I have been involved in the lifestyle before, but have been inactive recently.
After getting to know each other online, if we find some common ground and wish to take this further, taking it to real life and possibly leading to a long-term relationship.
If a relationship does develop, you will need to participate in some vanilla activities during our evaluation period. This is to provide a safety net while getting to know each other in R/L.
I am now at a stage in my life where I have the resources and time needed to obtain a successful Dom/Sub relationship, main interest is in B/D.
Perry
Porn BDSM sites have ruined what I am looking for in the lifestyle, by giving the impression that sex is what this is all about. Sex does have a part in most adult relationships, for me, it is not what I want out of the relationship.
I am mainly interested in discipline and servitude. I don't want to punish for punishment sake. Nor am I looking for random sexual partners. I am not looking to micro manage your actions, after training I expect that you will use your initiative to know and do what needs to be done.
