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Situations I am not interested in: casual kinky hookups or play sessions, a temporary thing while you travel, online relationships, photography sessions, teaching new doms how to be doms, or meeting you tonight because you are horny and want to get off. I don't want to cam with you or send you a bunch of photos to you.

The situation I am interested in: an owner boyfriend. A full-time power exchange with my romantic partner. When I am in love, I trust and admire my partner and allow his influence to be direct me life. I want a relationship where control and dominance over me become the norm, but I still remain me and whole.

I imagine for myself a relationship that looks loving and egalitarian to those on the outside. I am a slave in my heart, and I am also intelligent, strong, passionate, beautiful and driven. I seek a man who I know is my superior, who I adore and admire. I want to feel inspired by him to be my best self, and for him to hold me strictly accountable.

When I find a man who is capable of dominating me I will relinquish all control. It is not enough to just be male or call yourself a dom. This is not about him earning my submission, or showing me what I can get from him out of the relationship. I want a man who knows exactly how far down he is bringing me when he debases me. Who enjoys me because he knows that despite my strong and confident exterior, he can do whatever he wants to me.

I do not believe that path will be easy, especially after indulging in my independence for many years. I am aware of what parts of my life would be most difficult for me to change or relinquish for an owner who wanted me to make such changes... A willingness to change those parts of myself would be the goal in my submission - a sign that I have given myself fully and genuinely - not a starting point.

Do not ask me what I am into, or what gets me off, or what I will do to pleasure you. I do not ask my coffee maker how it will serve me - I already know and use it accordingly. In the beginning of a relationship, I will have several limits; however, my desire is for a relationship where these limits melt away and I can trust my owner with anything no matter how perverse.


I am not going to be interested in the following types of men (who represent the vast majority of "doms" on this site):

  • Those who want to completely erase my identity; I have more to offer than just my physical body.

  • Misogynists; I do not submit to men simply because I am female. I am a feminist, and see this as only one valid way to do relationships.

  • Conservatives; I would be considered somewhere between a socialist and an anarchist. I

  • Anyone who believes I should submit to them simply because I am a submissive/slave. If I know what an object is, that doesn't mean its mine and I can just go ahead and demand it's use.

  • Those who do not take some pride in their appearance and health. I want to admire by owner's body and appearance and be inspired to improve my own.


I am primarily interested in men who are:

  • Within my general age range (27-40, maybe 45)

  • Perverted, more so than most people on this site would want

  • Comfortable with gradually taking control of my life

  • Want to be my vanilla boyfriend

  • Articulate

  • Totally understands and respects why I am being so specific and particular about what I want and do not want an does not feel a desire to accuse me of not being a sub for not giving in and being desperate for just any owner at all.





If you experience me as being resistant and disobedient during our early interactions, think of it like this: Someday I will have an owner, and until that day the only one protecting his property is me. I don't understand who would want to own a girl who offers her submission to any and every man claiming he is a dom or master.