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Female Submissive, 53, New York
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Male Dominant, 45, Paris
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Male Switch, 38, Paris
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About parisian
Hello there,
I'm a submissive who has been in the lifestyle for the best part of about 3 years now. I have explored it through reading and discussion with experienced people in the lifestyle as well as some physical / real-life exploration.
I have discovered how much of an intrinsic part ostyle is and I'm looking to find someone to explore that with - someone to engage with and learn from, to grow together.
Please contact me if something about my profile interests You, although there's very little on it. Please feel free to ask if there's something Y/you would like clarified.
All said, I'm rather fun-loving and enjoy a good chat too.
You can also read my journal as it might give Y/you a further insight into what I'm like.
Thank Y/you for Y/your time.
parisian |
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I find it rather funny how many Dommes find it appropriate to quote the Joker :) |
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What's in a name? That which we call a rose. By any other name would smell as sweet.
But, would it look as lovely?
Would it's thorns prick as much?
Would it's mere sight bring as much comfort as it does?
What's in a name? More, far more than can be defined...
- The Rose Collector |
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I agree blocking is an easy way to stop annoying people from annoying you further, but, how may one justify blocking someone based purely on an assumption without even so much as caring to wait to clarify?
This is probably not very submissive of me, but, opinions opinions. Everyone has them. |
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You know Your day is made when Someone says this about a conversation they had with you:
'Such a great morning. I chatted with what I can only consider a contemporary, despite our opposite roles. Such a wonderful, respectful and intellectual dialogue regarding the D/s dynamic.'
Thank You so much for Your words. You are indeed, far too kind. |
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I have read in a few places that 'Submission is the dynamic in a relationship wherein one of the partners takes the passive or receptive role'.
I beg to differ with that definition, in how I see submission as being the dynamic wherein the submissive offers himself and his obedience to the Dominant partner in such a way where he responds to her Dominance not merely by passive acceptance but active acceptance and feedback so as to enable the two to share a successful, flourishing, dynamic relationship.
It is also a role wherein the submissive cedes power, and it is important for the submissive to realize that he is also an active part of the dynamic by means of this ceding power, although it is the Dominant's to take.
The submissive also cedes control, which although linked to power is yet another feature that drives a D/s relationship.
If I were to rephrase the definition, I would say, 'Submission is the dynamic in a relationship wherein one of the partners takes an active receiving and obedient role, ceding control and power to the Dominant partner thereby wanting/ yearning to win the favor of the Dominant partner in whatever way possible and appreciated by Her.' |
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Why does my search For a female Dominant almost always end up in a Yahoo ID exchanged, obviously by the same person, from different profiles?
Why does this person behind the Yahoo ID almost always want me to sign up to a website I have to pay for?
Why does this person's English not sound the slightest like She is from Washington or New York or Los Angeles?
I believe the word fake is overrated. It should be replaced by 'downright absurd'. |
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