I am fortunate to have a wonderful, open woman to call my partner. We believe sex is something good...something to enjoy...something to share with like-minded people. She has a regular girlfriend and a potential boyfriend. Now I'm looking to meet others and see what happens. We are and will remain each others primaries.
I am probably less "" than most around here, though I can get into giving a good spanking or flogging an am more than happy to pull hair or give a slap when I know it will be appreciated. On the flip side, I'm also turned on by assertive, confident women and have enjoyed being queened. So I'm truly a switch. But basic slightly kinky sex is my main thing....with lots of oral.
I also list myself as bi. Men in general don't turn me on, but cocks do. Until recently, I had only a couple of bi experiences, and remained curious. I now admit to quite liking the feel of a cock in my mouth. An feminine CD/TS is an unfulfilled fantasy.
So I guess I'm looking for a true FWB type situation with a woman or bi couple. Though I'm open to most anything if it feels right.
Much more to come as I get time and put things to words.