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"Pair of dimes," paradigm, dominant paradigm. Get it? :)
We are a dominant woman and a dominant man in a committed polyamorous partnership, seeking friends aged 18-40 who would like to interact with us jointly or separately. As you might guess from the nickname, we are in some ways insufferably dorky. In other ways we are insufferably mainstream, and in yet others we are just insufferable. Or sufferable, depending on your tastes.
We top and dominate people independently from one another, and we co-top. We like to develop friendships with people we play with. Sometimes those friendships turn into more affectionate relationships, and sometimes they simply remain friendships.
We enjoy playing with individuals, as well as couples in which at least one member of the couple enjoys submitting.
We enjoy both SM and D/s: we enjoy giving pain and tying people up, and we enjoy receiving obedience and service. We like it best when we can do everything we like at once, and we are fully capable of enjoying only certain activities with certain friends--her girlfriend submits to her and routinely receives pain, but doesn't much get into service, and that has worked successfully.
We both enjoy a variety of play activities, including caning, bondage, thug play, and humiliation. We both identify as sadists, although we approach SM play in different ways--please ask to learn more! We are both experienced tops: we relish high-intensity activities like singletail whipping and continue to appreciate simpler activities like a hairbrush spanking. We like emotional sadism and humiliation very well; making people blush, squirm, and sometimes even cry is great fun. Again, please ask for more details!
Sex, (i.e. genital sensation), can be a fun thing to do, but isn't always part of our play. She enjoys offering genital stimulation, while she enjoys receiving stimulation less frequently. He likes giving and receiving sexual stimulation, although he also enjoys nonsexual play.
We are involved in some local BDSM groups, and if you're involved too, drop us a line--we might have already met! If you'd like to know more about how to get involved in local groups, feel free to ask.
We get along very well with people who are poly or in open relationships and who already have spouses or primary partners. We don't form relationships with people whose spouses or partners would need to be kept unaware of us.
We are both cisgendered, she identifies as femme, and we both enjoy doing SM with both men and women. We are more likely to be attracted to cisgendered people, although we've been known to find transguys hot.
When not having this particular kind of fun, we can reliably be found improving and redecorating our house and reading voraciously. He enjoys photography and is developing a capacity for woodworking, while she is fond of learning different cooking techniques.
If you think you'd be compatible with one or both of us, please send us an email!
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Blogs we read--some friends, some just interesting to read:
Maymay is a cute submissive, bisexual man recently moved to Sydney. (http://maybemaymed.com)
Axe is a submissive man in New York. (http://unspeakableaxe.com)
Sascha is a bottomy switch woman writing cutely and thoughtfully at (http://howmyotherhalflives.wordpress.com)
Updated intermittently, we still enjoy reading Intriguing's blog: (http://bleeargh.blogspot.com/)
Richard, self described, "When I started this site most of you weren’t around. And everything was
strictly within a F/m context because of the relationship I was in. The
response of most female tops that ran across it was: “Wow! This guy can
use words, think and seems nice.” Now more of us about and I seem much
less like an amazing manifestation of the unexpected." (http://downonmyknees.com)
We still like people who can use words, who can think, and seem nice, both as friends and as writers to read on the internet.
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Ugh, when did they change the checkbox from "dom/dom couples" to
"dom/domme" couples? "Domme" is not a word I'm fond of--I thought we
had gotten rid of gendered language that implies the peculiarity of
women in positions of authority ("lady doctor," "authoress," and so
on.) Sigh. Collarme is a fine place in many ways, and this isn't one
of the better choices I've seen.
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We both plan to attend NELA's Fetish Fair Fleamarket, January 11-13 in Providence, RI. Go to www.nelaonline.org/fff.php for more details!
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