not2hard4me

I enjoy this type of activity as an enhancement to my vanilla life. I'm looking for something more along the lines of a long term relationship and hope to find someone with whom I can enjoy various aspects of my life with in and out of the bedroom. I am more dominant than submissive but I enjoy switching it up. It just depends on the dynamics of the relationship.

I have an active life so if you run, bike, or swim we would have a better chance of spending time together. I do intermediate level triathlons and I am working my way to an Ironman. If you do not workout chance are we have nothing in common.

I have never been in a D/s relationship but have had enough experiences to know what I enjoy. I still have many things left to experiment with and hope to find a connection that will broaden my horizons.

Finding this multi-dimensional relationship will take time. I'm willing to wait for the right one. Sorry, but attraction is important even though it is not the deciding factor.

PLEASE, NO MARRIED MEN!!!