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What can I say? I have been interested in BDSM as long as I can remember, even before I knew there was a name for it! Actively participating off and on for about 13 years now. I have been in a few vanilla relationships and in between those times of being in a monogamous relationship, I have found play partners. At this point, I am really looking for something serious in which I can blend bdsm activities and a relationship. I'm tired of playing with people who I really don't connect with.
I am a very spiritual and sensual person. I am a professional massage therapist by trade and therefore, I am in tune with the psychological/emotional/spiritual/physical aspect that are involved in bdsm play. I do not do this for fun. It is a part of me down to the very core of my being. I want a submissive/slave who understands that this is not about a pair of handcuffs and some silk scarves. This is a HUGE part of me. It is necessary for me to take part in bdsm activities to be complete as a person. If you can not understand that, then I will never mold with you psychologically and we would both be wasting our time.
I am 33 year old, bbw, bisexual girl. When I refer to myself as bisexual, it does not mean that I will jump into bed with anyone. Although I am interested in poly relationships, I have been monogamous up until this point in my life.
I require a person who can handle my aggressive personality and would prefer someone whose passion is mummification, breath play, watersports, humiliation, bondage and pain. If all of the above are not your "forte", thats ok too. I can be flexible when I want to be! I am very creative during scenes, making sure nothing goes unnoticed. I pay close attention to everything and I am a natural!
I am looking for someone who is very open minded and willing to try almost anything. I am the most open minded person I know, so honestly, I am not concerned about race or age, but being local and open minded to try pretty much anything is imperative. I don't have time to travel and I'm definitely not interested in online relationships. Mainly, I want someone who isn't afraid to explore with me!
You MUST have a sense of humor and a brain in your head. It is absolutely necessary for a submissive to be intelligent and literate. There is nothing more of a turn-off than a person who is illiterate and can't hold a conversation or use proper spelling and grammar. You must have your own mind, but you have to let me into it sometimes! :)
I am a BBW.. If you don't like that, please move on and don't waste your time.
I have several photos. Please view them all. Thanks
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I have no idea what I'm even doing here. What is it about this lifestyle that attracts fakes, flakes, insecure fuck-ups and people who are just generally unhappy about their life. Are there any people out there who know how to be AUTHENTIC? |
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I love how those who email me are supposedly so ready to give themselves to me so I can do as I wish.. flog and whip them, take away their rights, put them into full bondage, be my slave for the rest of their lives..etc.. yet when I request to get to know each other via social networking to see if there is actual compatibility beyond the kink factor, I never hear from them again. I understand the reservations one might have if they are not out of the kink closet but how in the world can you say you trust a domme with your rights as a human being yet you can't initially trust her to be facebook friends? That leads me to believe that most here really are fakes. I'm ready to just give up on the search. I'm sick of emailing back and forth with people who most likely are not who they say they are... I don't think my request is unreasonable but apparently I'm the only one who sees it that way. |
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They say, "first impressions are everything." If I can see your dick, asshole, or balls and I don't even know your name, please do not email me. What is it about men and their dick pics? Are you proud of that thing? Really? Considering that it's your FACE I will be looking at for the majority of the time, why don't you publish that instead? Let me let you in on a little secret. ONLY MEN LIKE DICK PICS... I don't know one woman who is interested in seeing anyone's dick pic attached to an email. If you are displaying you genatalia on your profile, trust me, it's only for the other boys on here and apparently, your ego. |
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I've got a few things to say...
I believe in Karma. I live my life in accordance with the Universal laws that I believe in. No, I am not perfect and I make mistakes and hurt people unintentionally, but I do my best to be a person with integrity and live up to my own high expectations.
BDSM should be an expression of love and trust between 2 people.
I also am not using BDSM as an escape or for filling a void in my life. I work on myself regularly. I meditate and practive Qi Gong. I try to clear my mind of the "shit" and deal with whatever issues I have going on in my head. I do not use BDSM as an excuse to take advantage of another human being or abuse someone. I am a dominant, out of LOVE.. (Imagine that)
I will not dominate someone who I suspect has unresolved issues with abuse, who does not value themselves, have their own mind and opinions or is looking for the replacement for their mommy who beat them senseless when they were a kid. In my opinion, if you are looking to move in immediately, serve me and not have a job, some self worth or an opinion about anything, you have some serious work to do on yourself emotionally and dominating you would be inappropriate and abusive on my part. If you are having trouble finding a good domme, you might want to take a look at yourself and figure out why that is.
more later... |
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Seriously.. What is it with people on here? Everyone complains of people being fake on here. I am probably the most "real" and honest person I know. If you aren't willing to establish a friendship first, please don't contact me. I am an open book because I am honest about who i am with you and expect the same in return. If you can't get to know me first via facebook or some sort of social networking, where we can see that we are both single/available and what sort of interests we have outside of fetish and bdsm, then I can't waste my time. I am going to respect the need for being discreet amongst friends... If you can't trust me with that, then how in the world are you going to trust me with a rope, flogger and a cb2000?? |
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Sometimes I wonder what the hell is wrong with these so-called "submissives" out there. The amount of one-liner emails and now even one-word emails I am receiving is beyond ridiculous, as well as those who ask me questions that are already answered if they actually read through my entire profile. It is BEYOND INSULTING to me.
IF YOU CAN'T READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE OR FORM A COMPLETE SENTENCE, DON'T BOTHER CONTACTING ME!
YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL, YOU ARE NOT AN EXCEPTION!
If you are illiterate or you don't think I am worth sending a well thought out and complete message to, then don't waste your damn time! |
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