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| Hello ladies, I'm Papa Shongo. I am a well porportioned Big and Tall, Dominant handsome male. I am educated and intelligent. Honestly, I am not an experienced Dom, as far as being in a long term BDSM relationship. But, I have a very deep unfulfilled longing for this lifestyle. I have had several BDSM playtime sort of encounters, I won't go into detail, but they left me with a desire that can no longer be fulfilled in the vanilla world. I am not necessarily looking for a long term relationship, I'm down to play, but would prefer for the long term option to at least be a possibility. But, I don't go into anything with those type of expectations, I never have. I'm a down to earth man, family oriented, and fun. I'm educated and in the process of furthering my education. I also make a good living as well, even being in school. The reason I desire to be a Dominant in a relationship is simple, I crave control yes, but I also just want to help my partner be their best. I'm not looking for a mindless slave that is so malleable that I can mold her into anything I want. I want my Submissive to have an independent personality and a part of her that I could never tame or control. But, at the same time, I need her to trust in my leadership and desire only for the best in her. I want her to be able trust in my insight and know that whatever control that I exert is with her best interest in mind. In other words, I want her to be able to suspend her ego when my judgment requires it. And above all I want her to be able to submit willingly and joyfully to my control. Of course this type of deep trust that I am looking for only comes with time and learning each other, I need to know that a Submissive is capable of operating on the level that I'm looking for upfront, so neither of us are wasting each others time. I am also interested in the physical aspects of BDSM. I want a Submissive that is very open sexually, while I do respect limits as it regards pain, I have very little patience for limitations on sex acts. I want to feel like all of you is mine. I do have a bit of a sadistic streak, and need someone who finds pleasure in pain. I respect limits, but I need someone who is willing to push the boundaries and allow me to physically dominate them. I'm not interested in drawing blood, inflicting injuries, knife/fire play or anything severe. But, I do need a woman that doesn't freak out when my hands are planted firmly around her neck or if I give her a good slap during sex (and only during sex). I also like a bit of pain myself. I like to be bitten and scratched when I'm making love. I guess I'm being a bit open for an introductory, but what have I got to lose, there's no sense in wasting time. Other than all that I like stimulating conversation. I have no preference when it comes to education, but I would like someone who can hold a meaningful conversation on my level. Whether it be talking about politics, spirituality, or science, I'm not the type that needs to constantly engage in deep conversation, but it helps if a woman can at least "go there" from time to time. Anyway, anything else will just have to come up in conversation, can't wait to hear from some of you kinky ladies and see if one's the one. |
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