Well i have been interested in bdsm since i was 14 but didnt start till i wast 18. Been on here since i was 18 and still looking for people to help me learn. I have been playing on and off since i started since i have trouble finding long term partners i dont know why. I am very eager to learn and discover more about myself and the bdsm lifestyle. I have domed and sub but i still call myself a sub because i sub more then dom.