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i attended a huge Xmas party. It was put on by 'scene' people, but there wasn't any playing going on. Lots of good food and conversation. |
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A couple in a Femdom marriage put on a huge house party last night and everyone appeared to be having a good time. |
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Attended a vanilla-ish gathering of Femdoms and malesubs at a cabin deep in the Berkshires. Good to see people i hadn't seen in awhile. |
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Women justifiably complain all the time about men who don't pay attention to them, to men who won't help them and to men who are always looking around at other Women. What if, with a little imagination and attitude adjustment, all that could be turned around? What if a lifestyle of male attention and devotion could be made incredibly erotic and 'naughty' ? |
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Attended a vanilla, nonplay party Saturday night at the home of the leader of a Femdom group. Good food and quiet conversation with a swearing in of a new male slave. Nothing wild at all, but it was nice to get out among acquaintances. |
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The eroticization of treating Women nicely. It makes the world a better place. |
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Went to Society for Femdom Night. Met some old friends. It's nice seeing couples who are doing so well. |
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i couldn't make the Tea on Sunday. Ugh. It would be so nice to be in a lifelong, loving relationship. This is so frustrating and such a waste of energy and effort. There are so many vanilla Women who don't recognize their inherent dominance. It's a waste on their side as well. |
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Please note: while i have been privileged to observe many Femdom events and are friends with a number of Femdom couples, i am NOT a player. i'm seeking a Femdom/male slave lifelong relationship of my own. i am not sleazy or low class in any way. |
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The Femdom couples that seem the most stable and the most loving are the ones in which the male slave partner simply enjoys the company of the Mistress or Mistress/Wife and She enjoys being with him. This isn't as much about wild kinky scenes as about quiet moments when he does things for Her that are unbidden. |
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i served in a Mistress Tea this afternoon for about four hours. We would bring in a small course every fifteen minutes and that routine lasted for about two hours. Nonalcoholic beverages were also served. It's tiring standing on your feet for hours, but it's my favorite activity that our group does. |
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Vanilla picnic for mostly Femdoms and malesubs. Superb weather and good food. |
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Yesterday was the annual Femdom Circle picnic. Rainy, but nice nonetheless. |
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i was able to attend the last meeting in CT. It was so nice seeing the Mistresses and the guys. |
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The Femdom group will have a table at the Flea in Providence this Feb. |
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Munch on the 20th and play party on the 23rd. |
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i didn't drink at the New Year's Eve party in Connecticut because i had to drive home, but i sure ate WAY too much and had to pay penance at the gym today. |
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Femdom Circle Christmas party this weekend. |
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There is a Mistress Round Table coming up. This is where dominant Women come to discuss issues and simply chat with each other. i'll be one of two slaves to serve as a kind of waiter/butler at the function. |
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i hope one day to be in a lifelong relationship that combines the best of a Femdom/male slave pairing with the best in vanilla LTR's. The best of both worlds. While hoping to become Your slave/husband, i recognize that we should not or may not be able to live together and that Your highest expression of Female Supremacy may reside in owning more than one male. The important thing is to value one another for who and what we are and were meant to be. |
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Poorly attended munch this evening. |
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Femdom Circle Halloween Party in CT on the 24th. |
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Back from a Femdom Circle meeting. Guest lecturer was a well-known Femdom accompanied by Her two slaves. |
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Please. If You're only interested in play and not in a relationship (broadly defined), please pass me by. |
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Third annual Femdom group's picnic was a success. |
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Recent play party: i was tied to a pillar and paddled and flogged with the marks lasting two weeks.
Mistress Tea: well attended and successful. |
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Femdom Circle munch last night. It was good to see friends again and nice to hear that one of the Femdom/male slave couples is getting married. Yay!! |
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i like the group to which i belong because its core is composed of Women who are in successful, stable, long term Femdom/malesub relationships. |
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Munch in CT coming up this Wednesday.
The guys in our Femdom group will host a Mistress Tea later on January 24. This is a vanilla event where Ladies are served food and beverages by men in white shirts and black pants. This isn't a play party. Just show up, chat and eat. These are usually very well attended and are probably the most popular event the group puts on. It's very low key and not stressful at all. Meet new people, make friends, gain ideas. You'll be able to look over the unattached guys (including me) in a safe and friendly environment and get the opinions of the other Women who know us. |
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One super hard limit: i will not get involved with a married or attached Woman.
One hard limit: relocation within New England is quite possible, but doubtful beyond the area. |
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Will be at Boston's Fetish Flea and at Floating World as part of the FemDom group. my status as a slave in the group does not preclude my search for a personal Mistress. In fact, the HeadMistress encourages us to do so. i'm realistic when it comes to relationships. |
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i met online and then in person one of the leaders of Club Fem who administered a 'Happy Birthday' caning with ten to grow on at a BDSM club i took Her to. She was visiting here and so was able to converse with local FemDoms in my area. |
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i've seen a number of Femdom LTR's and in the best of them, the male takes a real interest in the wants and desires of his Partner and She understands that this requires lots of communication. 90% of what occurs isn't BDSM related at all. Where the leather, whips, etc come in is when the man needs help in attaining a deeper level of submission. The BDSM stuff makes it easier for him to get to that level. It reinforces his submission, but no couple i've ever seen actually lives a BDSM lifestyle 24/7, except psychologically. An ideal male submissive would make a great life partner or husband. i'm talking ideal here. |
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Our club in May will be going to NYC for an overnight stay. |
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Mistress Tea was a great success. Nothing dramatic beyond shoulder massages. Good food, good service, well organized. |
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Our group is having a Mistress Tea in February. Most of the males are partnered with Dominant Women, but there are a few us who aren't. All of us will be serving food and beverages, but if Mistresses desire foot and shoulder massages, for instance, She has at Her disposal uncollared 'club slaves'. This is an elegant affair, so slovenly clothing is not appreciated. While a collared slave is subject to discipline by his Owner , we club slaves are available to all. Any discipline would occur in the adjoining empty room. i view all this with a mixture of anticipation and dread. |
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i will be at the Femdom Circle table this Saturday afternoon (January 12). i'll probably be doing foot massages. i'm available for ownership so if You're interested, drop by, get a massage and check me out. |
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The concepts espoused in 'Wife Worship' appeal to me. |
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Everyone, including me, had a lot of fun at the party on Saturday. |
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i'm seeking a Dominant Woman because, for me, a Femdom/malesub relationship has the potential for achieving a closeness, a depth of emotion, almost unachievable in more vanilla arrangements. The typical BDSM activities (e.g. floggings, etc) are not my objective. If that's part of the personality of the Dominant Woman i've come to submit to, then that's part of the deal and i'm sure i'd adapt to it just fine. i won't complain or sabotage Your efforts. It's just that kinky sex/SM is not the prime motivator for me. |
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i'm friends with a group of Dominant Women. We're just that - friends - not play partners, not sex partners, not live-ins. i enjoy their company and they apparently enjoy mine. i like to serve as a kind of butler (fully clothed, etc) at Mistress' Teas that are occasionally held. i'm not hardcore or masochistic and they seem to be okay with that. Of course, my future Femdom partner or wife would decide about our involvement with any group. |
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For me to submit, i need to have some emotional attachment to a Dominant Woman. Simply meeting, hooking up and playing feels empty to me. |
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