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I am an intelligent and fairly good looking Master (should you find the adverb overly modest, I will not argue with you) looking to possibly expand ownership beyond my wife/slave. I have been in the lifestyle since I was first sexually aware although am not a large fan of the 'scene'. I am seeking a woman who understands her place is at a man's feet and that limits, restrictions, negotiating and otherwise seeking to do anything but serve fully is not the transcendent experience one should seek, but mere game playing. If you understand that the full meaning of this manner of living can come only with true slavery, I am very real and perhaps the culmination of your every dream. If it is not too much to expect, I would hope any potential slave would be completely honest and highly intelligent.
Yes, I guess in some sense I am a purist; I abhor the designated hitter and insist on ordering “small, medium or large” at Starbucks. It may be old-fashioned to think ideas and words matter, but I can not see any other way out of the chaos.
My wife holds a teaching position (Professor of History) and that is why she is not in the photographs. She was vanilla before meeting me (which has tended to be my pattern, but will be exhausting for finding a second slave). The slave we seek will be owned by me, but subject to my wife’s dominion.
Experience is not important for our potential slave as we love teaching (my wife is a professor and I have been an adjunct in multiple humanities disciplines, i.e. history, philosophy and English). So we are open to a tabula rasa or a girl whose been a slave for decades.
I am a man with a plethora of opinions (probably too many to be honest), but you should know some of my likes and dislikes. I have paired some of them for obvious reasons:
Like most animals, dislike those who think they need to prove something by having a wild animal as a pet.
Dislike those who are famous for nothing (e.g. Paris Hilton and the like) and pity those who find importance in celebrity ephemera.
Like NYC, Vermont, New Orleans, wine country almost anywhere, France, most of Western Europe. Dislikes those who think living between the coasts makes you more of an American.
Likes women strong enough to be slaves, but can’t stand dumb women who aren’t strong enough to not have to be.
Love politics (of the right kind), like politics (of the wrong kind) and hate apathy.
Love books on actual paper, reserving opinion on electronic readers.
Love the culture of the city the peace of the wilderness and hate the strip mall suburbs and ex-urbs that try to capture the best of both only to consistently find the worst of both.
Hate ignorance passionately, love curiosity. If you went to Harvard and have not read a real book since, you are less intellectually stimulating than someone who may never have gone to school, but reads regularly.
Love teaching, especially teaching a young slave true patience. Hate proud ignorance perhaps more than anything (e.g. Sarah Palin, Christine O'Donnell).
I assert that limits are silly and self defeating. I bring this topic up because there are numerous women who define themselves as submissive or slaves and then make a list of things they claim they will not do. Limits serve to offer no protection and at the same time undermine the meaning of this type of relationship.
No matter how 'rational' your limits sound. and one young lady lists death and dismemberment among her hard limits, the very concept is nonsense. If you are going to be helpless at any point and alone, there is nothing you can do to keep you limits from being violated, period. If you are gagged, strictly bound and sensory deprived how could you stop your limits from being exceeded? If you trust your owner's morality and decency, why the hell would you try to undermine the erotic charge of such a relationship with limits? Ladies, when thinking about submission use your brain. Limits are no protection from anything, the only real protection you can have is choosing a man with a moral center. I know that is a lot harder than writing a contract, but it is the only true safety. Seriously, how could you give a the man the power to bind, you, beat you, burn you, gag you, and whatever and not trust his judgment? Moreover, once you mention a limit you begin a very nasty psychological process in the mind of many dominants in which the only way to prove your devotion is to blow past the limits (which in the case of death or dismemberment would really suck).
I was masterpdg until technical issues. Collarme's customer's service makes Sprint's look like Tiffany's.
I seek the exceptional in all and will look for it even where not expected. |
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Happy Valentines Day all!! |
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Las Vegas Travel Information
In keeping with the travel log tradition, I am posting my recent musings on our trip to Vegas. I hope the comments, reviews or observation can be of some use to those planning future trips.
We staying at the Aria and cannot recommend the hotel more highly. Despite its great size, the level of service and attention was equal to many small luxury properties. Service was so anal that they organized loose coin on the desk into organized piles. The suite was magnificent and had views from the bedroom, bathroom and living room. There were three flat screens and a Jacuzzi tub (there was also a heated toilet seat with bidet functions – a touch weird, but I bet some on here would like it). The only negative was a matter of personal taste; the bed was a little soft. The poker room was excellent and the casino very good with high quality free drinks. Last time was stayed at the Encore, also an exclusive property, and can say we slightly preferred Aria.
As for dining, Vegas has become a premier American food city and may trail only New York. Best all around meal was Michael Mina (Bellagio) and the Lobster Pot Pie and Bluefin Tartar with quail egg were standouts. The Toro at BarMasa (Aria) was the best single bite of the trip, but at ten dollars a bite, it should have been. The Peking duck and foie gras in moosho pancakes was also spectacular. At $20.12 the lunch prix fixe at Estiatorio Milos (The Cosmopolitan) was perhaps the best value of any restaurant meal I have ever had. If you are in Vegas and like seafood make reservations for that lunch, period. For fun casual Tapas, the eponymously named Julian Serrano (Aria) is more than adequate and Mr. Serrano’s fine dining restaurant Picasso (Bellagio) is an excellent experience from the food to the spectacular setting and artwork. Sage (Aria) was excellent but not truly outstanding although the scallops with braised oxtail was a great dish.
For anyone spending more than a few days with an interest in geology, Red Rock canyon is well worth the half our drive and offers a spectacular scenic drive and interesting hikes.
I hope this can provide some good advice and always remember Vegas is a kink friendly city. |
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Best wishes to all for a Happy New Year!! |
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A joyous and merry Christmas to all!!! Peace and Love!! |
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Happy Thanksgiving to all!!! |
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Good Luck to all dealing with Irene! As a help,
Proper Hurricane preparation instructions: 3oz rum (equal measure light/dark blend), 3oz orange juice, 3 oz pineapple juice (do not be lazy and use pineapple/orange juice), .75 oz grenadine. Mix with crushed ice (or small cubes), our in tall highball. Drink. Repeat. |
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Happy 4th of July to all. |
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A little travel advice from our trip to California in case anyone needs some recommendations. United business class on its ps flights only is fantastic, better than its first class on non ps flights (had I know this, I’d have looked harder for a ps flight back).
If money isn’t a great concern, the Honor Mansion in Healdsburg is one of the classiest properties we have stayed at. Aside from the great room (including a private outdoor Jacuzzi) and beautiful grounds, the small touches were truly delightful including mimosa’s with breakfast and cocktails at Dry Creek Kitchen when we arrived courtesy of the inn. I can recommend the property without reservation (if money is a bit of a concern Gaige House was wonderful when we last stayed there).
For dining I’d list Dry Creek Kitchen very highly and there was a cauliflower soup (and yes, I am a serious carnivore who knows how that sounds) that was transcendent and stood above dishes I would have normally much preferred. Redd in Yountville (we stayed as well at the Hotel Yountville which recently had a beautiful renovation and expansive rooms, but was not as unique as the Honor Mansion experience) does sublime work in the shadow of The French Laundry and at a third of the price. Michael Chiarello’s new place Bottega was quite good, but the place was a bit of a 'scene' and service was slightly below what it should have been.
For wineries, there are scores of good choices, but I would highly recommend Chalk Hill (the culinary tour was amazing), Porter Creek, Hess Collection, Mauritson Family Winery, Jessup Cellers and the cave tour at Schramsberg.
So that is our two-cents, but it is really well informed two cents and I hope it helps anyone planning a trip. |
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I am very much looking forward to our soon upcoming eight days of pure decadence in Wine County. |
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To all the moms, Happy Mother's Day. |
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A perfect spring day in NYC :-) |
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A Guide to Fakes:
I have produced this list as a Public Service, enjoy:
Easy:
The girl violates the laws of physics. This describes about thirty percent of profiles. That she’s 5’4” and 60 lbs should be a warning.
The race and photo do not match. The number of blond, blue eyed, fair skinned native and African-Americans is fascinating.
There is an email address in the profile. No one serious would broadcast such information.
The phrase "retire from the lifestyle" is in the profile.
More challenging:
Conflicting interests. If you see a girl who ‘lives for’ intellectual discourse and astrology, that is a warning. If you see spanking as a hard limit, she probably is not too serious about the lifestyle. A lot can be learned from the interests list.
There are significant grammatical or spelling errors in her profile. Remember, she is supposed to be a woman, and women are usually careful. This is a good sign you are dealing with a man.
She expresses an interest in cock photographs. If she does, you are talking to a gay man.
On her profile or within thirty seconds of communicating, you have received pornographic photographs. Truly tasteful erotic photographs do not automatically indicate a fake.
She looks like she could pass for a supermodel. While I know it is challenging for supermodels to find straight dominant men in the fashion industry, most have not turned to collarme so they can serve you without limit.
Potentially difficult:
She thinks it is cool you are over thirty and live with your mom. She does not.
She thinks it is cool you are over thirty and still go to Star Trek conventions. She does not.
She wants to be a slave, but she lists she is actively seeking switch males. Does this really make sense to you?
I hope this helps separate the wheat from the chaff. There are some wonderful girls on here, but there are swimming in an ocean of frauds. |
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Random musing for the day. Any country that seriously considers the orange-haired megalomaniacal buffoon Donald Trump for president deserves anything that befalls it.
Oh, and do not the "The People in the Picture." It is the worst thing I have seen on Broadway. |
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Untrainedsub4You is a sincere sounding fake who comes across as educated and serious. Be careful. |
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Enjoying this taste of spring in New York and looking forward to the tulips in front of the NYPL. |
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American Idiot Saturday evening and when I purchased out tickets it had not been announced that Billie Joe Armstrong would most likely be playing St. Jimmy. It should be an excellent weekend. |
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A powerfully depressing article from the New York Times illustrates that perhaps the nation should begin treating ignorance, not as an individual moral failing, but a public health problem that threatens the fabric of our fragile polity. The article http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/21/us/politics/21climate.html?hp discusses the widespread skepticism as to the existence and cause of climate change. There are a plethora of examples in the article of people pontificating on a subject they are woefully unprepared to understand and asserting the most strange of conspiracy theories about one world government. Nevertheless, it is the beautiful ignorance of the last opinion offered in the article,
Lisa Deaton, a small-business owner in Columbus, Ind., who started We the People Indiana, a Tea Party affiliate, is supporting Mr. Young in part because of his stand against climate change legislation. “They’re trying to use global warming against the people,” Ms. Deaton said. “It takes away our liberty.” “Being a strong Christian,” she added, “I cannot help but believe the Lord placed a lot of minerals in our country and it’s not there to destroy us.”
that best illustrates the extent of our ignorance pandemic. One wants to shake Ms. Deaton and ask her who the fuck placed the forbidden fruit in the Garden of Eden. If you take your religion so seriously, you probably should be aware of its major teaching concerning the origin of evil in the world. The god of Genesis has no reservation about placing items around us that would be very dangerous to use. Moreover, from a purely practical matter, many of the minerals in our earth are exceedingly poisonous.
Perhaps a citizenry this ignorant deserves people like Sarah Palin, Sharron Angle and Christine O’Donnell, but there is another option. Treat ignorance the same with the same urgency we treated smallpox. Treat it as the pandemic it is.
Obviously, this is written to be over the top, I am not recommending the quarantining of the ignorant (hmmmm….interesting), but merely pointing out the danger of our culture of anti-intellectualism.
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There once were literacy test for voting, and as appealing as the idea of an educated electorate is, they were rightfully banned as they were used to deprive African-Americans of their franchise. We have now come to a point where ignorance is so celebrated that major party candidates for the higher branch of congress are unaware of the most important constitutional provisions and amendments. How about test for candidates? Come on Christine O’Donnell; I promise one question about masturbation. |
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Have you ever felt that the country declared a stupidity contest and someone neglected to tell you? |
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