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Hi! :D

IMPORTANT:

If all you're interested in is a submissive for sex and pleasure, I AM NOT THE GIRL FOR YOU. I am here for a RELATIONSHIP, ultimately, with a dominant man. I don't do casual submission--so, if that's what you want, leave my profile page, now, please.

(First of all, let me just say that the list of kinks/fetishes for people to choose from, here, is woefully lacking and seem to've been chosen at random.)

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One thing that's really needed in my potential partner is the knowledge of or interest in being a daddy dominant. I have a very youthful nature, a soft, sweet inner core that needs nurturing and cherishing.
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I'm a serious kinkster with (some) very different likes and dislikes, as far as the 'community' goes. I, thankfully, got started early and I learned quickly what I found appealing and what was a complete turn off. As I said, I have discerning tastes and most of my turn ons are centered around attitude.

A dominant must be in control, but not cocky about it. There must be an aura of complete confidence, but none of the arrogance that most young, inexperienced dominants display.

...There isn't enough space, here, or time, to explain what I want, fully. It always seems that I can never say everything I want in one sitting. I always forget something. Perhaps it's a terminal case of 'esprit de l'escalier.'

* Beware the woman who knows what she wants and won't settle for less. *

As for my kinks and fetishes, they are bountiful. However, before you begin making assumptions as to what 'kink' and 'fetish' mean to me, I'll save you some time. Personally, I don't find being tied up sexy or kinky. I find it boring.

I don't find being called a slut arousing. Nor do I think that brutality equals dominance. You must be smart and creative. You must be wicked and cruel, but draw me in, nonetheless.

This is a tall order. :) I know. Is it too much to ask that you have good grammar as well? ;D

I'm a bit of an anglophile, though Canadians have been known to charm me with their suave demeanors. That's not to say that good ol' American boys wouldn't turn my head.

I'm looking for someone roughly in my age-range. That's 25-35, as I'm in the middle. And, someone who is more interested in emotional domination than physical, as this is all about mindset and less about the outward trappings.


Man alive.  I can't tell you just how disappointed I am, at the moment.  It's those curve balls that life throws you--you know, the ones that blind-side you--that sting the most.  You can be open and honest about what you want, be as cynical as you can be without coming off as a bitter, jaded fuck... And, people will still do their very best to take advantage. 

What is the point?!  What can you possibly get out of it, doing the whole mindfuck thing after working to gain some trust?  Why put in any effort, at all?  Why read someone's profile and go to lengths to draw them in only to reveal you're not after what they're after?  Why?  ><;

Yes, I want a Daddy.  No, I don't want to submit to any Tom, Dick or Harry who can elicit my littleness, just because they know how.  It's not fair to anyone, in the long run.  Why?  Because people like that are part of the problem.  People like that are the reason people are distrustful and broken.  You trust the wrong person, you get burned and you are less trusting for the next.

But, see, you can't close off, completely, because... Well, if you do, you could effectively turn away the right person.  You take a risk, every time.  You try to be smart and careful, but there's only so much you can hold back without shutting off, completely.  And, these problematic asses are the ones who take advantage of that fact.  It's sick.

Take into account that I'm a little girl, longing for a Daddy--someone who can understand my personal psychology, understand my needs and happily fulfill them--and you've got a recipe for disaster when it comes to meeting someone who's intelligent enough to sense that...and take advantage of it.

Well, I may be a little girl, but I've got a hard-ass adult that has to take care of me until my Daddy arrives.  And, that hard-ass adult?  She's flipping you the fuck off and telling you to jerk yourself to death on your own and to leave the little one alone.  Fuck you.
Well, dammit.  I changed a few things on my profile to see if I could expand my 'interests,' getting some of the ones that aren't available for submissives or slaves, and now it's pending approval, again.  >:(

Unhappy.

I wonder if there's ever going to be a sort of pitch-in, where people give ideas as to how the 'interests' list can be expanding. 

Heck, I'd just like an explanation for why they're separated... and so specific.  Narrow-minded, it seems like.  :/
Well, my profile finally got approved.  :)  I'm happy about this, though I'm unsure of who will actually look at it much.  -grin-