My time in this lifestyle has been a roller coaster learning experience for close to 20 years now. Active only in the last 8-9 years, but forever evolving. I have spent time bottoming for those I know and trust, and also trained to be a Top for a short time recently. It was quite a learning experience and opened my eyes to have more understanding and respect for a Dominant. My true role is, and always will be a submissive, however, I am open to a relationship with another switch, if the connection and energy is right. I have yet to experience a real D/s relationship, but my patience to wait for someone "REAL", will be the greatest reward.
I am not into FinDommes or Pros. This lifestyle is something very precious to me and I will not take part in the commercialism side that seems to be running rampant on sites like this. No offense to those who do this... it's just not for me.
What I am looking for is simple. Honesty, respect, communication and trust. Vanilla or D/s... without these simple things, nothing will work. Although I am seeking long term, I will not jump head first into anything serious. I want to take the time to get to know each other. We already know we are both kinky, so lets try to connect on a deeper level, and go from there.
I've been around this lifestyle a long time, and I have seen the fakes and posers trying to use this as a means to get what they want without effort or to exploit their abusive natures thinking it is tolerated here. I will not be associated with these people either. Again, I am searching for someone real who knows what this lifestyle is about and what it means to truly be a part of something bigger than ourselves.
My fetish list to the left is just the tip of the iceberg. I do have my limits, but some are meant to be challenged. And there are also some that have yet to be discovered. So if you would like to know more, please say hello! I am very interested in making new friends, and well... who knows where that may go :) Hope to hear from you soon!
