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Female Submissive, 27
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About rawhoney
"Remember that submission is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself, less. And what could be more beautiful than a male really wanting to please a woman and do whatever it takes to make her happy."
Free-thinking, passionate, independent, rationally spiritual, happy hippy, energy manipulator, hypnotherapist, tantrika, and seeker of anything that pertains to the ever evolving shift in the human experience of self, spirit, sexuality, and consciousness.
I've been on this road for a number of years now and I continually learn about myself every step of the way. Like a number of others I started out in this lifestyle believing that because I was a nice, giving, slightly masochistic female that meant I was submissive....8 years and a few frustrated Doms later it's quite a different story.
I am fairly complex in my kinks & desires and I do not feel that a paragraph here can explain what I'm all about, but to attempt to simplify...I consider myself a dominant personality with sado-masochistic tendencies who enjoys it when her chew-toy is multifaceted, plays outside the box, knows what they like and can take initiative in pleasing me. I very much get off on control, both inside and outside the bedroom.
Currently I am in search of a man worthy to be mine. I'm a woman who wants and deserves what most term "the whole package". A D/s relationship is still a relationship. I am seeking a gentleman who desires to make me the happiest woman in the world. I want a man who adores me, talks with me, laughs with me and is willing to give every iota of himself to me, body, mind and spirit, readily and without reservation. In my mind, if someone is just a doormat then power exchange is nearly pointless as they either don't have any power left to give, or will just give it to anyone who comes along. But to have a strong, confident, intelligent man willingly sink to his knees with adoration in his eyes, waiting with baited breath to hear my desires…..to me that's power exchange.
I still enjoy having a regular, “vanilla” side to the relationship as well as D/s. I personally find when you don't feel the need to label specific acts as "dominant" or "submissive", instead focusing on the intent behind the act, there is more freedom to find who you truly are and what you enjoy. I know what I want and have no problems with making sure I get it, whether that be cuddles, someone to sink my teeth into, or some good, fast & furious fucking. And just trust me when I say that my views on kink and relationships don't make me any less Dominant, despite all you "one twue way"-ers who shriek and flail at anything that doesn't fit into your narrowly defined boxes.
"Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself, I am large, I contain multitudes." ~ Walt Whitman
Gtalk is honeyed.mistress@gmail.com so contact me there instead of sending a "chat request" which I'm only going to decline. |
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I have updated my settings so that I will no longer see messages from people who are long distance, other Dominants or outside my age range.? If you send me a message anyways, I will mark it as spam and delete it without responding. Sick of wasting my time with people who are blatantly not what I state I'm looking for. |
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