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Male Dominant, 45, Nor-cal, California
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Male Submissive, 27, Piscataway, New Jersey
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Male Submissive, 19, Olathe, Kansas
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About Nikko1962
If you sometimes feel like an ocean of emotion that keeps running into puddles and if against your better judgment you still like men please keep reading.
Publicly I am a cliché’, confident, ambitious and disciplined. I work in the technology/financial arena as a senior executive and have lived and worked abroad extensively. I am well educated and continue to actively increase my knowledge of the world and myself.
To strangers and casual acquaintances, I can seem shy, cautious and somewhat reserved. Once I build a level of trust, I warm up very quickly. However, I have seldom, if ever, have had the desire or inclination to be the life of the party. Privately I am expressive, vulnerable and gentle. Though at times I can be overly burdened by my gender, I am a passable cook, give great massages and am conversant in subjects other than football, cars and fishing.
I consider loyalty, personal integrity and character much more than just convenient words or hollow outdated ideas. As much as I love the adrenaline rush of high-risk sports such as windsurfing and the martial arts, I also enjoy live theater, quiet evenings over a chessboard and brushing my lovers hair while sharing the days events. I generally find cocktail party small talk exhausting and mind numbing, but when properly motivated, I can be somewhat charming at a social event or family function. My preferred social outlets are small quiet dinners with stimulating discussion about ideas and concepts. My work requires me to be assertive and extroverted, yet I regain my strength from quiet downtime. I protect and guard my energy for those who are closest to me, with whom I spend it happily and freely.
I am very happy with my life and the man I have become. Being alone is not a burden for me. Being in a relationship is not so much of a need as it is a desire to express my affection.
The woman that I’m looking to express this affection for, some would say, does not exist. I believe she exists in all her feminine wonder. She is a cerebral, provocative, sultry, athletic woman who is willing to travel the world with me. If you have had the magical experience of dining in public where quiet conversation between two people turns into a very intimate connection and you realize that time and the outside world have quietly faded away we may have much in common.
I thoroughly enjoy the company of intelligent, refined women. I am very interested in how you think and what you think about. Being somewhat competitive I find it mildly amusing that I don’t mind losing a well thought out argument or premise to someone I respect and admire. Please note: I didn’t say I liked it, I just don’t mind it. J I prefer women who are not easily influenced by those around them. In short I very much enjoy independent thinkers who make conscious, personal choices about what they want to experience and believe in their life.
If you feel safe following the crowd or are constantly worrying about what people might be thinking about you, we might not be the best fit. However, I find it extremely attractive that even though you hide it well underneath your public face, you have a very high level of confidence in yourself. I love the difference between men and women, the subtle thrill of flirty banter, and women with more than a touch of bad girl inside, sort of a wild librarian with an Ann Rice appetite for the exotic. You are invariably un-intimidated by people or situations. Sensual and unconventional, you are far more daring and courageous than many people think is safe.
I have found that the intimacy level in traditional vanilla relationships leaves me bored, wanting and unexcited and thus, I find that I am unable to settle. While I find 24/7 unrealistic and tiring, I do find the ever-present awareness and undercurrent of the power dynamic intoxicating. The extended foreplay of passion, psychology and endurance makes me feel like a prized possession. If you instinctively know the power of an upraised eyebrow from across a crowded room, we might have many ideas and thoughts to amuse one another.
I find a woman who has the confidence to let me know that she is wrapping me around one of her delicate manicured fingers and has the feminine power to carry it off with style, delightful and irresistible. Women who are discerning enough to be able to know when to use their mind like a feather or a scalpel and are subtle enough to make the hammer of their mind feel like a soft caress, are nothing less than intriguing.
If after countless hours of self reflection you’re still find yourself a walking contradiction and enigma, if you’re fluent in the languages of the body and if you can gently pull down the walls of my pride, I would love to speak with you. |
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