I am man who wishes to eplore the boundries of life.
I am a beginner but will make up for my inexperience with my desire to experience.
I guess what has brought me to this point is stagnancy and predictability in my life.
Whilst my relationship with my wife is healthy in most areas, sexually it is boring repetitive and predictable. My work life is the same. I’m in control, and there is little variance from day to day.
I am now at the age where if I don’t take a huge leap I will be destined to never experiencing the pleasures that are available.
My boredom lead to the internet where I began to read erotic stories. The stories I was drawn to most involved the BDSM scene. Particularly those of Feminine Domination.
It’s difficult for me to anylise my intent but I think that because I am in control at work and always the instigator and facilitator of sex at home, the thought of being not in control, of not having to make the decisions appeals to me.
Having said that I can not rule out any role in the scene.
To sum up my journey to date - I am unsure about where I am and where I want to go. I am unsure what is out there and which aspects I will enjoy.
Therefore I am seeking friends who are willing to offer guidance, who are willing to let me experience the scene so I can fully understand my feelings and find my place.
I hope this makes sense to you if not ask me anything at all.
I am clean and discreet.
Even if I'm not what you you are looking for I would appreciate the chance to chat. Friends are few and far between.
tom
