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Let me preface this by saying I seek a real person for real time interaction. If you only seek a cyber Domme, please pass Me by. My time is valuable as I'm sure you feel of yours.
Are you a natural submissive seeking to explore the mental and spiritual aspects of submission as well as the physical. Are you an intelligent, strong man in need of guidance and/or discipline to help you stay on track, seeking one whom you can trust to take control? Are you a slave/submissive with skills to serve in the home and as a personal assistant to a very busy business owner and demanding Domme? I seek one good at organization, scheduling, follow-up and marketing/advertising/publicity and/or willing to learn.
I am a very strong, opinionated, assertive female. I am Not into game playing or merely looking for kinky sex. I am a BBW (under 250 lbs) so if you want a skinny Domme or SSBBW, keep looking and don't waste my time. I am not a pro-Domme or looking for one night stands meaning, if you don't have time to invest so that we can see if we are compatible, keep it stepping. I seek only that SERIOUS man who knows his place is at the foot of his Domme (or under my desk as we work). I am not looking for an on-line/cyber relationship. It may begin here, but, should not remain here past the introductory stages.
While I am not, actively, looking for a husband or to commit to someone I just met, I am looking for friendship FIRST with possibility for a long-term monogamous relationship that transcends the walls and bedroom. I am into mental control/power exchange as well as one that enjoys spankings. Taking a phrase from a friend-"If I can't have the mind, I don't want the behind." Thus, I seek that person in tune to the mental aspect of D/s. Once the mind is entered, the possibilities become endless.
Presently, I seek that strong Black man who is sure of himself. In the vanilla world, this individual does not need to assert himself as his demeanor commands respect. The average person will not recognize his NEED to surrender control to the woman he serves. He will enjoy many of the same pleasures I enjoy as our time together will not be limited to the house and/or bedroom. He can hold his own and many will think him to be a confidant, chivalrous, gentleman. But, he knows that his desire is to bring pleasure to his Goddess in all ways deriving his satisfaction from providing this service.
He acknowledges and understands the need of an equally strong, ambitious woman to let her hair down at home and bask in the joy, security and freedom of knowing her submissive can and will take care of her and see to her needs as she gives him the same consideration and support. He is more than happy to assist her in cooking or cooking for her. He has no problem with other domestic duties whether performing them with his Domme or for her. His mindset is to make life as easy for his Queen as he is able. He has a good sense of humor and does not take offense at mine. He quickly learns to read my vibes, taking care of my needs without my having to say a word. He has a brain and is very adept at using it. He completes assignments and/or tasks with very little guidance (If you cannot think for yourself and need me to direct your every action with significant detail, you are not for me.).
I am a female that enjoys everything to do with spankings. I enjoy keeping a man on hard with a freshly spanked butt.
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Hmmmm
Are there any truly submissive men out there who are not afraid to walk in their destiny? Are there any here who desire to walk in integrity (being true to who you are whether seen or unseen)?
I have been contacted by several men who identify themselves as submissive yet, they have no desire for a real life encounter. While I respect the decision of those to continue living in a fantasy world, I am not seeking a fantasy encounter. Thus, I must ask that those whose only desire is inworld, INET, fantasy, chat, phone, etc. to please not waste MY time. |
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Is it too much to ask?
Is it too much to ask for a Man to serve Me - A Woman?
Is it too much to ask that he prepare My bath, help and/or cook My meals, clean the house?
Is it too much to ask that he service My car, yard, or run My errands?
Is it too much to ask that the cock used during our private play be his - not Mine (unless I decide to use one on him)?
Is it too much to ask that I be the one who dictates what takes place in and out the bedroom?
Is it too much to ask that he keep it hard for me and only cum when I give him permission to do so?
Is it too much to ask that the only one who dresses as a woman is Me - Not him?
Is it too much to ask that he wear a thong/jock strap and, occasionally an apron?
Is it too much to ask that he be nude in My presence unless told otherwise?
Is it too much to ask that he be unashamedly and chivalrously a man?
Is it too much to ask that he open and/or hold the door for Me?
Is it too much to ask that he pulls out My chair, helps Me dress or with My coat?
Is it too much to ask for a strong man to submit to Me - a strong Woman?
Is it too much to ask him to sit at My feet and do My bidding?
Is it too much to ask him to follow My directions as I mold him into the best sub/slave for Me?
Is it too much to ask that you understand a man who submits is still a REAL man?
Is it too much to ask that you respect the decision of a man to submit to a strong woman?
Is is too much to ask that maintain his dignity, pride and character as the man he is?
Is it too much to ask? |
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What is the problem with persons reading profiles? That will save a lot of time and effort. Take the time to read my profile and you may not continue to get rejected.
I, specifically, state I am not looking to cyber. Yet, I incessantly receive messages asking to become my cam slut. I do not derive any pleasure out of watching anyone playing with themselves on cam whether under my direction or not. You would know this if you take the time to read.
I am not looking for a long-distance and/or online relationship. So, why do you guys 100s of miles away keep contacting me-especially if you have no plans on re-locating if things work out?
From my experience, it is those who are not serious that tend to choose people who are physically distant so they don't have to concern themselves with the possibility of someday meeting. There may be ladies on here interested in similar situations. I am not one. I am not a game-player. Had you read my profile you would know this. |
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I notice many writing about all the fakers on here. Be honest and be clear. If you don't plan on eventually having a real time relationship, say so. I mean, we're all adults. I'm tired of the game players. I've lived a drama free life all these years and I'll be darned if I'm about to allow some fake men that have no clue as to what it means to be a submissive add any to my life, now.
Black submissive men ask why Black women tend to have slaves of other ethnic backgrounds. I say because of you that attempt to top from the bottom, that approach straight women when you really want to be a woman, approach women with no intentions of ever meeting choosing to only play with emotions, don't know what you really want-say you'll do anything only to do nothing.
Read my complete profile before contacting me. It's pretty detailed and I've completed the checklist (although they are not updated to show more recent experiences). If it does not seem we are compatible, move on. There is someone out there for you, it just might not be me and I'm perfectly fine with that. We are adults-don't be desperate.
And, don't make plans to meet me and Not show. I will put you on blast. |
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Interesting Observation
What an interesting observation,
About an appalling insinuation;
Submissive is what you claim to be
Topping from the bottom is all it appears to me.
You say you require help getting your life on-track
You do not follow commands and that is a fact.
You claim direction, guidance, and discipline is what you want and need
Even as you refuse to complete even the smallest deed.
Your words voice that your only desire is to please a beautiful Goddess
Your actions say you are just seeking kinky sex.
You do not want to follow any command
Nevertheless, you claim a desire to be taken in hand.
You have the audacity to wonder why you have not made a connection
You cannot comprehend why you keep meeting with rejection.
All the serious Dommes you dare to approach
Then, when they read you, you run from reproach.
Be true to yourself for true submission it seems
Is only an intense scene borne of your dreams.
Now do not take offense at these words of mine.
They are an interesting observation that on this sight I did find.
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