, I seek ways to tantalize my Sub. These methods are physical, mental, vocal and spiritual - if that can be said - the proverbial, "I want your very soul."
Intelligence, wit, fitness are things that I look for and although it is seldom that one has it all, One can damn well try looking.
Finally sex is super easy to get these days. I don't have trouble finding vanilla sex. That is not what I want. I like the total experience. If this is you, then write to me.
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I relatively recently got a response that said my profile was a tad vague. Unlike most people I do not want to be part of the Digital Live series. In time that leads to problems, which of course is already happening. After all would one go about with a sign that told everything about their life hanging around their neck?
I state enough to wet a particular appetite, but really don't open my life as if it were a book. I only e-mail women or couples in which I have an interest and if they have an interest fine if they don't I most assuredly do not bombard them with incessant e-mails saying I am the one or I am super special. I am selective not desperate or driven only by my sex drive. I look for the same a selective sub female or a selective couple. As I stated I have no sexual disease and plan to stay that way.
Sex and the fact that I love BDSM are the reason that I am on this site. So if you need to know more, then it is expected that you ask. And just because you ask doesn't mean I have to divulge. I have also have to know whom I am speaking with, which goes back to my distinct desire to be intelligently discreet. Isn't that right Kitten?
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Gosh, I am so very popular... with ladies who simply cannot spell. I am amazed at the utter transparency of the fraud perpetuated by some users. They always seems to be from the Bronx, don't have a mother and father, live with an aunt and so on. Even better their grasp of the English grammar is utterly absent. And perhaps the crowning touch is that they just know they and I are a perfect fit that is until I ask for more pictures.
Then there are those that claim so many adventures until you contact them and then they suddenly vanish. Sigh, does everything have to be so patently fictional? I write fiction on an amateur basis so many of the introductions seem too good to be true, which of course means those spectacular intros are indeed FAKE.
Collarme is not a perfect Website, but it is provided freely so one should make the most of the services provided. Sometimes when one e-mails a perspective partner one does not know if that e-mail was received. This may be why some ladies receive more than one e-mail from me. Truly I am dominant, but that doesn't mean that I am ignorantly dominant.
Gosh, I feel better already.
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Ha, ha.. go into a room and instantly get checked out by a lot people who don't seem to know how to message or ask first. But shouldn't a dominant be forward enough to ask? I do. It is not as if "required" is the same as "will serve" or "equivocal." The name is implicitly self descriptive.
Now the fact that I didn't capitalize my handle doesn't mean that I am submissive. I simply, like most people, don't read every part of a long list of rules. Kind of like the EULA's that no one seems to read at all, even though one should.
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Gosh, I guess that poor girl from Los Angeles that turned out to have sick parents in Nigeria was real after all. I am of course ashamed of myself at having been suspicious. However, I begin to wonder if more than a few "users" have less than a 5th grade education for all their unoriginality, misspelling and poor grammar.
My second favorite type of profile is that one that goes on and on about the One. Personally, I don't know if I will ever be somebody's "the One" or find my One, Two, hell why not Three.
My third favorite of profile is the Goddess or God type... take your pick. Maybe Collarme should have a GODs section to stroke the egos of those so inclined. Of course one might be blasted blind just by merely having had the audacity to view their pictures. Ah, I know perhaps if I mentioned I was a god from an alternate universe I might be as radiant as they and immune to any possible consequences of having viewed those profiles.
Yes, I know SPAM, bots, and idiots are things that are a part of life in ever greater quantities. All in all chance is more than a greater part of life, were it, life, totally logical those of the scientific predisposition would be the kings and queens of BSDM oops, I mean BDSM.
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Well, it is not that I am not flattered, but in all sincerity Boys I am straight. So no thanks to the boys; I am very much an admirer and lover of women and women only. Allow me to state just once more, straight, not bi. Simple, right? C'est la vie.
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Looking around there seems to be a lot of drama here at collarme.com and a fair amount of disrespect as well as out and out ignorance. A little respect goes a long way. However, there also seem to be a fair number of people who true to their character. Simply because I am dominant doesn't give me license to be ignorant, rather than means since I implicitly expect respect then too should I display it when I text, e-mail and scene.
At the saying goes, "The more things change, the more they stay the same." as well as "There is nothing new under the sun."
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Damn boards, always landing on someone I don't want to know. Interesting site, oh my I think I have found a nice home.
I also find it odd when someone says, "I am Y." then they say they fucked X. Oh, well go figure.
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